It is with deep sorrow that we share the passing of our much loved Daryl Paradice. Daryl lived an exemplary life. He was one of the kindest, gentlest, loving men to walk this earth. His patience and caring knew no bounds. Daryl spent his entire life helping others.
Daryl was born in Victoria to Arthur and Sylvia Paradice. He had a great love for family. There were many fond childhood stories to tell of living on North Dairy Road with his parents and younger Brother Russ and their close relationship to Grandparents Charles Bertram and Grace Tallack. Playing road hockey on the street in front of his home with his brother and friends was a highlight. The family enjoyed holidays in Parksville, BC and in 1986, Daryl and his parents began leasing an apartment at Ocean Terrace. Daryl had a special place in his heart for Parksville and he and wife Ruth kept and enjoyed it until 2017.
Daryl was always a hard worker. As a teenager, he worked at his Uncle Charlie’s Dairy Queen on Hillside Avenue. A meteorological hobbyist from a young age, Daryl followed his true calling of becoming a weather technician for Environment Canada working at Gonzales weather station and briefly at Estevan Point Lighthouse. When automation reduced the requirement for weather technicians, Daryl attended Camosun College to attain a degree in business administration but he continued to have a passion for weather technology, reading and interpreting patterns that lasted his entire life.
In February 1981, Daryl began a career with Old Age Security Programs, Government of Canada. Daryl’s work ethics, ability to relate to others, organization and extensive knowledge of Old Age Security Act was reflected in his dedication to providing outstanding service to the lives of Canadian citizens. These ethics also led to opportunities for advancement within the department as a coach, mentor and adviser for years to follow. When he retired in February 2012, he was loved and respected as a favorite Business Expertise Advisor. Daryl was very proud of what he had accomplished but his main source of pride was the people that attended his classes and their successes.
In 1994, Daryl met Ruth, his future wife and the love of his life. Together they traveled the world on countless cruises and vacations to over 40 countries, and experienced life to the fullest. Daryl was most excited about crossing the Arctic Circle and his favorite place was Greenland. His future dreams were to retrace the route of the Northwest passage. Ruth’s children Jennifer and Bob Paget welcomed him as a cherished family member recognizing with grateful hearts Daryl’s immense love for their Mother. Daryl cared very deeply for his new family and did everything he could to help out in any way possible.
We will all remember Daryl for his wonderful sense of humor, he enjoyed getting a response and all the teasing that would ensue. There was a depth to Daryl that many people did not experience. He was politically engaged and strongly felt that health, education and affordable housing were of primary importance. One of his greatest concerns was for clean water for our Northern Communities.
He really enjoyed the quiet side to his life with his beloved wife and pets by his side. Happy hour was a daily tradition and he enjoyed his glass of white wine. Daryl was a sports enthusiast and rooted life long for the Minnesota Vikings and Winnipeg Blue Bombers. Daryl and Ruth were also devoted fans of the Victoria Grizzlies hockey club and loved attending games together. Daryl was a lover of music and a master of music trivia.
Daryl leaves to mourn his wife Ruth Paradice and Step daughter Jennifer Paget of Victoria, BC; Brother Russ Paradice (Martha) and nephew Danny of Texcoco, Mexico as well as numerous friends and extended family.
A Memorial Service with a reception to follow will take place on Saturday, December 7, 2019 at 2:00 pm in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Daryl’s memory to a charity of your choice.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Joseph Wong
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Mark Nyhof I was so sad when I learned that Daryl had passed away. He was such kind man with so many great qualities. I will, especially, always remember his wonderful sense of humour. I have lots of good memories and feel very lucky to have known him. Deepest condolences to Ruth and Russ.
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Gina Marshall It is with great sadness to year of Daryl’s passing. My condolences Ruth.
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Jan Horne I’m so sorry to hear of Daryl’s passing. I was very fortunate to have him as one of my trainers in OAS. He always had such sensible and encouraging advice. He was certainly an island of calm in a stressful sea. Although his career was nearing its end just as mine was beginning, the time we worked together was memorable in the best way. My condolences to Ruth and their families.
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Barb Dentry My condolences to you and all your family, Ruth. Daryl was such a sweet man – He will be missed.
Sincerely
Barb Dentry
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Adrien Thomas So sorry for your loss Ruth
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George munro Dear Ruth, Aileen and I are very sorry to hear about Daryl. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. George and Aileen Munro.
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Debbie Cozens I miss the best brother in law anyone could ask for ,,he loved and cherish my sister and her family so much i am forever grateful for that ,,he was one in a million ,,a true gentleman ,,in many ways ,,i loved him for who he was,,
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Geri E Simpson Had I not been in Mesa Arizona I would be there to give you a hug Ruth. You and Daryl had so many great trips, and many other memories to hold.
When I first met Daryl I noticed he had such a soft voice, like his personality as I was to find out as I go to know him. I know everyone will miss him dearly my condolences. Geri Simpson
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Margaret Skadberg With sadness I would like to say how sorry I am to hear of Daryl’s passing. Of all the people I knew from working for The Government of Canada Daryl was one of the very best, for his humanity and his kindness to everyone. What a gift that he and Ruth thoroughly enjoyed their lives together, how full those years were and the great love they shared. May God lift you up and comfort you in your sorrow.
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Catherine Sturgeon Although I had not seen Daryl since 1969, it with sadness that I read of his passing. I remember Daryl fondly from elementary school. He was a very quiet, kind and friendly boy. My condolences to his family you have truly suffered a great loss.
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Caroline Hudson My sincere condolences to you, Ruth. I thought Daryl was so very lucky to have met you and enjoy the life you two had together. You introduced him to the world through the cruises and the other travel you two experienced and he always seemed delighted to talk about the places you had visited. He was a pleasant co-worker and I’m sure all of his friends will miss him.
With sincere thoughts, Ruth. Caroline Hudson Victoria
My condolences to Mr. Paradice’s family. He assisted me and my parents many years ago (2004).
I recall to this day how kind he was and although both my parents now also have passed, were were all very grateful for his friendly and compassionates assistance. The words above, in the fourth paragraph, are completely in keeping with our family’s experience of his help to us. We wish him and his family peace. I am sorry for not having been able to express my condolences closer to Mr. Paradice’s untimely passing but I have only come across this obituary now. I don’t know if any of this will make any difference or even if it will come to the attention of anyone who knew Mr. Paradice, but I felt it was important for you to know that he made a real difference to many others.