Judy was born in Edmonton and was raised in the area through High School. She married Jim McLaughlin in 1965 and shortly afterwards the couple moved to the Coquitlam area of Greater Vancouver. She became involved with church affairs and child care, adopted a son Peter, and cared for a foster child.
By the 1980’s her life was shattered with the onset of bipolar disorder. She needed to have care in handling this disease which resulted in a divorce and significant separation from her family. By the 1990’s she was in “Long Term Care” in Victoria where a brother was available to relieve her aging parents in providing family support.
Judy leaves behind her son Peter, foster daughter Joni Mills, two brothers David and Stanley Brygadyr, one sister Lois Hamlett, numerous cousins, nieces Sheila Beckley and Alayne Brygadyr-McCoy, and precious grand nephew Quinn McCoy.
Judy was cremated and her remains will be interred alongside her mother at Mooswa Cemetery, Lindbergh, Alberta.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Kathryn Silas It was a pleasure getting to know Judith. I met Judith at Beacon Hill villa as I was caring for my Auntie. Eventually I became a companion to Judith, going on car rides, shopping trips and out for coffee and lunch. Judith was always fun to spend time with, she was a cheerful and fun person to be around! I have so many happy memories of Judith and am going to miss having her in my life. My condolences to Stanley and family.
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Cheryl and Hermann went I was very sad to hear of Judy’s death. Judy and I were best friends from the time we were 12 years old and in grade 6. She lived across the alley from me and we did everything together … skating, shopping, baking, sleepovers, games, church groups, dinners and attending school. She was so smart and I remember she won a Governor General’s Award in Junior High for her superior marks. We attended each other’s weddings and my husband and I visited her a few times in B.C. We kept in touch over the years, although the later years were more difficult to maintain. We often spoke about our past and our teenage years together. She had a good memory and we were able to laugh about the past. She often spoke about her family and how important they were to her – especially Stanley, Peter and Quinn. I will remember her cheery disposition, her positive outlook and her laugh. I’m very thankful that her obituary was posted in the Edmonton Journal, so I could learn of her passing. The next time my husband and I are near Lindbergh, AB, we will make a point to visit Judy at the Mooswa Cemetery.
My condolences to Judy’s family and friends,
Cheryl and Hermann Went
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Alayne Brygadyr-McCoy My aunt Judy was a wonderful, kind soul and she will be dearly missed by my family. My dad always did his best to make sure she was well taken care of. We love you Judy. xoxo Alayne, Connor and Quinn
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Anneke Wijkstra In Judith’s last years she was living in Beacon Hill Villa and there I met this wonderful women. I work at the recreation department and had the opportunity to get to know her well. Judith and I became friends from day one until she passed. I will miss her laugh, dancing, singing, joking, clapping, positive energy and so much more. I learned from her to be positive in life even on dark moments.
Thank you Judith that you came in life.Condolences to her family, specially Stanley how she loves.
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Sharon Lynn McGaughey I went to school with Judy starting with attending Hardisty Jr. High. I remember her as a bright, funny, young girl. So sorry for your loss.
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Andrea Hamel Judy was my godmother, and cheerfully took on becoming my kids’ ‘great godmother’. Judy was fantastic at keeping in touch, calling to let me know how things were going for her and checking in with me and my family. She was always so positive, and her calls were a ray of sunshine. I have great memories of travelling to the island to visit her, going for coffee, shopping for no-sugar sweets, or just hanging out at her place and catching up. I will miss her very much. Sending condolences to her family and friends.
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Joni Mills Judy was my foster mother for five very important years of my life. She took me in and loved me unconditionally. She taught me how to cook, sew, play guitar and sing. I learned to love books, art and music through her teachings. She provided a safe and loving environment in which to grow and mature. I credit a lot of where I am today because of her and I will never forget her teaching me kindness through her actions. She taught me it was ok to express myself and my feelings and that I was valued, To live a life of love and compassion. Judy has made a lifelong impact on me in the best way possible.
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Jean Hamel Fondest memories of my dear friend, Judy.
We met in 1976 at All Saints in Coquitlam. She is our daughter’s godmother and was a member of our St. Pat’s group of moms. Judy loved music and children and always had a hug and a smile to share. Although her life wasn’t always easy, she was filled with love and caring. She will be missed.Condolences to her family and friends.
My family and I are extremely saddened to hear of Judy’s passing. We have many happy memories of Judy and my sister, who shared an apartment with Judy for almost 20 years. A caring & helpful roommate to my sister, she was also a wonderful friend to our family, and we stayed in touch after they parted.
She will be sadly missed. Sincere condolences to her family.