Pam was born on March 20, 1962 in Prince Rupert, BC, died peacefully on September 21, 2021. She will be missed by her husband Grant, her son Tyler Venn, wife Sarah and grandchildren Sienna and Logan; her parents Gerry and Hilda McCrae; her brother Kirk and his family; her many other relatives and friends.

A Celebration of Pam’s life will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, on Thursday, October 7, 2021 at 2:00 pm. For the safety of our guests, we require full COVID vaccination.

For those wishing to attend virtually via zoom please click the link below. Please use your video camera when joining so that family in attendance can see you and feel your support.

Thank you to Dr. Murcell, Dr. Lemaitre along with her staff and nurses at Victoria General Hospital, Royal Jubilee Hospital and the Cancer Clinic.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Victoria Hospital Foundation  and (or) BC Cancer Agency

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

McCall Gardens

  • Lisa Chan

    So sorry for the loss of a beautiful person who brought so much joy to so many. My deepest condolences.

  • George and Liz Wright

    Hilda and Jerry. We are so sad to hear of Pams passing. George and I send our prayers to you all. God will see you through this. Take care of each other and hope to see you soon. God Bless. George and Liz.

  • John and Susan Snidar

    We very much regret that a sudden and unexpected medical issue kept us from attending Pam’s Celebration of Life. Please know you have all been in our thoughts and prayers as you mourn the loss of your beautiful and much loved wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, daughter and sister. She will be missed by many. We are sending you our love

  • Dorothy Pagan

    Gerry and Hilda, my deepest Sympathy to you both, no parent should ever have to lay a child to Rest. My heart goes out to both of you I can only imagine how both of you are feeling. Big Hugs to both of you.

    Dorothy Pagan

  • Dale & Clive

    Grant & family, sending our heartfelt condolences to you all. We shall miss Pam’s beautiful smile, loving friendship and treasure all the wonderful memories.

    Dale & Clive

  • Madi

    Each work-day morning I would look for Pam as she walked by the window near my desk – seeing Pam was part of a ‘good start to a good day with a good person.’ How deeply saddened I am to learn that now we our mourning her loss. God Bless you, Pam.

  • Ken & Patty

    Thinking about you today, and sending our thoughts to you all as you gather. The sun is shining on you, as Pam’s lovely smile and twinkling eyes shone on everyone.

  • Mike Newburg

    Hey Grant,
    I’m sorry I haven’t reached out sooner but I want you to know you have been in our hearts since Pam has passed.
    Can’t even imagine what you guys went though this summer. I wish I could have got to know Pam more than we did.
    Makes me want to stay closer to my cousins.
    All our love to you, Tyler and his family.
    We will come visit soon.
    Love Mike.

  • Anne Thomson

    Pam was truly a treasured person, and will be sorely missed by her friends and family. As a former co-worker, I will always remember her cheery smile and how she brightened the day for those around her.
    With deepest sympathy, Anne

  • Jill Forbes

    Sending so much love and our deepest sympathy on receiving news of Pam’s passing. She was so kind and lovely to everyone: truly a bright light. Auntie Hilda, Uncle Gerry, and Kirk, we’re so terribly sorry for your loss. I hope to have the opportunity soon, to give each of you the warmest hug. xoxo

  • Sandra Loo

    There are no words to adequately express my deep sorrow and sadness at learning of Pam’s passing. We met in May 1984 when we first worked together. She was always a bright light. Shine on Pam, may you rest in peace.

  • Shirley & Rick Buckley

    Our best buddy Grant and Family,

    Words can not convey to you our sorrow for the loss of Pam your dearest loved one and our best buddy too.
    We will always cherrish in our hearts and memories all the moments we have shared together. Pam shone brighter than the sun and lit everyones spirits. The most brilliant star at night will continue to guide us all in Pam’s honour. We will miss her so much. Our hearfelt love is with you all. Love Shirley & Rick

  • Ed and Ann Flegel

    Hilda, Jerry and family. Our deepest condolence for your loss of Pam.We hope peace finds you and may your memories of Pam help you in your time of sorrow.

  • George Gordon

    Grant and Family,
    My deepest condolences for your loss. May Pam rest in peace.

    George Gordon

  • Angela, Max and Tessa

    We are so sorry for your loss, Grant. Pam was such a beautiful, sweet soul and we were privileged to know her. Our hearts are with you.

  • Edna and Ray Hudson

    Grant, Tyler, Sarah and family, Hilda, Gerry, and Kirk . We are shocked and saddened to hear of Pamela’s passing. A bright, kind and beautiful person. Pam was a joy to see at our large family gatherings. She will be fondly remembered. She is gone too soon. This is a very difficult time. Our heartfelt sympathy, love and prayers are with you. Ellen, Edna and Ray, Sarah and Jarret Kaufman, Laura and Rory Sutherland

  • Rosie Slater

    I am so sorry to hear this news. She was such a bright light in this world! Thinking of you and sending my condolences.

  • Eric & Marnie

    So sorry to hear this devastating news. Our thoughts are with everyone during this difficult time.

  • Richard and Jessie

    Our dear Grant. We are absolutely stunned by the loss of your prescious Pam. Pam brought you such joy, happiness and strength. It is wonderful that you have a great relationship with Tyler and his family. They will support you . We will zoom the service but we have no camera. We send you all of our love.

  • Bob Wheaton

    Grant : I was so sorry to read of the loss of your beautiful wife. Although I didn’t know her, you must have made a great couple as she sounds as lovely a person as you are a gentleman. I wish you well and want you to know how much I admired you, as I did your Dad. All the best, Bob Wheaton

  • Harj Dosanjh

    Grant,so sorry for your loss.condolences to you and your family.Take care of your self.

  • John van den Hengel ( worked with CC )

    Hi Grant – I was shocked to learn about you losing Pamela. My sincere condolences with your loss.

  • Dolores Dombowsky

    Grant, Tyler & Family: Hilda,Gerry & Kirk
    Our deepest condolences in the Loss of Your Loved one-Pam
    Wishing you times of Peace-knowing Pam’s Lovingly Memories will always be with you to Strengthen, Guide and Comfort you through one of the hardest and most difficult times in life-Sorrow!
    Pam- you have left a Void in our Family, but you will be held in our Families Hearts Forever – may Pam “REST IN PEACE”

    Our Sincere Sympathy: Dolores, Blaine & Hannah Dombowsky
    Loretta & Leigh Bowerin & Families

    We plan on joining you in Zoom for Pam’s Celebration of Life
    We plan to join you in Zoom for Pam’s Celebration of Life

  • Glen Domenico

    So sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences.

  • Brenda Loney

    Even though we are away we will join you by zoom to honour precious Pam & celebrate her life so fully lived but ending too soon. Our condolences to each & everyone & prayers for you all moving forward. A beautiful soul released from her pain but never to be forgotten. Blessings,

    Brenda & Barry Loney

  • Ed and Corinne Bekar

    Ed and Corinne send their sincere condolences to Grant, Tyler and Sarah & children, Hilda and Gerry, and to all who loved Pam. May her memory be eternal.

  • A & A

    Pamelita, how we love you so. It is your time to grow onto other adventures beyond this earthly life. Somehow we know you will not be lingering far as you will want to watch your beautiful family doing their wonderful things with a little Pamelita sparkle in every step. Sending you all so much love – Alison and Antonio.

  • Lynn Davison

    So very sorry for your loss, Grant. Deepest condolences for you and your family.

  • Gale Bryant

    Pam was such a bright, thoughtful, wonderful friend. She lit up the room, especially when talking about her family. I will miss her giggle too.
    Much love

  • Patricia Flegel

    My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

    Pat Flegel

  • Ron and Sherry Doak

    We are deeply saddened on your loss. While no one and nothing can fill the hole created by the loss of your loved one, Pam has left us with so many wonderful memories. She was a vibrant and radiant person who brought a tremendous amount of joy, love, and laughter to those around her. We were so lucky to have her in our lives and she will live on in our hearts forever. We are thinking of you and sending heartfelt condolences.

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