Stephanie was born in Annapolis Royal, Nova Scotia on December 13, 1950 to Don and Betty Trim. She is survived by her loving family, husband, Gerry; son, Tyler (Heather); grandchildren, Avery and Faith; daughter, Kimberly Bregg (Quentin); grandson, Parker; stepson, Duane (Lauren); grandsons, Liam and Aidan; sister, Jill Stokes (Dean) and many relatives and friends. She was predeceased by her brother, Scott in 1978.
Stephanie graduated from Vic High in 1969. She worked at Capital Iron, BC Government in Premier Dave Barrett’s office as Secretary, Fish and Wildlife, Attorney General’s, BC Government Manager’s Association, School District 61 in Maintenance and then spent 20 years at Monterey Middle School as School Secretary. She retired after she became ill, eventually succumbing to Alzheimer’s Disease on November 14, 2016 at Luther Court Community of Care. Stephanie was treated with care and compassion at Patient Care at Royal Jubilee Hospital for 18 months and the staff at Luther Court pampered her to no end for almost two years. I personally thank all the staff at these facilities. Stephanie’s end of life care was incredible at Luther Court. How these brave and compassionate people do what they do with limited staff is unbelievable. From the top to the bottom they all work together. To the staff on 3rd floor West, Bravo!! Thanks go to Dr. Robert Shepherd for his genuine care of Stephanie. He visited Stephanie often and thanks to Dr. Kent Butler for saving Steph’s feet!
Stephanie loved her children and she loved life in general. Rest in peace my love. You were my everything!! Forever yours, your loving family and friends from St. John’s Newfoundland/Labrador to Victoria, you were loved by all as we travelled Canada with curling. Until we meet again – Ger!
A Celebration of Life will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, on Monday, November 21, 2016 at 10:30 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Luther Court, 1525 Cedar Hill Cross Road, Victoria, BC, V8P 5M1 or to the Alzheimer’s Association, 202-306 Burnside Road W, Victoria, BC, V8Z 1M1.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
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Gerry Lister
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Gerry Lister Three weeks have passed since you left us in body, but, your spirit will live on in all your Family and Friends!A true treasure that will never duplicated, but , your Granddaughters have a lot of you in them! Avery, as Devon said, is you all over again!!!! Dev could see her Godmother in her niece Avery, such a wonderful tribute! I’ll start each day and end each day with , I will always love you, until we meet again! This crying to sleep every night is a great weight loss program. Hahaha! Love to all and love to Stephanie! Think pleasant memories, that’s all there where with Stephanie!
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Gerry Lister Well Hon, your there and I’m here, but, you will always remain in my heart! You were my Hero!
Love you every minute of the day!
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Gerry Lister Still sad, but, at the same time glad! You are at peace now in the loving arms of your Mom, Dad, Scott and My Parents Jerry and Kay! So many wonderful people to greet you with, There she comes! Love you to death Stephanie one of Gods wonders gone home!
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Gerry Lister Love my Baby! She was so wonderful! She was unique, Stephanie was one of a kind. Did I pick the right one? Such a gentle and kind person!I just said to myself today, wow was I so fortunate to have 46 years of Steph by my side! Yea!
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Gerry Lister Well Sweetheart, you’ve arrived! When we all said goodbye for now, there where those that are rejoicing your arrival! Your Friends and Family gave you the greatest send off. I’m so proud of the eulogies from Tyler, Kimberly, Gil, Vinnie, Trish and Leanne, finally your Goddaughter, who nailed it with her tribute to you. Mentioning how much Avery is so like you actually stunned me at how correct Dev was. There will never be a day pass that I wont pay tribute to you. My everything, my soulmate, the love of my Life! I’m not sad Hon, I’m glad! You fought from the womb to the grave! Your smile lit up a room and touched every person near you! This tribute to you on Monday , November 21st was a small expression of love from your Friends , work mates and Family! I only hope things will straighten out here on Earth, so you may rest in peace! It’s time to swallow pride and join together as one beautiful Family. I take all the responsibility for those I upset, it wasn’t all my fault, but, I’m willing to bury the hatchet! I love all my relatives and Friends, they just mellow out! My sense of humor may upset people, but only if they want it to!Cheers and Thanks for showing up on Monday !
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Wayne and Eileen Cannon Dear Gerry and family,
We were unable to attend the service, but wanted to let you know we are thinking of you.
Stephanie was a wonderful person. Her last years were difficult for everyone including Stephanie. Keep your memories close always, we are sure she is in a better place and is watching all of you from above. Our deepest condolences.Wayne and Eileen
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John and Marilyn Bate Dear Gerry and Family:
We are very sorry to learn of Stephanie’s passing.
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Most Sincerely
John and Marilyn Bate
Victoria, BC
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Jim Faulconbridge Hey Coach , so sorry for your loss, it was nice to hear Stephanie had such a great medical team at the end , well done to everyone. Gerry , better day’s ahead, stay strong and god bless. Jim & Ben Faulconbridge.
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Leslie Rrece Gerry and family, my condolences to you all. As a co-worker and friend, Stephanie greatly enriched my life with our many chats about life, family and such while working at Monterey. She was so compassionate, caring and supportive when I was dealing with my husband’s cancer and later when I became a widow. Steph was special and brought a ray of sunshine wherever she went. She is now free to go help many others, God bless her. Leslie Reece
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Barb & Carl Sandberg We are so sorry for your loss. She sounded like such a wonderful person. You chatted about her on and off the ice. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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ray cooper Heartfelt condolences,Gerry, to yourself and family at this saddest of times. All my love to you and yours, old friend.
Ray Cooper
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Trudy Briggs Dear Gerry, Tyler, Kimberly and families,
We are so sorry that we can’t be at Stephanie’s celebration of life but our thoughts will be with you.
She was a wonderful person, loved by many and left us too soon.
Mike and Trudy Briggs
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Glennis and Ralph Reynolds To Gerry and all your family, we offer our deepest condolences, we are unable to attend the services, but our thought will be with you all.
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Gerry Lister I’m at peace now. Family and Friends are here to Honor the Life of Stephanie and you best believe there will be a Celebration of Stephanie’s Life! Look out McCall Gardens. We will break that beautiful building in! Hahaha! Cheers! Gerry and Family!
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Harry Ruitenbeek We would like to express our deepest sorrow to you and your family in the loss of Stephanie. We send our love and prayers in this trying time. We are glad that you had 44 wonderful years together. Love Harry and Gerri Ruitenbeek
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Gerry Lister Those who knew Stephanie Lister, knew a kind and gentle person. Never to say a bad thing about anyone. She was always there for our Children and their friends. She assisted in many things with our extended family. She solved problems, gave direction and truly loved those that came to her! You know who you are and I know deep down, that you will have ever lasting memories of Mama Steph. Stephanie loved each and every student that passed through Monterey School. She instilled confidence in those that lacked it, she directed those who needed direction, she cared for those who needed love, she aided the sick and injured and most of all she loved the respect she received from the Staff! Anywhere Stephanie traveled, she was a magnet to people from Prince Edward Island, Scotland all the way to Victoria ! A true, true treasure for us all to share. Her devotion to her Friends and Family was second
to none!She was my everything. I will attempt to extend her legacy through me and continue to help anyone who requires it! She loved our Granddaughter Avery, the only one she really knew, but Faith and Parker will soon learn what a Wonder of The World their Nana was! Liam and Aidan our Step Grandsons, enjoyed their time with Grama Steph and loved her! All is not lost, Stephanie’s memory will linger on in our hearts and many stories that will be told of Steph, she was truly, One of a Kind! Love you Hon, Ger!
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Diane MacPherson To Gerry and Family,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss… Stephanie was such a sweet soul, ” A real angel”. It was a blessing to have known her. As a fellow “Maritimer”, what a gift you all had of belonging to her… Her love for all of you will continue on. Again, I am so deeply saddened by your loss, and yet so joyous that she is now resting in the loving care of God, where there is no more suffering for her. You are in my thoughts and prayers…
All my love,
Diane xxx
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Mrs. Judy Bingham (Robbins) George and I are thinking of you Gerry and families! Cherish the memories as I am sure there are many! Take care of each other as I am sure Stephanie will be missed.
George and judy Bingham
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Brad Mundy Steph wasn’t supposed to pass away before me. So sad to hear this. Wishing you strength, Gerry. And the same wish for Jill and Dean.
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Darlene and Russ Ricketts Dear Gerry and family,
We are heartbroken for you all with Steph’s passing. Tyler your mom was an amazing and funny woman, she was the “other mom” to our son Vince many years ago. I remember Steph talking about “the boys” narratives and antics, laughing about them piercing their ears with an ice cube and potato! Gerry and Stephanie would open their home to others and welcome everyone, that graciousness will not be forgotten . There are great memories to treasure and cherish, just know Steph is in God’s arms now at peace. Our sincere condolences to everyone . Darlene and Russ Ricketts and family.
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Bill Smith Our thoughts are with you Gerry during this difficult time, Step was a great lady and a pleasure to know. You duties over the past number of years in caring for her have been enormous and appreciated. It is now time to look after Tyler and Kimberly and more important your grandkids. We will be unable to attend service as we are in Vancouver. Take care of yourself and hope to see you soon.
Bill & Donna Smith
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Pat and Susan Matthews Dearest Gerry and family, we are so sorry to hear the sad news. Stephanie was a lovely kind and gentle person. She will be missed by all that knew her. Our thoughts are with you.
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Janet Toews Dear Gerry, Tyler, Kimberly and families,
Please our accept our most sincere condolences on the loss of Stephanie. May her memory live in your hearts forever.
Janet and RIchard Toews.
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Jane Shury, Battleford, Sask My dear Gerry and family
Sincere condolences from the Directors of the Saskatchewan Baseball Hall of Fame and Museum as well as very personal sympathy from myself.
Jane
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Gerry Lister My Love, my Life, my everything, I will love until we meet again. I’m taking you to the Crematorium as planned and will be their to the end. Whitey will be there to assist, such a great Friend and Godfather to Kimberly! It’s not good bye, it’s see you later Hon! I’m already dying a thousand deaths not being able to hold you! I’ll make it because of you, you presented me with two of the most beautiful treasures that could be never duplicated. Tyler and Kimberly! You made it possible for Avery and Faith to be on earth. Then came Parker our Grandson, what a legacy you left for me to instill your qualities. How wonder this will be. I will let your Grandchildren know what a beautiful person you are. They will live in your shadow, just knowing that they had the Perfect Nana! Ty, Heather, Kimberly and Quentin will tell tales about you and they will truly understand how Great You Were! Til we meet again, I still have much love saved for that joyous reunion! God only takes the best, I’m surprised he waited this long! But, I’m glad he allowed me 46 wonderful years with you! Say hi to the gang up there. Hurting, but, know I will be in your arms when I’m called. I love you!
4 and 1/2 months have gone by and I think of you by the second! Sad but glad to have been your Husband for almost 45 years! 47 of the best years I have ever had! Rest in Peace my love knowing that, I think of you everyday! I Love You! Ger.