Adaea Joan Smart ❤

November 29, 2012 - January 1, 2019

November 29, 2012 - January 1, 2019

Peacefully, our sweet, strong, and beautiful little girl, surrounded by her brother Alden, and Dada, passed away in her Mama’s arms at the BC Children’s Hospital. On November 29, 2012, Aaron and Liberty received their greatest gift of all; being parents to the most special little girl. She brought a sense of purpose to our lives which made every minute of every day better. From an early age, Adaea was drawn to the water, beginning with her baths at home and as she grew older, swims at the Oak Bay Recreation Centre. If there was water around, she would swim in it. Her favourite places to swim included the Marina Beach in Oak Bay (yes, cold salt water), Lake Joseph in Muskoka, where Liberty has a family cottage and Weston Lake, on Salt Spring Island. During her time at BC Children’s, it was swimming she missed most. Born into a family of dancers (thank you Gran Gran), Adaea loved to dress up and dance to any music playing. She participated in many dance classes but freestyle dancing at home with her brother was her favourite.

Enjoying neighbourhood parks and play spaces with Alden was a daily routine of hers (after a daily morning olive bun visit from Tom of course). Adaea very determinedly mastered the monkey bars at a young age. Adaea started Kindergarten at St. Patrick’s School in September 2017 and enjoyed every minute of her time there. Her school career was cut short when on December 19, 2017, Adaea was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukaemia (AML). Adaea spent the majority of the following year as an inpatient receiving 7 rounds of chemotherapy.  Following her first four rounds, Adaea was declared in remission and we were able to come home for almost three months.

We had a wonderful summer, embracing every moment, with a highlight trip to Camp Goodtimes, where Adaea and Alden swam and experienced new opportunities with other families going through similar journeys. In August 2018, Adaea relapsed with AML and we spent the remaining months at Children’s Hospital. On  November 29, 2018, her birthday, she received a Bone Marrow Transplant.  Although she never swam again, her time in hospital was happy. She handled all the medication with such strength and bravery and never let it get her down. She never complained and touched the hearts of so many nurses, doctors, child life specialists, and volunteers. She was sassy and sweet and woke up each day wanting to play. The 8th floor became our home and we all developed friendships with the incredible team of support.

We are forever grateful to everyone at Children’s Hospital and Ronald McDonald for making our time in Vancouver as good as it possibly could be, given the circumstances. We would like to send a heartfelt thank you to our amazing community of Oak Bay and Victoria for the endless support of our family.

Adaea is survived by her brother, Alden, Mama, Liberty, and Dada, Aaron.  Her Uncle Barney, Aunt Buffy, and cousins, Tavin, Tate, and Kyla. Her Uncle Rainbow, Aunt Sarah, and cousins, Zayden, Auley Mae, and Laurelle. Her Uncle Oliver, Uncle Drew, Uncle Corey, and Auntie Jett. Her Auntie Leah, Uncle Paul, and cousins, Colton and Blake. Her grandparents Tom and Jojo, Steve and Julie and her great-grandmother Joan Randall, Adaea’s middle namesake.

Adaea was strong and graceful in life and in her battle with AML but the disease was bigger than her. She will always be in our hearts and we will miss her every day.

A Service will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, on Sunday, January 13, 2019 at 1:30 pm.

Tributes, if desired can be made in Adaea’s name to the charity Balding for Dollars or Ronald McDonald House Charity, two charities that provided opportunities and a home away from home for Adaea and her family.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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27 Responses

  1. Today I walked the stretch by Oak Bay and took a few pictures of this bench adorned with flowers, overlooking this expansive sky, under an arch of intertwined branches. When I leaned in closer I saw this commemorative plaque and thought how beautiful to be loved and honoured in such a way. I said a prayer and left. Later I posted some of the pictures and plaque and someone noticed the age on it and pointed it out. And I wept and then I searched the name and came here and wept some more. Just wanted to send you all so much love and know that your little girl’s spirit still touches people even today and inspires us all to live and love a little harder. May your family be covered in grace and from one mama to another. Sending love and light. May 7, 2022.

  2. Dear Liberty,

    You have shown such strength and courage throughout this heartbreaking journey.
    My love and prayers go out to you and your family.

  3. Dear Liberty
    I am so sad to hear about your little girl. I know if she was anything like her mom , she must have been a joy to be with and that she brightened any room she entered. I know she is still with you in spirit .
    You are in my thoughts ,
    Pete

  4. My heartfelt condolences to Aaron, Liberty and Alden, in the tragic loss of sweet little Adaea. What an inspiration She was and will continue to be for all of those who knew her.

  5. A child is always with us. First in their lifetime, and then in our memory. What a wonderful spirit to have with you always. With deepest sympathies – Paul and Rachel Hawksworth

  6. Dear Liberty and family,

    I cannot begin to imagine the heartache that you are undergoing at this time. Hold on to the joy that your beautiful daughter brought into your lives and may her spirit fill you every day. Please know that our thoughts, prayers, and love are with you all.

    Kevin Cook & family

  7. Dominique Chapheau, Kerry Liggins, Stephan’ Christpher’Felicia,and their partners says:

    Words are so very inadequate to express how deeply sorry we are for your terrible loss. We are thinking of you . Our deepest and heartfelt condolences .
    Dominique and I are very sorry we are unable to attend the service as we are out of the country.

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