Hardy passed away at home in Victoria, B.C. at age 61. He had retired a year prior, and sadly did not get much time to enjoy the fruits of his many years of hard work. He is lovingly remembered by his wife of 39 years, Criena; daughters, Nakita and Kyra; mother, Amarjit Kaur; brother, Ken (Tashi); nieces, Anika (Rishi) and Ravina (Arif); nephew Kirin (Raj) and their respective children.
Hardy was an IT professional his more than 40-year career and enjoyed the challenges of practising his profession in many varied industries. In addition to working full-time, Hardy enjoyed a few years of part-time teaching and helping Criena to run a franchise operation. Hardy was an exemplary father to his daughters, always making it known they were his priority. Hardy was genuinely a very kind, caring, and compassionate man, whose main focus was always his family. The last 15 years of his career Hardy chose to commute regularly to Toronto so that his family could remain comfortably residing in Victoria. Hardy valued the many lasting friendships he made on the many projects he managed during his career. He was not one to make the effort to stay connected, but always appreciative of those that made the effort to remain connected with him. His viewpoint of life through the lens of a project manager sometimes frustrated his family, and we often told him to stop treating us like one of his projects. Although frustrating at times, his intent was to ensure we were prepared and taken care of, both in the present and the future. Hardy liked to say that he always planned for the worst, but then hoped for the best, knowing that every eventuality had been considered. His passing has magnified this perspective, as he has left us a year-long calendar with week-by-week instructions, for which we are very grateful. Hardy recently said that if he could convey one phrase to everyone it would be ‘he simply ran out of time’. Over the 39 years of marriage, Hardy and I were fortunate to have truly ‘lived’. Thanks to Hardy’s willingness to commute to Toronto frequently for work, our family has enjoyed the opportunity to travel extensively. We are grateful that we indulged in family travels, rather than saving them for his retirement years, as we will cherish those family memories.
As per Hardy’s wishes, a private funeral service has taken place.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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OMGAWD Criena…. Ken just told me that he heard from John Dunning about Hardy. What terribly sad news for you and the girls. I had to think hard to remember how far
our memories went back…with you both and with Ken and Kully…………..when you lived on the mainland. But what I do remember is mentioning to Hardy how beautiful you were when we were at Ken’s wedding. You could tell even back then he totally agreed with me. LOL Yes he was born a gifted story teller and was extremely passionate about all that his mind touched, as well as a smile that lit up a room. I am thrilled that you both were able to build a wonderful life together, full of treasured memories but saddened that it wasn’t long enough. It never is, is it? Lots of BIG hugs coming your way…Love Ken and Marlene Graham
On 25th of this Nov, I have lost one of the Best Friend of MY LIFE, A Well Wisher of mine. His loss has SHATTERED me and I had kept a days FAST for him on 12th Dec, when I got to know about his Sad demise.
To our Family, he was a an Elderly Member to whom we always looked upon with Deep Respect. Many a times I am not able to hold my tears whenever I remember him. He was a Good Friend to Many.
Raju Lal, his younger brother.
Hardy was such a beautiful person. I always enjoyed his presence and talking with him. Life has taken Nikita and I in different directions these last few years, so I haven’t seen much of you guys. But I truly feel this loss with you and your family. I love you guys and send my deepest condolences.
Criena, Nakita and Kyra.
My deepest condolences for your loss. Hardy was truly a remarkable man. I’m grateful that I was able to get to know Hardy and spend some time with him over the past few years. We had many fascinating conversations and I always looked forward to seeing him. He will be greatly missed by many.
Dear Nikita and family
Even though we didn’t have the honour to spend time with Hardy, we will never forget the anticipation we saw in his eyes just before him and Ron were leaving on their trip, we wished we could have thank him in person for what he did for our son, we also thank all of you for being so special.
All our love in this time of sadness and know that he will always be near.
Armando and Iza Diaz
Dear Criena, Nakita and Kyra,
It’s so upsetting to hear this loss 🙁
He was a great man, with a kind heart, keen mind… a wonderful father
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mehran
We are so sorry for Hardy’s loss- you all have been in our thoughts and prayers and we know the memories of him will always be cherished- love and hugs to you all ❤️