Patrick described his childhood as Golden. He was a busy, curious child, adored his sister Holly and valued his friends highly. He attended Glenlyon Norfolk Junior School, Shawnigan Lake School and finally St. Michaels University School. He referred to this as “The Continental Tour of Education” and made dear friends at all of them. Patrick struggled with drugs and alcohol. He had a lot of theories about addiction and treatment and made brave efforts to beat his demons.
Forever an entrepreneurial spirit, Patrick worked at several different companies including his father’s for a few years and more recently he got involved in a few start-up companies he passionately believed in and focused on helping them grow into their potential. Unfortunately, he was forced to step away from work due to his chronic illnesses.
Patrick was diagnosed with a hereditary liver disease and after many unexplained symptoms and years of testing, he was additionally diagnosed with Lyme Disease. His daily life became increasingly painful and difficult but he never gave up fighting through all of this. A staph infection caused a very sudden turn and on January 16, 2020 at 5:11 pm Patrick died with Rob, Shirley and Holly all holding him. He loved fiercely and in return was fiercely loved. We remember Patrick through good and bad times.
Patrick is survived by his parents, Rob and Shirley and his sisters, Holly (Bryce) and Whitney.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 2:00 pm on Thursday, January 23, 2020 in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
In lieu of flowers or donations, we ask that you remember to love, support and hug each other and especially your children.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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rip. my. dear. friend. u r. truly. missed
Rob & Shirley,
My deepest condolences for the loss of a bright light in your lives.
Dear Hunter Family,
Pat was a really special guy and someone I could always depend upon to understand what I was thinking without saying it. He was wise beyond his years, and always there for someone when they needed a friend or laugh.
I am sorry for your loss.
Best,
Whitney
Penny and Darrell McLean
Dear Shirley and Rob,
We are deeply saddened and shocked for your loss. Patrick was a much treasured original. From attempting to mummify a chicken in his closet as a science experiment, to you, Shirley, proudly placing his bird skeleton stuck onto a royal Chinex plate out among your silver display, it was obvious he was much cherished and loved. May he now Rest In Peace.
Love to you all,
Penny, Darrell, Tristan and Chelsea
Dear Hunter wakeham family, we are so sorry for your loss,
Don Bering and Herbert Arcila from San Francisco.
Shirley, Rob and your family
I am so sorry to hear of Patrick’s passing. Our deepest condolences to you all – you are in our thoughts. Ruth Currey and family
Dear Hunter Family,
My deepest condolences. I am so sad to hear of Patrick’s passing. He was a very good friend to me in our high school years. Although we hadn’t spoken in a long time, I often thought about him. I will always remember him for his kindness, sense of humour and huge heart. He’s a wonderful person and good human being. I cannot imagine your sorrow at this time, but am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.