Jean always said that she could never believe in reincarnation because there was no chance she could get this lucky again. Growing up in Montreal, she had an idyllic childhood with weekends and summers spent in the Laurentians. She always loved sports and was a certifiable bookworm from an early age. Attending Bishop’s University was a fortuitous choice; it was the perfect small liberal arts university to foster a love of learning. While still an undergraduate, another stroke of luck was meeting Alan on a blind date; he seemed very sophisticated as he owned a car and was at law school in Toronto. After graduating and attending a summer education course, and with more bravado than brain, Jean accepted a job teaching high school in a small rural town. This involved a steep learning curve as Jean was 20 and some of her students were 18, a shaky start to her years of teaching. When Alan and Jean got married in 1969 and settled in Toronto, it was the first time that they had both lived in the same city.
In 1974, they made the decision to move to Calgary which turned out to be an excellent choice for Alan’s career and a wonderful place to bring up a family. Alison was born in 1975 and Grant in 1978.
For Jean, it was always about people. So, for 27 years, the cabin in Canmore was always the gathering place for friends and family and celebrations. While Alan was pursuing his legal career, Jean threw herself into numerous community volunteer activities, with a long-term commitment to helping adults with literacy challenges. During the Calgary years and after, Jean and Alan enjoyed numerous trips to different countries, many of which involved hiking. A memorable 60th birthday trip was to Tanzania to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. Annual ski trips to backcountry lodges with friends were another highlight of those Calgary years.
And then another fortuitous decision was to move to Victoria in 2011. This led to 14 years of new opportunities, wonderful new friends, community involvement and the chance for Jean to create a garden, which was an unanticipated pleasure. Unfortunately, the one unlucky thing was a sudden diagnosis of cancer. Jean leaves her loving husband of 55 years, Alan, her 2 children, Alison (Ryan) and Grant (Andrea), her 4 darling grandchildren, Amelie, Elliot, Cameron and Sloane, her 2 brothers Jim Berwick (Margaret) and Hugh Berwick (Jill d.) her sister-in-law Jill Lewis and brother-in law Tom Lewis, as well as her many friends.
A Celebration of Life will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, on Friday, May 2, 2025 at 2:00 PM. There will be a reception at a later date in Calgary.
In lieu of flowers, donations, if desired, may be made to the Victoria Symphony Society or Decoda Literacy Solutions (Vancouver).
And did you get what
you wanted from this life, even so?
I did.
And what did you want?
To call myself beloved, to feel myself
beloved on the earth.
Raymond Carver
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Alan; Please accept our most heartfelt condolences during this profoundly difficult time. Jean was a remarkable woman whose gentleness, wisdom, and warmth touched our lives and the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her. Her devotion to you and all your family was evident in every story you and others shared at the service yesterday. We consider ourselves very fortunate to have known her.
We trust that the legacy of her love will continue to surround you, offering moments of comfort and strength. We hope that you laugh more than you cry as you think of treasured memories. We wish her God’s grace.
I was saddened to read the Globe this Saturday morning and see the obituary for Jean. Great picture of her and her ever present smile. Took me back to those great times parties at McLaws in the late 70s early 80s. Sam Ingram and I use to kid her about her quiet life style. She always laughed that off. Deborah and I are out in Naramata now enjoying our retirement making wine and drinking it.