October 27th saw us saying ‘so long’ to our most beloved husband, father and Pappy P.His leukaemia diagnosis seemed to come with little warning and left us with a mere 13 weeks to spend as a family, navigating through thoughts, memories and hopes for our futures. Many a tear was shed, but so, too, were the laughs. In Paul’s characteristic way, he’d delve into the lives of all those who worked to provide comfort and care and share his life stories and sage advice.
Paul was proud to say he was dying with no regrets. His early retirement and frequent world adventures made him tell everyone to embrace life and live it to its fullest.
His deepest gratitude and pride came from his daughters, and becoming Pappy P with the birth of our granddaughter, Ivy, found him completely overjoyed! He would spend hours from his hospital bed studying her photos and replaying her videos when she wasn’t there in person to entertain him.
Paul, being a deep thinker, would often put his thoughts on paper, so it was only appropriate that he wrote his final thoughts…
In loving memory of Paul Moloney.
Passed away October 27, 2025, leaving behind a legacy of laughter, adventure, and boundless love for the great outdoors.
Born in Melbourne, Australia on January 22, 1963, Paul was never one to sit still. In 1990 he had his first urge of travel and subsequently came to Victoria, BC, where much to his surprise, he met the love of his life, Stephanie. Together they raised two daughters, Natalie (Skyler) and Claire (Michael), and in August of 2024, a granddaughter, Ivy Eleanor, was welcomed into this world which brought immense pride to Paul.
Paul found joy in the rustle and thrill of a mountain trail, and the serenity of a quiet lake at sunset or sunrise. The past six years after retiring from owning and operating Moloney’s Painting Inc in Victoria, he spent numerous serene moments at his cottage on Salt Spring, plus exploring the beauty of this world on one of his many hiking adventures.But more than his love of nature, Paul will be remembered for his generous spirit, his loyalty to friends and family, and his uncanny ability to make everyone feel like they belonged.
A heartfelt thank you to all those who were a part of Paul’s medical journey. From Royal Jubilee emergency to the transport teams, to Dr. Song and the team at VGH Leukemia/BMT unit, to the amazing staff on 7west palliative care at Lion’s Gate Hospital in North Vancouver, and finally to North Shore Hospice a place Paul frequently said was the next best thing to home, our deepest gratitude.
Finally, if you’d like to do something in Paul’s memory, consider giving blood. The countless, selfless people that gave of their time and blood enabled Paul to live awhile longer…to make memories with his granddaughter, a truly precious gift.
A celebration of life will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens on Thursday, November 13th, 2025, at 2:00pm
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com
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Caroline Kennedy
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Alphonso Franco On behalf of the Victoria and District Cricket Association and the Incogs Cricket Club, we mourn the passing of Paul. Paul was involved not only as a player but a sponsor and friend to so many cricketers in Victoria.
Paul’s postings on his adventures around the world
was so interesting to so many of us. Paul was such a sweet chap that always looked at the best in people.
I want to offer our condolences to the entire family on your great loss. May his memory be a blessing to all of us.
Alphonso Franco
President Victoria and District Association
Incogs Cricket Club
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Michael Fecteau & Jane Wynne Dear Stephanie, Natalie, Claire, Skylar, Michael & Ivy. Like all of you I will dearly miss Paul. That Paul was the Best Man at our wedding says it all. There was not a better friend to have. He was a great man and person. Our thoughts are with you.
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Surjit and Pinky Dear Stephanie, Natalie, and Claire,
I am deeply heartbroken to hear about Paul’s passing. He was not only a great person but also a dear friend to me for many years. I’ll always remember his sense of humour, his kindness, and the many good times we shared together — memories that I will always carry close to my heart.
Please accept my sincerest condolences. I can only imagine how difficult this time must be for you all. Paul truly made a difference in so many lives, and his warmth and spirit will never be forgotten.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in the love of family and friends, and in knowing how deeply Paul was admired and loved by everyone who knew him.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Surjit & Pinky
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Melanie Stephanie-
Thinking of you during this difficult time. I didn’t know Paul well but I learnt a lot about him through our visits and conversations. Wonderful people find each other. You and Paul nurtured a loving family with the girls and extended members; created beautiful homes and had lots of cherished experiences. Sometimes the world sucks. This sucks.
Sending you virtual hugs until I see you,
Melanie
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Sue Davies (Moloney) Dear Steph, Nat & Claire
My heart absolutely aches for you all.
There are simply no words to ease your pain.
Uncle Paul was simply one of the best.
I have many fond memories, belly laughs is what he bought to all events, or simply just a visit.
He done so much for me over the years and I’ll be forever greatful to have such a human in my life.He touched the soul of so many people in many different ways, me – turning my water off in my house while I was in the shower, or turning lights off an on while in a resuturant. Sticking a fork behind a picture in a restaurant and returned 2 years later to find its still there.
He was a character and I will surely miss him, always.Big hugs and kisses to you all. ❤️❤️❤️
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James Darmody Sincere condolences to Paul’s family at this sad time.
It was only May in Warrnambool when Dobbo and myself caught up with Paul to plan our great trek to India.
Gone to soon.James & Julie Darmody
Koroit Australia
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Lynda Smith Dear Stephanie,
this is absolutely heartbreaking …
My heart aches for your anguish, and for your loss … the loss of such a good man … one of the good people that this world needs more of…
As much as Paul’s life was so fulfilling, and he did so much and was so generous to do many people, he still left you, your family, and all of us, far too soon.
We’ll always be thankful and grateful that we were given the privilege of getting to know Paul, and the same goes for you …
In all sincerity, please be sure to reach out for anything at all… You’re in our hearts
Sending you love and hugs
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Sue Adams Oh, Stephanie, my heart breaks to think of your grief. Your love for Paul always shone through – right from the beginning. I remember when we were at work, I’d be grousing about my husband, and you would always talk with humour, complete acceptance, and mostly great appreciation for all that Paul was – even if he didn’t do the dishes quite the way you would have (did he ever find out that you re-washed them when you got home from work?). I hope you and your girls can find a gentle peace throughout this sad time.
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Megan May To our precious Canadian chapter of the Moloney family,
Words feel so inadequate right now. The loss of Paul — your husband and Dad — is simply immeasurable. The love, strength, and care you all showed him during his last 13 weeks speak volumes about the bond you shared as a family. It was a beautiful reflection of how deeply Paul was loved, and how deeply he loved in return.
Grant and I are profoundly grateful that our paths reconnected with Paul and all of you years ago. From that moment, our lives were enriched in countless ways — through laughter that filled every room, adventures that became treasured stories, and those long, honest conversations about life that only Paul could inspire.
Paul was a man of great depth — intelligent, witty, compassionate, and fiercely devoted to his family. To me, he became the brother I had always wished for. His friendship was a true gift in my life — one filled with humour, wisdom, and warmth. He had this incredible ability to make you feel seen, understood, and valued.
Through Paul, we witnessed what success in life truly means — not measured in things, but in love, connection, appreciation of nature and the positive impact he left on everyone fortunate enough to know him.
Skyler, Ivy, and Michael and extended family, you are all part of this special Canadian Moloney chapter, and we so look forward to the times ahead when we can share stories and laugh over the many unforgettable “Paul-isms” that will always live on in our hearts.
With all our love and the biggest hugs,
Megan & Grant
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Michael Sobowale It was a blessing to meet Paul. His humour, kindness, and the way he instantly welcomed me made a lasting impression.
I remember the first day I met him, Claire was nervous he might be quite the character, knowing his jokes and big personality but to me he was simply wonderful in the most human, genuine way.
I’m grateful for the moments we shared and for the chance to see firsthand how deeply he loved his family. His presence will be greatly missed.
To Stephanie, Natalie, and Claire—please know how much love I have for you all, and how honoured I am to stand with you during this time.
Michael O. Sobowale
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Doug and Sylvia Hannah Dear Stephanie, Natalie and Claire,
We want to extend our deepest condolences to you at this sad time. We really enjoyed being in Paul’s company. He was a great guy and we were very lucky to have known him. He will be missed by many. Treasure all the wonderful memories you have of him and all the great times shared. Sending hugs and lots of love,
Doug and Sylvia
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Andrea Richards Stephanie, we haven’t been in touch a lot lately. I’m so sorry to read of Paul’s passing. The obituary was a great tribute to him and do well written with such warmth. I’ll be in touch soon. Take care of yourself. Andrea
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Amanda Moloney Dear Steph, Nat and Claire,
Words cannot express how my heart aches for you all. I have so many memories of Paul. He essentially saved me on a number of occasions from not so good times at home. He made our time fun and we laughed, really laughed until my belly hurt. He never let me dwell on the hard stuff and made sure that everything we did together was memorable.
There are precious moments we had that will always remain close to my heart.Losing your Dad at a young age is so incredibly hard. But I know, he would want you to remember the life he lived and do everything you can to shine bright, love with everything you have and remember the times you had with him with a smile on your face.
Although we are so far away, know that Paul will always be remembered and loved, and so will you three beautiful women.
Sending you much love xx
Amanda, Matt, Anthea, Damon & Shaun
Ny sincere condolences to all the family. I met Paul while travelling around the Balkans – he was such a lovely man and a gentleman. Thinking of his family at this very sad time. Take care Caroline