Our beloved “Ray of Sunshine,” passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends. Ray lived life with laughter, creativity, and generosity. A clown, carpenter, realtor, and jongleur, he delighted in bringing joy to others and building connections wherever he went.
Ray is lovingly remembered by his wife Libby (Elizabeth), his cherished fur dotter Trixie, the Wilson family, brothers Johnny(predeceased) and Frank, sisters Pauline and Lillian, nieces and nephews, Kingham Place neighbours and friends.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the VIHA Community Health Care team for their compassionate support.
In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the Victoria Humane Society.
A Celebration of Life will be held Friday, November 28th, 2025, at 2:00pm in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC V8Y 1B4.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com
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Andrew Plank
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Ken & Lila Wohlberg Dear Libby, we are so sad to hear about Ray. We send our deepest condolences. Ray was a ray of sunshine in our neighborhood and will be truly missed. You and Tricksy take care.
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Stewart Johnston Libby, Penny and I send our sympathy on Ray’s passing. We always enjoyed meeting him both at celebrations and doing carpentry for our home renovation. He was a fine humorous man and will be remembered.
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George and Donna Andrew George and I will hold you close to our hearts… you may not see the circle of love and support surrounding you but we are all here. Hugs to you.
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Lisa Murphy Dear Libby,
We are very sad to hear that Ray has passed away. Having you both as neighbors for many years was the best.
Take good care.
Lisa, Steve and Clayton Murphy
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Debbie Crozier I’m very sorry for your loss Libby. I hope you find the peace you deserve.
Hugs to you,
Deb Crozier
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Roseann Chernask Libby, sorry to hear of your loss ❤️ my thoughts and prayers are with you at the difficult time.
Hugs & ❤️. Roseann Chernask
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Rosalie Padlesky My deepest sympathies to you, Libby and all your family so sorry to hear for your loss, may the Lord be with you all the time
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Lorraine Garde Libby I was sorry to hear of Ray’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Lisa Mitchell Roy had this beautiful way of holding space for my wild stories, meeting them with humour and kindness. I’ll never forget when he called me a fellow jongleur—being welcomed into his world of wonder. His presence, his storytelling, and his heart will be deeply missed and always remembered.
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Heidi Wood Libby
You are in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Heidi Wood
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Rob and Kim Deepest condolences!
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Sandra Murray loiselle Please accept my heartfelt condolences on your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Do take care.
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Myrna Billsten Dear Libby, How sad to learn your dear Ray has passed away. He fought a noble battle and he will be missed. The pool wasn’t the same without him. Judy Lyon and I spent a lovely lunch hour with you and Ray at your home. Hugs, Myrna Billsten
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Sharon House Ray’s “pool friends” send their heartfelt condolences to you and your family. We have missed his smiling face and sometimes rather corny jokes but will remember the Ray of Sunshine he brought to his buds each time he was there.
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Rebecca Lumb Libby, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Bobbie Barry Libby. I understand what you are going through. My heart hurts for you. Sending you much love.
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Chris Ford Libby I am sorry to hear and sending you and your family my condolences
I remember Ray fondly from our time together as Realtors. He was always a bright light and a warm soul. It was hard to be anything but happy around him. He was one of those people people instantly liked. I’ll miss him.