Carmen John Paolucci passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family, on July 4, 2026, at the age of 85.

Born in Fossacesia, Chieti, Italy, to Luigi and Gilda Paolucci, Carmen immigrated to Calgary, Canada, at an early age. He spent much of his life in Alberta, later dividing his time between Alberta and Arizona before settling in Victoria, British Columbia, where he enjoyed living near the sea. He married the love of his life, Edna, in 1959, and together they built a family.

He began working as a bricklayer but found his true calling as a master stone mason and blaster, extracting stone from the earth before crafting it into buildings, bridges, fireplaces, monuments, trails, and landscapes throughout Alberta and Arizona. He also owned and operated the Ribbon Creek quarry in Kananaskis, on the site where Kananaskis Village now stands, supplying stone for projects throughout the region.

Known to many as “Mr. Stone,” he built a reputation for his skill, discipline, and pride in his work. His craftsmanship can still be found in places where people live, work, gather, and explore. He was especially proud to have contributed to projects such as the Banff Springs Hotel extension, the Yoho National Park Visitor Centre in Field, BC, the Last Spike monument, and the trail to the Lake Agnes Tea House at Lake Louise. He also worked on projects across Canada, and in the United States, Italy, Argentina, and Australia.

Yet some of his proudest achievements were building a home for his young family on 29th Street in Calgary and completing projects in Arizona, including the Back o’ Beyond and Jack’s Canyon bridges in Oak Creek Canyon. He also took great pride in mentoring others as an instructor at the Southern Alberta Institute of Technology (SAIT), helping to pass his craft on to the next generation of tradespeople.

Carmen is survived by his beloved wife, Edna, with whom he shared nearly 67 years of love and partnership, weathering life’s many challenges and celebrating its many joys. He is survived by his three daughters: Diana (John Piët), Vanessa (Tim Jamer), and Cecelia (Gerry Hannochko); his grandchildren, Laura (Anish), Katherine (Nik), Benjamin (Sidney), Johanna, and Thomas Piët; and great-grandchildren, Soren and Remy Patel; sister-in-law Jean Ann Fantin, nephew Richard and niece Laurel (Allen). He is further survived by great-nieces and many cousins and family in Italy, Argentina, Australia, Canada, and the United States.

Carmen was proudly Italian and carried that heritage with him throughout his life. He made wine, planted his garden, loved cooking for family, fished and hunted, passing down traditions and recipes that will live on within his family. He enjoyed travelling, taking photos and videos, taking long, adventurous drives, camping, and taking risks. Sunday afternoons were often spent watching football with Edna, a tradition they enjoyed together for many years. Those who knew him will remember his gift for storytelling and sharing jokes. He loved to offer advice to his children and grandchildren, always hoping for the best for each of them.

Few people leave behind so many things that we can touch and see. Carmen did. His work contributed to places where people live, work, and gather. It will stand for generations as a testament to his hard work and a lasting contribution to the communities he helped build.

The family extends its sincere gratitude to the exceptional caregivers at Care & Company, whose compassion, kindness, and dedicated support allowed Carmen to remain at home with dignity. We are especially grateful to Yolanda Badayos, Reena Edeen, and Kani for the genuine care, warmth, and friendship they showed him each day. Their presence brought comfort not only to Carmen but to our entire family.

May he rest in eternal peace, reunited with his parents, family, and friends who have gone before him, and may perpetual light shine upon him.

A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Joseph the Worker Roman Catholic Parish, 753 Burnside Road West, Victoria, BC V8Z 1M9 on Wednesday, July 15, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. For those unable to attend in person, the Funeral Mass will be livestreamed here: https://youtube.com/live/gFsSNngfYoQ?feature=share

Interment will follow at Hatley Memorial Gardens, 2050 Sooke Road, Victoria, BC V9B 1W3, where Carmen will be laid to rest, in accordance with his wishes.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Carmen’s memory may be made to the Victoria Hospitals Foundation’s “It’s Time” Campaign, in gratitude for the compassionate care provided by the staff, especially Dr. Scott at Victoria General Hospital.

We invite you to celebrate his life by taking a moment to appreciate the enduring beauty of the places he helped build. Above all, remember him by taking pride in a job well done, lending a helping hand, and sharing a meal with family and friends.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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  • Jean Fantin

    Deep condolences to my sister and her family. I have shared many good times with her and Carmen and harbor many fond memories. Building the fireplace in the house, pasta suppers being made to watching “Mr. Stone” singlehandedly carry an upright fridge up the stairs in the old house. Many great times in Calgary at Xmas and in the Crowsnest Pass. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this day and many days to come in the future. Jean…

  • Mirka Saraceni

    Hi Family,
    My husband, Aldo Sarsceni, and Carmen were childhood friends, and then shared their love of beings stone masons and bricklayers, a trade handed down from their fathers.
    Like you, I am happy their works of stone will on…..
    To you all, my prayers and fond memories of your families, may he rest in peace.

  • Jim & Dianne Taylor & Family

    We were so sorry to hear of Carmen’s passing. We wish we could be there to share your sorrow. With our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

  • Rick Fantin

    My sincere condolences to my Aunt Edna and immediate family, Many fond memories working the cement and chipping old cement off bricks during my summer jobs with him.
    I will miss the special pasta dinners and the homemade wine! May “Mr. Stone” finally rest in peace. Rick

  • Concetta Di Matteo and Angela & Anthony Amato

    We are deeply saddened by Carmen’s passing. Our heartfelt condolences to the entire family. Sending you our love and prayers.

  • Debbie Fantin

    Heartfelt condolences to all the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  • Carro Payne

    Dear Edna and family members,

    Thinking of you all at this difficult time. With love and sincere condolences . Carro

  • Elisa Paolucci

    To the Paolucci Family,

    My deepest condolences during this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you

  • Mario and MaryAnn Baiocchi

    Our sincerest condolences to you all, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

  • Anthony Arrizza

    To the Paolucci Family,

    We remember Carmen with such warmth and fondness. Please know that we are sharing in your sorrow as we remember our dear cousin, and we are holding you all in our thoughts, sending strength and comfort for the days ahead.

  • Grace and Ravi Narine

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sending much love and our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

  • Nicodemo Arrizza

    To all of Carmen’s family I was saddened to hear of his untimely death. My love and condolences are with you all at this difficult time.

  • Laura Neil

    Although I did not know Mr Paolucci I wish to extend my sincere condolence to his family and especially to his daughter and son-in-law, Nessa and Tim Jamer.

  • Dil Anderson

    Deepest condolences to the Paolucci family. May Carmen’s soul rest in peace.

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