Passed away October 9, 2009. Stan was born April 5, 1919 in Victoria. He was predeceased by his wife, Peggy (nee Groom). They were married for 57 ½ years. He is also predeceased by his father in 1928 and his mother, Margaret in 1940. He is remembered by eldest son, Gordon; his wife, Cecilia and their daughters, Jennifer Keung and Jessica, along with her husband, Mathew Baker. He is also remembered by his youngest son, Richard and his wife, Judy and their families. He is predeceased by his sister, Vera Doherty of Calgary. His sister leaves one son Barry, wife Merle, along with grandson, Dean and son, Brady and granddaughter, Denica along with her husband, Claire Crosbie and her daughter, Taylor Margaret and son, Kyle. Stan leaves cousins, Bunny Henderson and Ken and Carol James. He is predeceased by nephews, Rick and Dennis James. He is remembered by Peggy’s sister, Dorothy Lemon and her children, Peter and wife, Gloria and their children of Nanaimo, BC. He is predeceased by his wonderful niece, Jennifer (Jenny) and remembered by her children, Daniel and Tara. Stan was a proud member of the Royal Canadian Navy (when it was still known as “Royal”). He joined the navy in July 15, 1940 and married Peggy on October 8, 1941. He retired on July 15, 1965 after 25 years of service. He served on both Canadian coasts after joining the navy here in Victoria, BC. He served with the crew of the commissioned HMCS Prince David January 5, 1941 and assigned from HMS Malabar Bermuda in the Atlantic Patrol and Convoy duties. His second commission was on the same ship in Esquimalt which was converted to LCI for D-Day invasion in southern France. He took part in the liberation of Greece and returned the Prime Minister, heads of state and Cabinet to Piareas. His peace time service includes tours on Frigates, Corvette HMCS Dawson in 1950 and the HMCS Cayuga on the first trip to Korea. He is a long time member of the retired Chiefs and Petty Officer Association (Esquimalt) and volunteered with them for many years. Stan began a second career as bar manager at the Uplands Golf Club. He was famous for his finely crafted wooden hearts golf trophies and the famous “Ruby Putter” for the Heart Fund Tournament. He created many lovely trophies for various events including the “Plumbies and Schoolies” golf tournament. He retired after 19 years at the golf club but continued to create trophies and support their charitable events. Later Stan also volunteered with the ALS Society. Stan was athletic, outgoing and will be remembered for his many and enduring friendships. He had an amazing memory for faces, names and naval stories.

Join friends and family for a celebration of life on Saturday, October 17, 2009 at #405-1436 Harrison Street, Victoria from 1 to 4 pm.

  • E.Alex Ferguson

    I was so sorry to hear of Stan’s passing.
    We were in “Margaree” and he was one of the nicest person’s
    I have ever met.
    I am sorry I was unable to attend Stan’s memorial as I
    was out of town. My sympathy to his family.

    E.Alex Ferguson

  • Phyllis Rands

    I was truly sorry to read of Stan’s passing. My husband knew Stan
    through their navy careers & I met Stan at Uplands through my sons.
    Stan was always so pleasant & friendly & whenever I met him at
    Hillside Mall he’d stop to say hello & inquire about my family.I saw his name several times in the C&PO’S monthly newsletter so I knew he was not well . My deepest sympathy to all Stan’s family.

  • Gary Blechingberg

    I’m very sorry to hear of Stan’s passing and my thoughts go out to the family. My deceased partner Jenny was Stan’s niece. Jenny stayed with Stan and Peg while she was attending University many years ago. She always told me how much she loved Stan and how he and Peg were like parents to her during that time.
    Over the years we would meet with Stan occasionally for lunch at a favorite place of his in Cordova Bay.
    He was a gentle, kind man and I dearly loved hearing his stories and spending a little time with him. I was travelling from Washington DC when the memorial was had and am sad I missed it.
    He is re-united with Peg and Jenny and I’m glad of that.
    My best to all the family.

  • David and Ellian Corry

    We were very sorry to hear the sad news of Stan’s passing. I only met him a few times, but David has many fond memories of him from over the years. We wish we could have been there for support today, but please know we are thinking and praying for you. A big hug to you both Rich and Judy,

    Love David, Ellian, Jacob and Lukas

  • Elizabeth Corry

    I am so sorry to hear of Stan’s sudden passing. I always really enjoyed visiting with him even if it was just a quick chat in the driveway. Loosing a parent must be one of the most difficult times in all our lives. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my heart always but especially now during this tough time. My deepest sympathy, Elizabeth

  • Peter Chance, Cdr RCN rtd

    I was saddened to read that Stan, a gentle caring man, who I was privileged to call ‘friend’ has died. His unswerving and dedicated support to fund raising for ALS research for more than twenty years was most gratefully admired.
    I offer my heartfelt condolences to the members of his family

  • Maureen Yip

    Sending my sincere sympathy to the family. Many hearts are hoping you’ll find strength and comfort, too. Knowing others share the loss of the one so dear to you.
    Thank you so much for all your kindness & thoughfulness. You will always be remembered for all the beautiful wooden heart trophies you made for the The Uplands Heart Fund. It is ironic that I recently gathered 5 of the individual wooden heart trophies to be recycled next July 21, 2010 for the Ladies Heart Tournament.
    They will be special, since it will be our 30th year.
    Stan will be remembered for a very long time.

  • Lisa Sheppard

    My family and I have lived down the hall from Stan for the past 8 years. We adored Stan and are going to miss him very much. I will miss his warmth and friendliness and the interest and affection he showed my children. I asked my 3 year old son, Ben, what he wanted to say. His answer: “I want to draw a heart because a heart means I love Stan”. I think that says it all.

    Our sympathies,

    Lisa Sheppard and family

  • Margaret Haskell

    Stan, Ruth Clay and I lost our spouses to ALS in 1998 and that experience created a special bond between us. I have lost a very special friend with whom I shared grief and the 11 years which followed as “we carried on”.

    I extend my sympathy to his family.

    Sincerely,
    Margaret Haskell

  • Phil and Dorothy Bissell

    To the James Family – Stan’s passing has made us sad but he made it to the big 90, a mark we often chatted about! His personal help to me when we were both active with ALS will always be remembered.
    The passing of Peggy was a heavy burden on Stan but he remained sociable at all times and it was a delight to be with him.
    Stan had the respect of all Naval Ranks and his service to his country, his leadership and attention and help to others was commendable.

    Phil Bissell Commander Ret’d.

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