Barry passed away at home on May 10, 2009 at the age of 55, after a courageous and dignified 5 year battle with cancer. He will be greatly missed by his loving family, wife Sue of 26 years; daughter, Michelle; sister, Gail (Clay); nephews, Brad (Lisa), Brent; niece, Carrie (Marcel); father-in-law, Gus; sister-in-law, Eva (Richard); nephews, Troy, Jeff, Daniel; nieces, Annie, Donna; aunts; uncles; numerous cousins; close friends and neighbors. Predeceased by his father, Gus and mother, Edith. Barry was a well respected carpenter by trade. It was while he was working for Dura Construction in Port Hardy, where he met his dear friend, John Knappett, whom he worked for 24 years, until being forced to retire due to his illness in September 2008. Barry was an avid sportsman having played soccer, hockey, golf, curling and baseball. He also enjoyed his years of coaching little league. His greatest achievement came while coaching the Traveller’s Inn fastball team to the national championship in 2001. He also enjoyed fishing trips with the gang. Barry will be deeply missed by his numerous friends at the Victoria Curling Club, his favorite watering hole, The Tally Ho and the Garage where many get togethers created lasting memories.
A Memorial Service will be held on Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 2:30 pm at MCCALL BROS. FLORAL CHAPEL, Johnson & Vancouver Streets. Donations to the BC Cancer Agency will be gratefully accepted.
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Linda Mireau
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Daphne Goode Dear Sue;
I know you were a true and loving wife to Barry and I was so sorry to hear from Ruth tonight that Barry had passed away.
Although I know he was ill lately, I never expected to hear of his passing at such a young age.
I always remember you talking about your glorious honeymoon in the cable lunchroom and it was obvious that you had such deep and special feelings for your husband.
I hope you and your daughter remember all the happiest times together as a family and that you will be able to move onward now, with positive thoughts and wonderful memories.
My sincere condolences.
Daphne Goode
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Larry Gill Having just found out about Barry’s passing, two days after his funeral, I am deeply saddened that I was not in touch with him this past year as his last days were approaching. I remember Barry from Mt. View High School where he was popular as a soccer player and just a great guy to all who knew him. My personal sympathy to his wife and daughter, and my regrets that I wasn’t able to be at the funeral to be among all those who were also sad to see him go.
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Darlene Ricketts Sue and family,
Our deepest sympathies and prayers for you and your family Sue. We have a friendship that spans over 36 years that will never fade, the bond will continue to grow as the years pass. Speaking for “The Girls” we are always here for you. Barry will forever have an imprint on your heart, love is magic with warm memories and sweet dreams. And the sportsman Barry was will live on, he lived well. Thinking of you and whenever you need a fiend. Love Dar (and The Girls)
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The Aune Family Sue and Michelle
We are deeply saddened to hear about Barry. There are no words that can truly ease the loss of a husband, a father and a friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and even though we cannot be there for you today, we will always cherish the memories of the times the seven of us spent together. May the peace that comes from memories of a life shared give both of you the strength and comfort now and in the days ahead.
Our thoughts are with you,Vicki, Darrel, Michelle and Ryan Aune
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Carolyn Walker (Terry's sister) You are in my thoughts, every minute of every day.
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Arlene Gibson Dear Sue: I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and Michelle.
I am here anytime you need a friend for support. Arlene.
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Jo-Ann Bellamy Sue and Michelle,
My thoughts and love are with you during this difficult time. Cherish the memories of all the good times you had together.
Love Joey
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Tim & Rhonda Clarkson Dear Sue, Michelle, Gail and family
Our thoughts are with you, and our deepest sympathy to you all.
Barry will remain with us through many memories.
Take care of each other,
Love Tim & Rhonda
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Gale Polupski (Shepard) Dear Sue and family,
I was saddened to hear the news of Barry passing away. I have fond childhood memories of growing up on Homer Road with both Barry and Gail. We were lucky to live in such a great neighbourhood filled with lots of kids. The Maclachlans, Taylors, Andersons, Colliers, Lees, Alexanders too many to list. It was a great neighbourhood. Many a night that our parents yelled and screamed for us to come in after a fun filled day of hide and go seek, riding our bikes down the Homer Rd hill and of course sleigh rides on the Lee families front yard. Sue I curled for a few years in the ladies league where I was fortunate to meet you. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
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Gorge Soccer Association Sue and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family
Gorge Soccer Family
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Paul Cozens & Family Dear Sue & Michelle
Our thoughts are with you
Love Paul , Rose & Family
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Richard Gurney Dear Sue, Mick, and Family,
We are so sad to hear of Barry’s passing. Our deepest sympathy and our thoughts go out to you. When I first met Barry we were opponents on the ball field 30 years ago. Wow, did he compete!
I got to “know” Gus when I was blessed first to coach Michele in the Minors at Hampton and then to coach with Barry in the Majors. There was nothing he wouldn’t do for those kids. The impression he made on our son,Shaun, is seen today. It is an honor to be able to call him friend. We have lost one of the good ones and we will miss Barry dearly.
Our Love and Thoughts,
Rich, Marlene, Shaun and Stephanie Gurney
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Scott and Linda Finlayson Sue and Michelle: our thoughts are with you as you make sense of this challenging time. although no longer with you, Barry will always live on in your hearts.
Scott and Linda
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Gerry Lister Dear Sue, Michelle and the enitre Gang;
Being involved with Gorge Soccer and Hampton Little League from the 50’s through the 70’s, I watched Hiltie grow up!
Barry was person that grew on you. He was always one of my favorite Kids of that era.
Barry’s dry sense of humor and his competitive nature, lived with him always.
The times I spent with Hiltie are fond memories and I will cherish them forever, for, there will be no more!
My thoughts are with the Family and from my Family, our heart felt sympathy.
A great Sportsmen, a great Sport and a Great Guy.
With much love,
Gerry and Stephanie
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susan going I considered Barry quite a close friend to me over my many, many years working at the Tally-Ho. I always thought he was one of the “perks” of my job!!!! I will (and do) miss him terribly.
And if this is how I feel, I cannot fathom how you, Sue and Michelle, are feeling. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Don and Marge Dadswell Our thoughts are with your family at this difficult time.
Knowing Barry was a pleasure and our Saturday afternoons at the curling club won’t quite be the same without the “humour” that Barry always displayed. The wit and devious smile were his trademark and they will truly be missed. Take good care of yourselves, and celebrate a great man, for he has definately left his mark, with all of us.
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Allen & Deana Thomson Dear Sue and Family,
We are very saddened for your loss .
Our deepest sympathy,
The Thomsons.
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Theo Kover Sue, Michelle and family,
I wish to express my deepest sympathy for your loss and let you know my thoughts are with you and yours during this difficult time.
Theo
Sue and family.
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy on your overwhelming loss.
Hoping that remembering the good times will help you through this difficult time.
My sincere condolences, Linda Mireau.