My precious husband and best friend, Barry, passed peacefully into the presence of his Lord and Saviour, Jesus. Steve, our son and Catherine (nee Douma), his wife, were by his side. He was a gentle, kind, giant of a man in height and character; he was fun-loving always with a twinkle in his eye. This Victoria boy married a Sidney girl and together they traveled the world completing their “bucket list” in the Antarctic in 2018. He owned British Welding Ltd and many samples of his designs and welding artistry remain on buildings in Victoria. He photographed many family luncheons & enjoyed my siblings, nephews, nieces and their children; especially Charlie’s tales of the back Country & Services poetry of the Yukon/Alaska. He lunched with school friends from St Louis’ College and the subject of classic cars never ceased. His life-long friendship with fellow prospectors enriched his life. During covid, his quick wit and grateful living caused the time to fly by. Our family & friends will always love him & cherish the memories. If he & I had lived many more years together, it would never have been long enough. Until we meet again, “dear one”.
Son – Thank you God for such a wonderful father & for so many years of constant laughs & adventures together. Dad was a gentle giant with a unique sense of humour & broad range of interests from backpacking & photography, square dancing, banjo & guitar, Rendezvous re-enactment & prospecting. He loved people & was perfectly happy talking to an old buddy with coffee in hand. He always had a funny story to light up your day & really embodied the best of an era with a truly sensitive heart – he was one-of-a-kind. I am very thankful for all dad taught me, his support, his kindness, & the many good times we shared. You’ll be deeply missed Pops, but life is short & I know the good Lord will reunite us in due time. Until then, I’ll continue the adventures, the prayers, the legacy, & look forward to sharing stories with you again some day. -Your son always, Steve
The family wishes to express grateful thanks to Dr. Paul Keith & Medical teams.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Franklin Murphy Thinking of you at this time.
We will always remember Barry as a most congenial gentleman.
Blessings to you Cathy and to your family.
Sincerely;
Nancy and Franklin Murphy
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Des and Bonnie Dennis Dear Cathy and Steve,
Des and I were deeply saddened to learn of Barry’s passing. A treasured chum for for more than six decades, he’ll be sorely missed.
Please accept our heartfelt affection and condolences in your bereavement.
Des and Bonnie Dennis
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Randi Mjolsness and Peter Bruce Cathy and family. So sorry to hear of your loss. We remember Barry well and were always struck whenever we were together, what a kind and gentle person he was. Many get togethers at Aunt Adeline’s with you both. Take care of yourself and know we are thinking of you. Arms around you! Peter and Randi ( Adeline’s niece/Linda Dumont’s cousin/ daughter of Howie and June Mjolsness).
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Don and Pat Cottrell To Cathy & the family,
We were so very sorry to hear of Barry’s passing!! We can’t imagine how much you miss him! It has been a long time since we have visited with you in your home, however we remember clearly how warm and welcoming Barry was, and he was so easy to to talk to and it was good to hear about his many experiences in his life. Our hearts go out to you as you walk through this difficult time in your lives. May you know the Lord’s love, strength and Presence at this time and in the years ahead. Love and prayers, Don and Pat Cottrell
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Lindsay Green Cathie and Steve,
Sorry to hear of Barry’s passing. He always had a smile on his face when he was in the office. I know he is smiling now.
Much love and sympathy,
Lindsay Green
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Mark Price Cathy, Steve and family, you were one of the first group of families I came across at SBF after moving there in the 1980’s. Barry was, without fail, always there to greet me with a warm smile and a hearty laugh. He truly was a gentle giant, never complaining, never negative, and always full of hope and good cheer. I know we will see him again and wish you all blessings over the next while.
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Ron and Lynn Gardner Ron and I, are so sad to hear of Barry’s passing. It was always so wonderful to visit when we saw you.
Our thoughts are with you and your son. One day I will be able to give you a hug. Wish I could do it now. Love Lynn
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Lon & Lorrie Wood Our memories of Barry’s kind, gentle and sharing nature of everything good go back more than half a century. Condolences Cathy — and to Steve, who could have had no better a dad. Missed for sure — but always remembered by we who knew that twinkle and gift of humour.
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Vic Marshall Cathie … condolences to you and the family. It was a pleasure to know Barry and yes, including his humour, at all those square dances over the many years.
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Bonnie and Bruce Irving We will miss Barry. We always enjoyed spending time with him at square dances and appreciated all his help with decorating for the special dances. He had a great sense of humour and was full of great stories. He was a wonderful man.
George and Annie Robson
We are so sorry to hear of Barry’s passing and send our condolences to you, Cathy and your family. So many good memories of all the dances we shared. He was a lovely man and always ready with a smile and friendly word. Our love and sympathy.