Ben’s life was filled with love and joy, and he was blessed with a beautiful family. He shared a lifetime of love and laughter with his beloved wife, Rosanna and together they built a strong and lasting bond. Ben was a dedicated and caring father to Carmella, son in law Greg, Michele, Francesca and son in law Chris. He will be missed by his grandsons Nicholas, Abel and Everett who he adored greatly.
Ben had a successful career at the ministry of finance in Victoria, BC and it is there that he met many of his life long friends.
An avid sports fan, Ben’s passion for games brought him countless hours of excitement and camaraderie. His love for cars was undeniable, and he found great pleasure in learning about, discussing, and admiring various automobiles. But above all, Ben valued the simple joys of life, especially the company of his friends. He cherished those moments spent over a cup of coffee, sharing stories and creating lasting memories.
The loss of Ben leaves a void that cannot be filled, but his spirit and the love he shared with all will forever be remembered. We mourn the passing of a wonderful man, but we also celebrate the legacy of love and laughter that he leaves behind.
A celebration of life will be held in the Sequoia Center at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Dr. on August 24th at 2pm to honor Ben’s life and the indelible impact he made on those around him.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Victoria Heart Institute Foundation through www.CanadaHelps.org
Condolences can be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com
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Maureen Rivers
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Ron & Donna Davis Rosa, we just learned of Ben’s death and your loss. I am so very sorry. We did not know Ben really well – but he was ALWAYS friendly and welcoming to us each time we saw him. He was just the kind of person that everyone liked. He used to thrill our young children by giving them a little money to buy something special to eat. He made everyone laugh and was always interested in what was happening in our life as well as sharing about his own. Our most sincere condolences to you and all your family.
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Barbara Beckwith Dear Rosa and family I just learned of Bens death today Sept 4th. I was shocked and sorry to hear of Bens passing. Ben was the most wonderful person and friend we have known each other since we were 14. He was like a brother to me. I am sorry we lost touch in the last few years and I wish I had known that he wasn’t well. I would have called him and gone to see him. I am sorry I missed his funeral I would have been there had I known. If there is anything you need or if you want t o talk please let me know.
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Lou Reda LAURA AND LOU REDA
Our deepest condolences and sympathies to you and your
family at this difficult time in your lives, Ben will be
missed by all his friends.
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Terry and Bev Edwards Rosa, Nick, and family,
I was saddened to recently hear of Ben’s passing. I recall countless hours of a devoted “Grandpa’s” volunteering assistance within my classroom and our school. Ben was the most thoughtful and kindness of men. His undying love for his family and, as I’d known him, his grandson, Nicholas will…. never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. ❣️
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Janice Storey Rosa and Family
My heart goes out to you and family. I have great memories of Ben at Registries. He always had a great smile and something funny to say. Very sorry to hear of his passing.
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Lou Barone Rosanna and family,
Our condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you .
Lou & Vesna Barone
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Manola and Bob Truelson Dear Rosanna Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You will all be in our prayers during this difficult time. “ He will never leave us nor forsake us “ is God’s promise to us. How comforting God’s words are. Love and hugs
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Colleen McIlveen Rosanna, Thinking about you and your family in this difficult time! Ben was always such a jokester! He will be missed!!! Take care.
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John & Joanne Lawrence Heartfelt condolences to Rossa upon her loss. Ben was a friend first and a neighbour second, he was too young to leave us and his smile and humour will always be missed.
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Ross & Linda MacDonald The wonderful memories of Ben and all the laughs we shared will be with us forever.
Ross will miss his #1 Rams fan!.To all the family our deepest condolences.
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TEJ DHILLON My condolences to Rosa and family on your loss of Benny.
His warmth and smile will be everlasting, along with his jokes,
sports talk, and love of his family and many friends. He will be deeply
missed and always remembered as a great Victorian.
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Dave McNeill Rosanna and family
Ben will be dearly missed. His easy going personality and quick wit made him a pleasure to be with. We had so many pleasant discussions, especially around the Yankees and Bluejays. Our coffee groups already miss Bens conversation….even some of his corny jokes!! RIP Ben…you will never be forgotten.
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Anna and Georgina Perri Dear Rosanna and family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Benny’s passing.
He will be sadly missed by all who were privileged to know him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.
Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and love.
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Gerry Lister My heartfelt Sympathies and Condolences go to the Family! Words cannot express my feelings!
Over the years Ben was a great Friend always had a great sports discussion with Ben when we met! Rest in Peace my Friend and God Bless your Family!
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Tracey Edwards Rosa and family
Very sorry to hear about your loss. I worked with Ben for a number of years back at Registries. He was always extremely kind and always had a smile on his face and a joke to make you laugh.
He loved his family very much and spoke highly of you all often. He was an amazing man and will be missed by many.
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
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David Baanstra My sincerest condolences. I shall devote a Rosary prayer for your peace and comfort
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Perveen Khan Rosa and family,
I am so sad to hear of Ben’s passing. I met Ben when I started with registries years ago. He was a very caring, wonderful amazing man who always cared about others and always would stop to chat with me. He loved telling jokes!! My heart and thoughts go out to you at this very sad time.
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Deanna Miller (Judi's daughter) Terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes to your family during these difficult times.
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Maria Teresa Gagliani Rosanna,Carmella, Michela, Francesca e famiglia.Facendo parte del vostro dolore per la perdita del nostro Ben.la sua bonta` e generosita restera per sempre nei nostri cuori.il Signore lo accogliera nelle sue braccia e tutte le sue sofferenze saranno finite. In questo momento cosi doloroso le mie piu sentite condoglianze. Vi abbraccio caramente il mio affetto e cordoglio.La vostra cugina.
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Sandra Hett Rosa and family,
I am so sad to hear of Ben’s passing.
I met Ben when I started with registries years ago. He was
always so kind and generous and loved telling jokes!!
I will always remember him with a smile…
Huge hugs to you all
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Paige and Oscar Dear Rosa and family, so very sorry for your loss of such a great man, husband, father and grandfather. Such a dear, sweet, funny, joyful person. ❤️❤️❤️
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Carol Weir Rosa and girls, cherished neighbours forever,
It saddened us to hear about Ben’s passing, we have wonderful memories of you as a family, but especially Ben and his sense of humour and smiling face. We will miss him.
Love Carol and Gary
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Micol Scigliano -Del Olmo I will miss my uncle Ben! I have fond memories of him when I was a child, spoiling all the kids with gifts and taking us the mall to buy whatever we wanted. He sure loved his family, always so very proud of his beautiful girls and grandchildren. There will always be a special place in my heart for my amazing uncle Ben, rest in peace. I love you!
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Josephine Pagnotta Such a lovely man. We will miss him. Condolences to all the family.
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Lisa Backus Dear Rosa and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. There is a huge hole that Ben filled with his presence and I know he will be missed greatly. Much love to all of you.
Lisa Backus
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Franca Perri Zio Benjamin, to say you “will be missed” is an understatement! Your life has been filled with love, children, grandchildren and a legacy which will live on through your family. Your generosity and kind heart will live on through everyone you touched. Rest now, go to your family that has left before you waiting for you to come. May the wings of the Angels surround you in love, and carry you with grace and ease across the rainbow bridge to your creator.
Forever in my heart ❤️ and never forgotten ❤️❤️
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Faye and Don Thome Our deepest condolences on the loss of your father. You and your family are in our thoughts,
Sending Hugs. Faye and Don
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Giorgio Gagliani My cuz Ben was a huge role model for me growing up as a kid. I spent a great deal of time with Ben going to many local sporting events, be it, hockey, lacrosse, baseball and basketball (Harlem Globe Trotters) … as well as bringing me to the Jaycee fair and arcades on numerous occasions.
Yes, Ben had a passion for cars and we used to go cruising in his old AMC Javelin muscle car lighting them up (burning rubber) every once in a while.
Looking back, I remember Ben running into people here and there, some that he knew and some that he didn’t know, and always had time to say hi and quickly catch up. Ben had a kind disposition and I noticed that people were drawn to Ben and always enjoyed conversing with him as he was always approachable and down to earth. Ben was always sincere, understanding, compassionate and empathetic and was never judgmental … just an all around stand up guy.
My sincere condolences go out to Rosanna and the girls; Carmella, Michele and Francesca at this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and heart … God bless, g.
Oh Ben, by the way … the Leafs and Rams will always suck.
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Cathryn MacKenzie Rosa and family; I was saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. He was a wonderful generous kind man. My heart and thoughts go out to you at this very sad time
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Luisa Scarcelli He will be greatly missed.
So glad we were able to visit and share his sense of humor and stories, while bringing him his coffee.
He always had a joke at the end. Uncle Ben you will always be remembered in our hearts. May you RIP
Love always Luisa & Leo
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D and S Stinson Dear Carm we send our sincere condolences to you, Greg and your family.
May all your love and cherished memories help you through this time of loss.
Love Dave and Sherry Stinson
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Marco Gagliani A great man and my favourite cousin.
I will miss him dearly .
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Kelly McKinney I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad Carmella. You have my deepest sympathy.
Rosa, I was so sorry about Ben’s passing.
My brother told me about his passing in Aug/2023
I had so many laughs with him when we worked together for the Registrar of Companies.
I always counted him as a friend as I did you.
When he married you I know he had made a very good choice.
He was in my wedding party with you by his side.
Take care of yourself and your family.
Lovingly, Maureen Rivers