April 21, 2012, Evelyn peacefully slipped away to her eternal reward at the age of 77. Born in Winnipeg, Manitoba in 1934. In Jamaica she graduated school, started her banking career. She moved to Victoria where she met and married Ernie and raised their family. Her Christian influence extended passed family, around the workplace, the community, and the world. Few can compare to her generosity and hospitality. Her home opened to all – her table filled with friends, roast beef and fancy desserts. Lovingly remembered by her husband, Ernest; four children, Carolyn, Beverley, Bradley (Theresa), Stuart (Donna); grandchildren, Kyla (Randy), Jordan (Kim), Jason, Willie, Stephanie, Andrew, Matthew, Chaylene (Jason), Joshua (Arielle), Emily, Lauren; great-grandchildren, Jax, Calais and Kacela; brother John (Elizabeth) Nelson and sister Louise (Stanley) Ansell and their families.
Memorial service to be held at Victoria Citadel, 4030 Douglas St. Victoria BC V8X 5J6, Thursday April 26th at 2:00 p.m. In place of flowers, gifts can be made to the Salvation Army Victoria Citadel, or Kidney or Diabetes foundation. Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Bonnie Turner
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Marg Jones Ernie and family: My heart felt condolances to all the family members – I remember Ev with such fondness teaching me in my Sunday school class at the S.A. on Pandora Street as a young girl….may the love of friends and family support you in the coming months…In God’s Abiding Love, Marg Jones – Langley
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Don & Andrea MacIver Our condolence to you Ernie and the rest of the family. Evelyn was a one of a kind lady and she will be truly missed.
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Henry & Judy Jewer Dear Ernie & Family Members:
Judy and I send heartfelt condolences to you in the passing of Evelyn. We too enjoyed her excellent cooking and hospitality in your home. We will always remember Ev as a beautiful gracious and Christian Lady.
Blessings to all!!!!
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Don Beech Bev,
I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. I too read that Valentines piece in the Times-Colonist. Please know my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Dayle Robertson (Hoadley) Dear Ernie and family;
How fondly I reflect on my time living in your home. Although many years have passed, I smile as I remember the gracious hospitality you extended to me and my mouth waters at the mention of Evelyn’s wonderful meals.
May you find peace from each other and in your faith during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Dayle
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Toni Sukkel Ernie and family,
I’m sorry to hear of your loss and offer my sympathy. I know you will miss her very much.
It was a pleasure to know Evelyn, first at work and later at luncheons.Toni Sukkel
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Malcolm Sharp (National Trust) and Vicki Sharp Dear Ernie and Family, we are very sorry to learn that Evelyn passed away. She was a delightful lady to work with at National Trust, and socialize also. Always greeting you with a great smile.
She is at Peace.
We offer our deepest sympathy; and hope past memories will give you comfort.very sincerely, Malcolm (National Trust) and Vicki Sharp, Victoria B.C.
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Staff of the White Heahter Tea Room Ernie,
We are all sorry to learn of Evelyn’s passing. She was a cheerful, delightful person to be around and we always looked forward to your visits with us. We will miss her. Our thoughts are with you at this time.
The staff of the White Heather Tea Room
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Yolande du Gardein-Matson Dear Carolyn,
I noticed the obituary for your Mom in this morning’s Times-Colonist newspaper. I am very sorry for your loss. Please tell your sister that the piece that she had written for the newspaper in February for the Valentine’s Day feature “Love outside the Box” was a touching account of your parents’ caring relationship.
I remember your Mom as a very cheerful, kind person from our university days when we would share a cup of tea at your family home.
Please know that you are in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Sincerely, Yolande
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Lynda Skinner I worked as Evelyns mom and dads homemaker for years and had many opportunities to chat with Evelyn and found her to be such a loving and caring person.My heart goes out to the family at this time.
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Barbara Foster What a joyeous, positive, giving life she lived. Ev you will be greatly missed.
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George and Gwen Skelton Ernie and family. Words can be difficult to come by that would adequately express a friendship of over 40 years. Like many newcomers to Victoria we experienced the hospitality of the Bent household. with Evelyn being the ever acommodating matriarch. These years have proven Evelyn to be the living example of the “broken water jug”, leaving a pathway of extraordinary beauty for others to admire.
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Keith & Bonnie Pittock Ernie & Family .. So sorry to hear of Ev’s passing into the arms of her Lord. What a wonderful person I found her to be when I (Keith) stayed with you a few years ago. Still miss her delicious meals & friendliness. Take care Ernie.
Keith & Bonnie
Dear Ernie and Family Members:
Words cannot convey the sadness and sense of loss of a wonderful,
truly Christian friend. Evelyn will always be remembered for her
offering of kindness and reaching out her hand to everyone in need.
Thoughts and prayers to you all