Hedda Thatcher, born October 15, 1942 in Vienna, Austria, passed away unexpectedly on December 28, 2010, in Victoria, BC, Canada. She is survived by her partner Tony Nicholson, former spouse David, her two sons Stephen (Carol) and Andreas, her granddaughter Alexandra, her sisters Annelies and Maja (Ewald) in Vienna, and numerous nephews and nieces. Hedda was a passionate teacher and mentor. Her love of languages and cultures, and her joy in promoting a greater understanding of them, formed a bridge that spanned five continents. Her loss will be felt by family, friends, and students around the world. Cremation and no funeral by request. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The Mustard Seed (www.mustardseed.ca). There will be an informal reception to celebrate Hedda’s life at the University Club, University of Victoria, from 2 to 4 pm, Saturday January 22, 2011.

  • Junko & Malcolm Wong

    I was wondering how Hedda was and my husband found this site. We were very surprised to hear she had passed away. We knew Hedda when she was brought in from Canada to teach at Mejiro Gakuen in the early 90s where I was also teaching part time. We remember Hedda as a friend and spent many weekends together at the tiny house we rented near the school. To Hedda, it didn’t matter what position you had or rank you held in the institution we worked for. In fact, she was always kind and generous to us and embraced us with her friendship. We remember you with happy thoughts. Cheers Hedda! Junko and Malcolm

  • Matt Pollard

    Dear Andreas, Stephen, David and Tony:
    As a former student, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Hedda’s sudden passing. As a somewhat less-than-promising learner of German slouching in my desk in September, 1979, I had no idea that my life was about to change. Hedda taught German with razor-sharp wit, verve and style, and if she was impatient, it was because she knew – long before and more decisively than many of us did – that we could do better. Hedda taught me that to truly learn German one has to appreciate the beautiful logic of its structure. It is a language which requires precision and effort and a committed teacher like her with high expectations; there are no shortcuts to clarity and elegance of expression. I am so grateful to her for many things: for demanding that we take the long road to getting it right, and for giving me the skills to win a life-changing scholarship to travel to Germany in 1982 and to pursue language teaching as a career. What I learned from her stood me in very good stead over my educational and professional trajectory that began at St. Michaels over thirty years ago.
    In the Germanic and Slavic Studies department we hold an annual awards ceremony in which top students of German receive book prizes from the German Consulate for their course grades in German. As the coordinator of the first- and second-year program, I speak to the audience about how learning a new language opens so many doors to remarkable possibilities. I also share with the group a still-treasured consular book prize I received in 1982 with a bookplate filled in with Hedda’s handwriting. It reminds me that the best teachers do not give us directions but help us choose our own path.
    She will always be missed and always remembered.
    Matt Pollard (Victoria)

  • Jerome Hass

    Andreas and Stephen:

    I’m very sorry to hear the news about the passing of your mother. She was a larger than life character. The world is a duller place without her. Best wishes to you and your family at this time.

    Jerome Hass

  • Kenneth Oppel

    Some of my classmates have already shared their memories of Hedda Thatcher as our German teacher from 1981-1985 at SMUS, and very eloquently expressed why she was such a rare teacher. I thought she was fantastic: an excellent teacher, firm when she needed to be, encouraging, and often great fun, with a wonderfully wry and iconoclastic sense of humor. Without her excellent tutelage, I wouldn’t have been able to enjoy a month in Germany on a language scholarship — an experience that I count as one of the best and most formative of my teenage years. Hedda Thatcher also made sure to remind us that even though our years in high school were very important, the world was large, and that the best was ahead of us. I think she really cared about us not just as students, but as people. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends.

    Kenneth Oppel (Toronto)

  • Kyman Chan

    I too (along with James, John, and Steven) was a student of Frau Thatcher from 1981-1985. She had a huge impact not only on my education but also on my outlook on life in general. She was quite simply the most influential teacher I have ever had. At an SMUS reunion a few years ago I was fortunate enough to run into her and let her know just how important she was to me as a mentor, and how grateful I was – and still am – for the lessons she taught me. I will always remember her fondly.

    With deepest sympathies,
    Kyman Chan

  • David Chmiel

    I was saddened to learn of the death of Frau Thatcher, a teacher that we all feared, loved, and admired in equal respects. I was one of the students that she led fearlessly through Europe on what she dubbed “The Bratwurst Express” and carry with me very fond memories of that trip and her leadership on it.

    I travel to Germany and Austria regularly on business and the German that I learned under the tutelage of Frau Thatcher continues to come in incredibly handy. On more than a few occasions, German colleagues and friends ask me when I learned German, and when I tell them that it was over 20 years ago, they ask me how I’m still able to remember it and converse in the language with relative ease. My answer is always, “I had a great teacher”.

    My deepest condolences to Frau Thatcher’s family and friends. She was, as the French would say, formidable, and I am sure that she will be deeply missed.

    David Chmiel

  • Steven Kasapi

    I was very sad to learn of Frau Thatcher’s passing. Along with James Curtis, John Burns, and a smattering of other SMUS iconoclasts, she was my German teacher at SMUS in the early 80’s. Although it’s been over 25 years since I had her as a teacher, I have many enduring, fond, and funny memories of her. She walked a very fine line between driving us hard and encouraging healthy misbehavior. I’ve never met anyone since who could do that, and I’ll always be grateful to her.

    To her friends and family, my deepest sympathies.

    – Steven Kasapi (San Francisco)

  • John Burns

    I also remember Frau Thatcher with great fondness. She was an extraordinary teacher not just because she was adept at languages, but because she had that intuitive ability to sense (and deliver) what her students really needed – whether they understand their own needs or not.

    As I was graduating, Mrs. Thatcher kept me quietly after class one day to ask what my plans for university were. I told her my parents were forcing me into a program I didn’t like but that if I wanted tuition, I had to accept this course of study. She understood me better at the time than I understood myself, I think now, and suggested that I tell my parents I would attend as pre-law. “Maybe you will, maybe you won’t,” I remember her saying with one of those European shrugs. “By the time you actually have to decide, who’ll remember that first deal?” I followed her suggestion, left for university and a future at the bar, and wound up studying modern languages and literature instead. I’ve often sent her thoughts of thanks for that sage advice – and the launch from Victoria.

    Und dort steht es, schwartz auf weiss.

    Fondly, John Burns (Vancouver)

  • James Curtis

    Hello.

    I was sad to know that Hedda Thatcher, my German teacher at SMU from 1981-85, has passed away.

    I have no doubt that Mrs Thatcher’s passion and engagement drove my own interest in language, a focus I’ve had ever since. I don’t think I had another instructor who would dare be so dryly witty, at times ironicly sarcastic… and always demanding.

    Though I hadn’t seen Mrs Thatcher for more than 20 years, I will always smile (and sometimes chortle) when I think of her classes — and feel good about the impression she left on me.

    With very best wishes,
    James Curtis, Toronto

  • Rob Cameron

    I have known Hedda as a dear friend and colleague since I joined SMUS in 1987. In 1990, she and I took a party of 26 students to Germany and Austria, and I was struck by the respect and affection they felt for a woman who was intolerant of deceit and political correctness. It has been a privilege to know her. Eva and I still find it difficult to believe that such a seemingly indestructible person is no longer around to share a Bratwurst and a laugh, and offer our heartfelt condolences to Tony and the other members of her family.

  • Klaus Kuehne

    Dear Tony,

    Heike and I are utterly sorry and still not able to find the right words.
    Our friendship started when Hedda came to our boarding school with a group of 15 students from SMUS in 2002. From the very first minute we loved her charme and her subtle wit which was at its best in her Austrian dialect. Hedda was an inspiration to all of us; both of you were wonderful hosts to me and Johanna. IWe shared wonderful times in Bonn and Victoria.
    Thank you for being a friend Hedda!
    Our thoughts are with you, Tony, and all the family.

    Klaus and Heike

  • Joan Tweedie

    Hedda was often an inspiration to me in my first few years at the school when I started here in 1989. She encouraged me in our early years as a family adjusting to a new life in Canada. Hedda was always interested in me and was very kind. She gave sound advice, had a wonderful sense of humour, and had high expectations for her students. She was a professional and a most dedicated teacher. I always had respect for Hedda as a colleague. My sincere condolences to her family.
    Joan Tweedie

  • Paddy Kennedy

    I am shocked and saddened to hear of Hedda’s passing.
    My deep condolences to Tony, and to Hedda’s children and grand daughter.

  • Margrit Breidenbach

    In loving memories of Hedda I vividly remember the precious moments I spent with Hedda. She was the most understanding person with a great heart. I will miss Hedda. With her demise nature has taken away one of the most precious person I knew.
    I will always keep her alive in my memories. I pray for her eternal peace in her heavenly abode.
    My sincere condolence for Tony, Hedda’s family in Canada and Vienna.

  • Diane Tolomeo

    I am saddened to learn of Hedda’s passing. She was one of the first people I met when I arrived at UVic, and I thought it must be a good place to have someone so colourful and dynamic connected to it. My deepest condolences to all who knew and loved her.

  • Peter and JaneGardiner

    It has taken a few days for this sad news to sink in and to consider what it was about Hedda that I will remember best.
    She was the consummate professional. Students were expected to rise to her expectations rather than what she regarded as a more wishy-washy approach to learning. At the same time she knew her students as individuals. It seemed inevitable that each year one of her students would win the German Consular Prize.

    It was a pleasure to know Hedda, as a colleague. She had a wonderfully acerbic,naughty sense of humour which she could pull-off with straight-faced innocence.

    Our condolences to Tony, Stephen and Andreas.

  • Trevor Williams

    Hedda’s passing brings great sadness to many who lived alongside her vibrant, sometimes brusque but always generous, personality. It was good to share her hospitality and to have known someone who lived life with such great passion. Condolences to all her nearest and dearest.

  • Estella Zhang and Sean Li

    Sean and I are sorry to hear about Hedda’s passing. We are still in shock especially we are planning to visit her in the summer when we go to Canada. We will always miss her passion and laughter.

    Dear Tony, we know words can not really help to ease the sadness you bear. Please bear in mind Hedda lives in our hearts and won’t be forgotten.

  • Karen Smith

    After getting acquainted many years ago as fellow U Vic English Department wives, Hedda and I reconnected 3 years ago, and became much closer, thanks to hers and Tony’s hospitality, and her many lunches with me downtown. She was unfailingly positive, and in her brisk, unsentimental, happy way, she helped me through early widowhood. Her determination to enjoy herself and follow her own way is now a comfort and continuing example. She died in her prime, loving life and what she chose to do. She will be greatly missed. My condolences to Tony and her sisters and Stephen and Andreas.

  • Mary and Sydney Humphreys

    It was with great sadness that we learned of the passing of Hedda. She was a passionate and dedicated teacher at SMUS for many years.
    Our sincere condolences go to Tony, her family in Canada and in Vienna.
    Mary and Sydney Humphreys

  • Kathy Roth

    I owe a lot to Hedda–when I first arrived in BC, and was a graduate student at UVic, she hired me to tutor ESL at SMUS. I ended up house-sitting for her when she went on one of many trips to Japan, and because of her, I was eventually hired on by the School.
    A couple of years later, when the school residence was hit by arson, she gave me a place to stay, and I remember hot coffee with thick cream every morning. Hedda and I also shared many bottles of Retsina at San Remo’s Restaurant, and many great stories.
    May she rest in peace.

    With Respect,

    Kathy Roth

  • Erik Cunningham

    Dear Stephen and Andreas, it was with great sadness that I read of your mother’s sudden and unexpected passing. As my German teacher for four years and a close family friend for many more, Hedda leaves many happy memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. In sorrow, Erik

  • Werner Greuter

    Dear Anneliese, Stephen and Andreas,

    I stumbled on the sad notice when surfing the Web to look for Hedda’s e-mail, so as to send her my good wishes. Alas, too late. We had somehow got out of contact lately, until I got her news a few months ago, so I was keen to learn how she was fearing.

    Let me just say that I will always remeber her at her best, as a very dear and cheerful friend and companion. I share your sorrow over her departure.

    Most sincerely, Werner

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