Passed away peacefully on 14 Oct 2009, after a courageous struggle with Multiple System Atrophy.
Marian was born September 13, 1936 in Regina Sk. She was predeceased by her parents, Sidney and Elaine; and grandson, Mitchell.
Marian is survived by her loving husband of 52 years, Jim; son, Scott (Catherine); daughter, Karen (Keith); her grandchildren, Robyn, Bryce, Mason and Spencer; brother, Raymond (Edie); sister, Blanche (Jim). She will be deeply missed by many other relatives and friends.
Marian and Jim met when both were serving in the RCAF at Rockliffe On, in 1956. They were married on 29 June 1957 in Rockliffe. Scott was born in 1958 in Ottawa and Karen in 1961 in Winnipeg. Marian and Jim spent the next 30 years at various Air Force stations (Winnipeg, Mb; Lahr and Baden Soelingen, West Germany; Moose Jaw, Sk and Trenton, On). Then in 1985 Jim retired from the military and took up a position with the Public Service, working in Edmonton Alta and then Victoria where they have resided for the past 20 years.
During her years in Victoria Marian was very active in church life at St Michael and All Angels Anglican, in Royal Oak where she served on the Alter Guild, and was twice president of the Ladies Guild.
Marian was a devoted wife, loving mother, and wonderful homemaker. With Jim often away for the military she provided a loving and rich home life for the children. She was an excellent cook who also loved to knit and crochet, and found that she had a great talent in macramé, and paper tole. She was also an avid gardener and enjoyed life in Victoria until her illness took away her ability to function on her own.
A Celebration of Marian’s life will be held at St. MICHAEL AND ALL ANGELS CHURCH, 4733 West Saanich Rd., on Saturday, October 24th at 2.00 pm The Rev David Howells will officiate, with interment to take place in the church cemetery. A reception will follow in the church hall.
Special thanks to Dr Oona Hayes, the care workers from Beacon Services, the staff at Beckley Farm Lodge, and the Palliative Care and Home Care nurses for their kindness and devotion. Also thanks to the congregation of St Michaels for their spiritual support.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Victoria Hospice, The Canadian Red Cross or the charity of your choice.
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John W Gough
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Brian & Deb Duck Dear Uncle Ferg, Scott, Karen & Family,
It is with great sadness that we extend our condolences at the passing of Aunt Marian. You can be comforted in knowing that she is now in a very special place with Our Lord. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Brian & Deb Duck
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Don & Berdina Martin Jim & Family, just received the sad news of Marian’s passing from the Werbeskis. Words just don’t seem enough at this time but we want you to know that we are thinking of you and your family, you are all in our hearts and prayers. Take heart that Marian is now at peace, we hope that you will be too and all those wonderful memories will be with you forever. Marian was a “Very Special Person” and she will be remembered with much love and respect. Take care and God Bless.
Don & Berdina Martin
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Mona and Garry Olmstead Jim, Marian was a wonderful lady. Mona and I send our condolences along with our love and prayers to you and your family.
Mona and Garry Olmstead
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Dennis and Audrey WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR OF MARIANS PASSING SHE WAS ALWAYS SMILING AND SHE WILL BE MISSED.
DENNIS AND AUDREY KING
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Bob & Barb Taylor Hello Jim Terri just gave us the very sad news. We hope you are well and please feel free to call us so we can help you remember all the good times . With much love Bob & Barb
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Doug and Linda Wilkie Our condolences to you and your family. Marian was a special lady and will be missed by all who knew her.
Doug and Linda
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Ann Pickles Only met Marian a few times; she was always gracious and welcoming. Her macrame and tole work was lovely. I also appreciated how Marian and Jim accepted my sister and loved her as their own. My sister gained a second mom when she married Scott.
My love and prayers are with all her family and friends.
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Peter and Terri Werbeski Dear Jim and Family,
Our love and prayers are with you and the family. Marian was a dear friend and will be sadly missed. We know she is finally at peace and without pain. Our door is open,come for a visit. Peter and Terri xo
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Herman Thompson Jim
Em and I were so sorry to hear of Marian’s passing. We often thought of the good times we shared. The travels, the parties and of course babysitting ” fang”. Those memories will always be with us. And if you get down this way please plan on spending some time with us.
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Bill Eckersley Marion was always held in high regard by BOTH Mary and I..
She was a most kind, generous and Classy lady, who will undoubtedly be missed by many !!
Please let me know if I can help in any way.
My Condolences to both you, and the family
Bill
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Oona Hayes My love and prayers are with Marian’s family and friends at this time. I am deeply saddened that she was taken so soon, but rejoice that her spirit is now free. She was a very special woman, and it was an honour to help care for her. love, Oona
Jim,Scott and family,
I am so sorry about your loss. I hope that you will keep your faith strong and not be despaired. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you, and your family as well.
John and Debbie