“Gone too soon”
It is with great sadness, we announce the passing of our dear sweet Nicole in Hospice on January 16th. She fought an amazing, inspirational and courageous battle against her cancer and stayed positive until the end. She touched so many lives and hearts in her short time with us. She leaves behind her soulmate, best friend and loving husband, Scott and her two beautiful daughters, Brooke and Jada. Also grieving her loss is her mother and father, Carole and Tony Chartier; her in-laws, Norm and Betty Thomson; sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Colleen Moore and Steve Thomson and Donna and Dean Thomson. There are many aunts, uncles and cousins that will miss her greatly. Nicole was born and raised on the mainland. For the past 17 years, she has worked for Dr. Bill Stankoven at the Mayfair Dental Centre. She loved her job and her second family as she referred to Dr. Bill and her fellow workers. We must thank all of the wonderful friends that supported our family with love, hugs and food during this time. A very special thank you to Claire McCutcheon, Karen and Warren Wright, Rob Heppell, Dr. Bill and Lorna Stankoven and to Mark Crisp, plus all of Scott’s fellow firefighters that have been there for him every step of the way, Dr. Elizabeth Grant, Dr. Christine Jones, CRD Nurse Stephanie Steele and Hospice Doctors and Nurses. Bless you all. We have wonderful memories to cherish forever and know that she will be with us each and every day. Her faith, hope, loving personality and beautiful smile will be treasured by us all.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 2:00 pm on Saturday, January 28, 2012 at Lambrick Park Church, 1780 Feltham Rd., Victoria, BC. ln lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Nicole may be made to “Ride to Conquer Cancer – Team Nic” online at www.RememberNic.com/donate or to the Victoria Hospice and Palliative Care Foundation, 1510 Fort St., Victoria, BC, V8S 5J2. Condolences may be offered to the family below:
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Kim & Richard Jordison
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Donald Singlehurst I just recently heard of Nicoles passing on my recent visit to the dentist. I cannot tell you the heartbreak it was to not have her thier. Nicole was always helpful, profesional and the first and last person I would see on my visit. My condolences to her family and her co-workers at the Mayfair Dental Center she will be missed.
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Colleen Falconer Scott
Wishing you peace and sending you love. So sorry to hear about Nic.Coll
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Brenda I will miss Nicole every time I go to the dentist for myself or with my children. I will miss her smile and her warm helpful ways. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and her work family.
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Jen Farquhar I met Nicole only a few times through bootcamp with a group of Frank Hobbs Moms….her smile, her positive attitiude, her pure happiness and great attitude….has stuck with me….It won’t leave. Such a short time to have met someone;….. such a long time that this particular someone will stay with me.Jen & Scott Farquhar & kiddos. xoxox Lots of love to her family and friends xoxoxox
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Gary & Deanna Neumann Norm & Betty, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at time.
Gary & Deanna Neumann
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Louise and Tony McGee We were so very sad to hear of Nicole’s passing. We attended her celebration of life and we were blown away with all the love that was present. She was an amazing person and she will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family.
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Moe McCann Scott, Jada and Brooke.
My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. Nicole was just lovely and I shall miss her smile and words of wisdom very much. She was a fantastic friend and helped me so much with my wedding plans which I shall never forget.
x
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Jody (Hanson) Murphy Scott,
My heart goes out to you, your girls, and your family. I am so very, very sorry. You are all in my thoughts.
Jody
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Tim, Rhonda, Jeff and Jenny Clarkson Over the last 17 years Nicole has looked after our family at the dentist office, always greeting us with her beautiful smile that chased the fears of the dentist chair away. Our heart goes out to you Scott, Brooke and Jada. We are here for whatever help you may need. Love Tim, Rhonda, Jeff and Jenny.
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Fiona, Aidan, Ryan & Emma Words cannot express the sadness. I was so lucky to have Nic in my life for 39 years. Scott, Brooke, Jada, and all the family you are all in our thoughts and prayers! Love The O’Neill’s
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Rick & Karen CHAULK Scott,Brooke,Jada,Tony and Carol,
It is with great sadness that we learn of Nicki’s passing. We would like to send our condolences and let you all know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this extremely difficult time.
Rick and Karen Chaulk
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Minna and Wayne Aitken An image of Nicole that will stay with us forever, is of her hurrying across the street with a big smile to have a chat with us. Although coping with the effects of her first chemotherapy and facing an uncertain future Nicole was obviously enjoying being out with family and friends on a sunny day.
The life lesson Nicole demonstrated that day was impossible for us to ignore.
We pray that each of her family members with be able to find joy even while grieving for Nicole.
Wayne and Minna Aitken
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Sandra and Ken Wilson We are so sorry for the loss of such a great person. Nic was an amazing human being and I will always be thankful to have her as a friend. Scott, Brooke and Jada, you are in our thoughts and prayers right now. Know that so many people love you and will be there for you.
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JIM AND LINA ERNST DEAR SCOTT… OUR DEEPEST HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY. WE WISH YOU THE BEST IN THESE TROUBLING TIMES. ALWAS JIM AND LINA
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Corinne Beaupre Our whole family will miss seeing Nicole’s friendly face when we go to the dentist. She was always pleasant and welcoming. Our sympathies to her family.
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Georgina York Scott,Betty,Norm and the girls
I am very sorry for your loss. I know Nicole was wonderful mother and wife in the few times I meet her and how much she loved her girls and Scott. Always the remember the goodtimes together.
Take Care
Georgina York (Bekkers)
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Daren Anton Scott and family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.I was fortunate enough to have met Nicole on the cruise when she and Scott first met and saw firsthand the positive effect she had on Scott, as well as all her friends throughout the years since. While I have not had the continual contact in recent years, it was always nice to meet, no matter how long it had been since the last time. Her positive attitude, humour and caring demeanour will be greatly missed.
Daren
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Cathy Boraston Dear Scott, Jada, Brooke and family,
I was fortunate to have spent time with Nicole through our daughters (school field trips, piano recitals, sleepovers, birthday parties, etc!) and boot camp sessions – she could run and lift weights better than most of us! She was such a bright, friendly and strong woman. I know that she will live on through all of you.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Love,
Cathy, Al, Natalie, Julia and Amanda Boraston
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Jim Grant Dear Scott, Brooke & Jada,
With deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. This world has lost simply an amazing woman far to soon! Nic touched our family in a profound way only she could, and for that we are grateful to call her a great friend! We have wonderful mermories of our family time together, and will cherish them always. Our thoughts are with all of you.
All our love,
The Grant family
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Trish Brady Scott,
I remember what great friends we were many years ago. I have heard some very sad news that your wife has recently passed away. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Trish Brady
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Warren & Karen Wright Scott, Brooke & Jada,
You know how much we loved Nic. She was an amazing friend, mother, wife and daughter. We feel so lucky to have had her in our lives. We will treasure all of the memories we have of our time together.
All our love, Karen, Warren, Ian & Finlay XO
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Kim McKeeman Dear Scott, Brooke, Jada and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss and thinking about you often during this difficult time. Nicole has always expressed how very proud of her husband and her girls she is. Brooke and Jada have so many of her wonderful traits like her strength, thoughtfulness and independent nature. She has made a positive impact in many of our lives.Love Kim, Trevor, Alexander, Abbygail
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Sheila Kynoch Tony, Carol and family
I’m sorry to hear of Nicki’s passing. I remember her fondly as a young child, knocking on the door to see if the kids could play together and the many birthday parties they all attended together.My thoughts and prayers to you and the family.
Sheila Kynoch
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Adrienne Hobbs(Kynoch) Tony, Carol and family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you. I was shocked when I heard of Nic’s passing. I remember playing as kids and how friendly she was.
I also remember a couple of years ago when we met in Osoyoos how you spoke to me how happy she was in Victoria with her family and how proud you were. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Adrienne Hobbs(Kynoch) and family
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Tony and Maggie Steel With deepest sympathy to Scott, Brooke and Jada. What a terrible loss at such a young age. Our thoughts are with you at this time ..
Tony and Maggie Steel xx
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Daryl & Barb Williams Scott and family, Please know our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult and sad time.
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Glen and Sharon Powell Scott and family, we are so saddened to hear of Nicole’s passing…please accept our deepest condolences. We truly wish we could be there but are sending you big hugs instead.
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Leah and Rick Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Patrice Heppell and Fred Patterson Dear Scott, Brooke, Jada and family,
We were so saddened to hear of Nicole’s passing. I was fortunate to cross paths with Nicole throughout the years, and will always remember her positive attitude, her sense of humour and her warm smile.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,
Patrice, Fred, Troy and Faith
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Pat & Norm Lidstone Dear Scott, Brooke & Jada,
What a testament to Nic, her character has attracted so very many good friends, as witnessed by the amount of posting and remarks. What a woman she was as a wife, mother and friend. We will miss her and always think of her with a smile, hopefully someday soon, you will be able to as well.
Our love to you all,
Pat & Norm
xoxo.
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JP Condon Dear Scott,
I’m so sorry about Nicole’s passing. I will fondly remember Nicole coming to Borden to visit us and the great times you two had exploring Niagra falls ect. We send our deepest sympathies. Our hearts go out to you and the girls.
JP, Liz, Riley and Colby
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The Allens Dear Scott, Brooke, Jada and familiy, We are all so very sorry to hear of the loss of Nicole. She was such a lovely / kind / fun individual who was so full of life it breaks our hearts knowing she has been taken from you at such a young age. Our prayers and thoughts go out to the entire familly.
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The Hill Family Scott, Brooke and Jada,
I only met Nicole a few times at the kids’ Christmas party and she was a delightful person to be around. We are sorry for your loss. Our thought’s and prayer’s are with you and your faily.Love from,
Dave, Jody, Courtney and David HIll
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Kim Pears Dear Scott, Brooke, and Jada
We are so very sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
I feel so fortunate to have been a coworker and close friend to Nic the past seven years. She possessed so many qualities,and touched so many peoples lives.I have always admired her strength,integrity,and beautiful heart.
She brightened my every day, and I love and miss her very much.
We love you all,
Sincerely Kim, Geoff, Taylor,Braden,Alexandra,and Drayson Pears
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Karen Weiss Scott, Brooke, Jada and family:
We are so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. It is so hard to find the right words to express our deepest condolences. We will so miss Nicole’s honest warmth, caring manner, beautiful smile and kind spirit … but we are all the more enriched for having known her and experienced her loveliness. Nicole will always have a special place in our hearts. May you find strength in your cherished memories, and please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hugs,
Tom, Karen, Colin & Jordan Weiss
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Terri Boizard (Rowe) Dear Scott,
I remember the glint in your eye when you met Nicole and told us excitedly how much you loved her. What an amazing love story and how lucky you are to have two amazing girls to always remind you of that love.
My thoughts are with you,
Terri
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Shelley Scott Dear Scott, Brooke, Jada & family
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Nicole. I was lucky enough to go on a cruise with Nicole and 6 other of her dearest friends many years ago. It was on this cruise that Nicole met her soul mate, Scott. I feel lucky and blessed to have had the privelage of spending time with such a beautiful, caring, happy soul. I will cherish the memories of this time spent with Nicole. My heart breaks for all of you.My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Hugs,
Shelley Scott
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Susan Wheeler Hi I am a patient of Dr. Dafoe’s @ the Mayfair Dental Clinic.
I remember Nicole and her smile in the office and just want to give my deepest condolences to you all, her family. I’m sure she will be greatly missed at the clinic. The girls there seem to be close and have a good working repor with eachother.
Please take care,
Susan Wheeler
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Anita Boles We will miss Nicole so much. She was a beautiful friend. I will forever remember the last trip we took together to celebrate our 40th birthdays. There she was ziplining- upside down hands free, and of course with that big bright smile. She was so brave! Good memories that I will cherish forever.
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Anita Boles and family
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The boys from # 3 platoon Scott, Brooke & Jada,
We all send you our deepest sympathies for the loss of Nicole.
Be stong Scotty and if there is anything that you need, don’t hesitate to call anyone of us.
The Boys from # 3
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Dawna Helme-Bitter & Family Scott, Brooke and Jada,
I was shocked to hear of Nicole’s illness, but not surprised by her bravery. She’s always been so strong.
It is hard to imagine what you must be going through. I am so, so sorry. Please know that I am thinking of you all, and wishing you strength as you deal with so much grief.
May you find a little peace and comfort in knowing that your grief is shared by so many of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God bless.
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Jane Wrinch Scott, Brooke, Jada and all your extended famiy,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Nicole. Not only a wonderful mother, she was the epitome of the perfect 4-H parent and leader – always there for the kids, both physically and emotionally. She was positive and supportive in every way, got the job done and was always very dependable and organized. Nicole will be forever missed.
Jane Wrinch, James Downey, William, Victoria and Simon
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Pam Stamper I was so very sad to hear of Nicole’s illness and now her passing. I remember her from our children’s Frank Hobbs days. She always had such a friendly smile and a positive presence. My deepest sympathy to you all.
Pam Stamper
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Debbie McPherson Scott and family,
Words cannot express how saddened I was to hear of Nicole’s passing. May you find love and strength within your family and friends to help guide you through this incredibly difficult time. My thoughts are with you all.
Deb
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Frank & Celia Csinos We are so very sad for your family”s loss Scott. Please except our deepest condolences. Frank& Celia Csinos
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Jane Foster Dear Scott, Brooke, Jada and family
My prayers and thoughts are with you all. The memories I have of Nicole are the talks, jokes and great laughs we had on our way to and back for 4-H meetings and events. We especially laughed a lot about the time she forgot to pick me up for a 4-H event and also the time she was going to pick me up a week early for a meeting (she said she wanted to make sure we got there in time). Nicole’s upbeat personality will live forever. God Bless you all.
Jane Foster 4-H Leader at Large
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The Hodgsons Dear Scott, Brooke and Jada:
We remember being in the hospital at the same time over fourteen years ago. We were having our second and third babies and you were having your first. Our thoughts are with you during this very sad time. We were kept up to date on Nicole’s illness through a mutual friend (Corrina) and know that you have an amazing family support system. Many people live a lifetime and do not have what your family has. We know you will find the strength to get through this together. Please let us know if you need anything and know that we will be supporting Team Nic in honour of Nicole and others who have been taken way too soon. Holli, Bill, Tanner, Amanda and Nicola Hodgson
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Christine Schwabe I am so saddened to hear of Nicole’s passing. Although I did not know her well, she always had a warm smile for me when I saw her at the school. My thoughts are with you and your family and friends.
Christine
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Jeff and Teri Kerr Scott Jada and Brooke
We are so sorry for your loss. Nicole was such a special person and was way too young to leave us. I remember when Nicole, Jen and I were all pregnant together at the Wesco Christmas party. Girls, please know your mom was loved.
Thinking of you.
Jeff and Teri
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Janine Roy Dear Scott, Brooke and Jada,
I am so sorry to hear of Nicole’s passing. Nicole was a wonderfully enthusiastic Mom who cared so much for her family. She was so proud of her two girls.
My thoughts are with you all.
– Janine (aka: Mrs. Roy)
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Elizabeth Niessen Scott, Brooke and Jada and extended family
I am extremely sorry for your loss. I met Nicole about 4 years ago in 4H. She was a mom that was there for her kids and play such an actual role in their lives. She was fun to chat with. It truly was a pleasure meeting her and being in 4H with her. I hope you cherish the memories forever of her as she smiles down upon your family.
Again my condolences, truly a beautiful person!
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Sue Steed Scott, Brooke and Jada and extended family
I am so sorry to hear of Nicole’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
God bless youSue
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Corrina arney Our thoughts and hearts are with you. Nic was one of a kind and we will miss her so much. She made such an impact on everyone she touched. If you need anything we are here. Heaven is lucky to have such a beautiful angel. All our love and support.
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Lisa Lehner My condolences to Nicole’s family. I knew Nic since elementary school and will always remember her as a warm and genuine person. Its these qualities and her open and positive outlook that will be a constant reminder of the important ways to live ones life.
God BlessLisa Lehner and family
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Karen Tindall Scott – I am so sorry to hear about Nicole. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Karen
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Doreen Cutts I am so sorry for your loss. Just want you all to know my thoughts and prayers are with you..My deepest sympathy and may God bless you all.
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Tara Cunningham So sorry about your loss….I am proud to have known her for 33 years and it is a great loss to all of us and society in general. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by many.
Tara & Scott Cunningham
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sharon bradley Dear Scott: I know how difficult these past few months must have been for you and your entire family; I am thinking about you, caring about you and wishing there were words to express the sympathy that goes out to you, Brooke and Jada. In your heart, you will forever keep the love and the times you shared togethere. May God bless all of you in your journey without your soul male. Love Sharon Bradley
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Melanie Forletta (Archambault) Scott and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Nicole. I have heard such wonderful things about her and your family from Duane. May those beautiful girls of yours be a reminder of her to you always.
Melanie
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Rick and Brunetta LeQuesne Scott and Family,
We are so sorry to to hear of your loss, we are here for you, and our thoughts are with you every day.
Take one day at a time and know that you do not walk alone.
Rick
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Michael Bryant Scott, Brooke and Jada,
Yeeesh. [Insert giant awkward hug]. You’ve got a lot of people who want to support you right now. People will show up like stretchers to catch you. Just take it one day at a time?
Lots of love from the Bryants
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Ray Wong Scott and Family
Very sorry to hear the loss of your wife. My condolences to all of you. May time heal your hearts and know that one day you will be reunited.
Your friend
Ray Wong and Family
Vancouver BC
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Janice (Heppell) & Klaus Vogel Dear Scott and family,
We are truly saddened to hear of Nicole’s passing and send you all our warmest thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. The few times we had the priviledge of seeing Nicole over the years, she was always warm, open and gregarious, sporting a great smile. We know from Rob what a great family you have created together. Nicole will continue to live on in the girls and in all of those whom her life touched.
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Scott & Deborah Adams We are at a loss for words. Nicole was a beautiful sole and we feel blessed to have crossed paths. Our hearts go out to Scott, Brooke, Jada and the family.
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Susanne Scott, Brooke and Jada,
Our deepest love and condolences to you all. How fortunate for us to have known Nicole. She was an inspiration not only during the last four months but as a woman, a mother and a wife. We will miss her dearly.
Love Susanne, Vince and Family.
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Cindy Scott I am so very sad to hear about your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Nicole when our daughters danced together, I did not know her well, but I knew how much she loved her family. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your wife and mom was an amazing person who always had a smile, and a happy word. ~Cindy Scott
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Terri and Stef Schovanek Our love and condolences to you all. Nic lived a beautiful life and was so well LOVED.
XO Terri and Stef
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Penny Gamble Dear Scott, Brooke and Jada:
My love and prayers are with you all through this very sad time.
Love Penny
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Debbie & Murray Kennett Our condolences to the family. It was such a pleasure to be greeted by Nicole over the years at Dr. Stankoven’s office. I only learned of Nicole’s illness in December and was truly shocked. We will truly miss her. Hugs to all the family.
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Rob and Cindy Heppell Dear Scott, Brooke, Jada, Carole, Tony, Betty, Norm & family,
We are so grateful to have known Nicole and have seen her in action as a great mom, wife and friend. We will always cherish our trip to Phoenix together and the social times – whether at their house or ours.
I (Hepp) will miss the mutual support from Nic for Dale Jr. not winning any races and miss “Nic the Super Host” for Scott’s boys as we would invade the Applewood abode for a party.
I have fond memories of the time that Nic took Scott’s place for Wing Night with Ron and me where she gave her Triscuit analogy of Scooter, and my most cherished memory of being able to interview Nic about her life and legacy – the glass is always half full and life is beautiful!
Nic, you will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.
Love Rob, Cindy and Haleigh
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Christina Although I didn’t know her well, I had spoken to her often. She was a lovely, lovely woman. My deepest sympathy to her family.
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Rob & Shari Lidstone Scott, Brooke and Jada,
Words really can’t really begin to describe the profound sadness we feel for your loss. Nic’s strength, grace and dignity is a testament to the person she was, and will never be forgotten! She was taken far too soon!
Love,
Rob, Shari and family
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Glennis Worden It is with great sadness that I learn of Nicole’s passing. My deepest condolences to her family and really close friends. She will be so missed because she was truly loved.
I am sure she is watching over everyone near and dear.
Always in our thought NicoleGlennis
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Janis Wagnell I am very sad and shocked to see that one of my friends has passed. I knew Nic through dentistry and my friend Lisa Lily (nee Dunn) but never knew she was battling cancer. I have a wonderful memory of her getting a hole in one on one of our “girl’s golf nights” years ago at The Ridge–the girl could swing a club!! I will be thinking of her husband and kids through this very difficult time and hope that one day this disease will stop claiming soo many beautiful people.
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Anne & Tim Richter Scott and families, we are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Cancer is such a horrific thing. Sending you strength to get through.
the Richters
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Brenda Janes I am sorry to hear of Nicole’s passing…. I will miss seeing her friendly face and beautiful smile… going to the dentist will never be the same for me.
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Tony McGee I am so sorry to hear of Nicole’s passing, my thoughts and prayers are with you and you family.
I was just at Mayfair Dental this morning and found out that Nicole had passed away. I was saddened and shocked to hear this. She was a great lady and always so friendly. Heaven has another angel for sure.
xoxo