Stephanie Jean Lister (nee Trim)

December 13, 1950 - November 14, 2016

December 13, 1950 - November 14, 2016

Stephanie was born in Annapolis Royal, Nova Scotia on December 13, 1950 to Don and Betty Trim.  She is survived by her loving family, husband, Gerry; son, Tyler (Heather); grandchildren, Avery and Faith; daughter, Kimberly Bregg (Quentin); grandson, Parker; stepson, Duane (Lauren); grandsons, Liam and Aidan; sister, Jill Stokes (Dean) and many relatives and friends.  She was predeceased by her brother, Scott in 1978.

Stephanie graduated from Vic High in 1969.  She worked at Capital Iron, BC Government in Premier Dave Barrett’s office as Secretary, Fish and Wildlife, Attorney General’s, BC Government Manager’s Association, School District 61 in Maintenance and then spent 20 years at Monterey Middle School as School Secretary.  She retired after she became ill, eventually succumbing to Alzheimer’s Disease on November 14, 2016 at Luther Court Community of Care.  Stephanie was treated with care and compassion at Patient Care at Royal Jubilee Hospital for 18 months and the staff at Luther Court pampered her to no end for almost two years.  I personally thank all the staff at these facilities.  Stephanie’s end of life care was incredible at Luther Court.  How these brave and compassionate people do what they do with limited staff is unbelievable.  From the top to the bottom they all work together.  To the staff on 3rd floor West, Bravo!!  Thanks go to Dr. Robert Shepherd for his genuine care of Stephanie.  He visited Stephanie often and thanks to Dr. Kent Butler for saving Steph’s feet!

Stephanie loved her children and she loved life in general.  Rest in peace my love.  You were my everything!!  Forever yours, your loving family and friends from St. John’s Newfoundland/Labrador to Victoria, you were loved by all as we travelled Canada with curling.  Until we meet again – Ger!

A Celebration of Life will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, on Monday, November 21, 2016 at 10:30 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Luther Court, 1525 Cedar Hill Cross Road, Victoria, BC, V8P 5M1 or to the Alzheimer’s Association, 202-306 Burnside Road W, Victoria, BC, V8Z 1M1.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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26 Responses

  1. 4 and 1/2 months have gone by and I think of you by the second! Sad but glad to have been your Husband for almost 45 years! 47 of the best years I have ever had! Rest in Peace my love knowing that, I think of you everyday! I Love You! Ger.

  2. Three weeks have passed since you left us in body, but, your spirit will live on in all your Family and Friends!A true treasure that will never duplicated, but , your Granddaughters have a lot of you in them! Avery, as Devon said, is you all over again!!!! Dev could see her Godmother in her niece Avery, such a wonderful tribute! I’ll start each day and end each day with , I will always love you, until we meet again! This crying to sleep every night is a great weight loss program. Hahaha! Love to all and love to Stephanie! Think pleasant memories, that’s all there where with Stephanie!

  3. Well Hon, your there and I’m here, but, you will always remain in my heart! You were my Hero!
    Love you every minute of the day!

  4. Still sad, but, at the same time glad! You are at peace now in the loving arms of your Mom, Dad, Scott and My Parents Jerry and Kay! So many wonderful people to greet you with, There she comes! Love you to death Stephanie one of Gods wonders gone home!

  5. Love my Baby! She was so wonderful! She was unique, Stephanie was one of a kind. Did I pick the right one? Such a gentle and kind person!I just said to myself today, wow was I so fortunate to have 46 years of Steph by my side! Yea!

  6. Well Sweetheart, you’ve arrived! When we all said goodbye for now, there where those that are rejoicing your arrival! Your Friends and Family gave you the greatest send off. I’m so proud of the eulogies from Tyler, Kimberly, Gil, Vinnie, Trish and Leanne, finally your Goddaughter, who nailed it with her tribute to you. Mentioning how much Avery is so like you actually stunned me at how correct Dev was. There will never be a day pass that I wont pay tribute to you. My everything, my soulmate, the love of my Life! I’m not sad Hon, I’m glad! You fought from the womb to the grave! Your smile lit up a room and touched every person near you! This tribute to you on Monday , November 21st was a small expression of love from your Friends , work mates and Family! I only hope things will straighten out here on Earth, so you may rest in peace! It’s time to swallow pride and join together as one beautiful Family. I take all the responsibility for those I upset, it wasn’t all my fault, but, I’m willing to bury the hatchet! I love all my relatives and Friends, they just mellow out! My sense of humor may upset people, but only if they want it to!Cheers and Thanks for showing up on Monday !

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