HARWOOD, Thomas “Tom” passed away peacefully on February 28, 2012. He is lovingly remembered by his wife, Marni; three sons, Brennan, Graysen and Thane; his parents, Bill and Elaine; sister, Vicki; as well as his extended family and close friends.
A celebration of Tom’s life will be held at UVic Interfaith Chapel on Sunday, March 11, 2012 at 12:30 pm.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to KidSport Canada,180 – 3820 Cessna Drive, Richmond, BC V7B 0A2
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Steve Newhouse
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Chris, Tessa, Zoe & Trent Dear Marni,
We are terribly saddened to hear about your loss. I still think fondly of my days living with you guys on Hillside Drive. Tess and I offer our deepest condolences.
Sincerely,
Chris
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Nonie & Ted Baxter Although we did not really get to know Tom, by the sounds of all the wonderful kudos about his life we certainly wished we had!
We wish Marni & her young men long and productive lives.
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Janice Milligan Dear Marni, I feel blessed to have run into you and Tom a few weeks ago since I hadn’t seen you both for such a long time. I will cherish that
quick visit and know Tom is watching over you all. My thoughts are with you and the boys and I know you will keep their Daddy alive in their hearts forever. My thoughts, prayers and hugs are with you all,
Janice and family
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Mickael Schmittt Dear Marni and family,
I was very saddened to hear the news of Tom’s passing. I had the honor to work with him as a referee for several years while I attended UVic. He had a great sense of humor and a fantastic work ethic. His involvement with minor hockey as a mentor and referee helped shape many youngsters into better, more responsible and self confident individuals. I was one of those people… I always skated a little bit harder when on the ice with Tom as he was truly an inspiration to us all. You have my deepest condolences and my thoughts are with you and your family.
Best regards,
Mickael
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Penny & Ken Marni,
Our hearts are aching for you and the boys. We can’t imagine the pain you are feeling right now. Try and think of all the great times you had with Tom and that will make him feel that much closer to you. Feel my big hug.Penny, Ken & Family
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Sandra(Resch)Anderson Dear Marni and Family
I grew up with Tommy since we were little kids, and have many memories, spending many Christmas’s in Princton together, skiing, and hanging out. I’m sorry I didn’t get a chance to meet you and your boys. Our thoughts are with you and your boys.
Sandra (Resch Anderson).
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Michelle Cameron I spent a childhood growing up with Tommy and his family.I will hold all those fond memories close to my heart.I wish there was less pain for those who have to live on with out Tommy.Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family as we grieve together.The world will be different with out him,
Love,
Michelle & Brent
and family.
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Lorne & Holly Cooper Dear Bill, Elaine, Vicky, Shandi, Marni & Boys:
We have known Tommy since he was a baby and we are so devastated at the loss of your “gentle giant” – son, brother, uncle, husband, wonderful father and friend to so many. He will be missed by so many and we grieve with you.
With Love,
Holly & Lorne
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Shirley and Raymond Lay Dear Elaine and Bill. Marni and rest of your family
We were so sorry to hear that Tommie had passed away.
Our thoughts and prayers are with at this difficult time.
Sincerely
Shirley and Raymond
52-658 Alderwood Dr.
Ladysmith, B.C.
V9N 1R6
250-924-8501
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Nathan Jesse Dear Marni & Family,
Deeply sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I only knew Tom a short while during his stay in Estevan. I enjoyed his engaging conversations that we shared about past major sporting events, Vancouver, the Canucks, facilities, and sports in general. We shared similar views and was really enjoying working with him, and was excited for the future. He will be missed.
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Pete Lewis Marni,
I was very shocked and saddened to read about Tom’s passing.It had been a few years since I worked with Tom at UVic but I shared many great laughs with him. i always appreciated his heart and passion for life and for his family. There wasn’t a day that went by that he didn’t say something about the kids.
His passing is a huge loss for you and the kids and for everyone else who encountered him.
I wish for you peace that passes all understanding.
~Pete Lewis
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Janette Cholette Your passing my friend brings me sadness and regret that I never got to see you recently before your passing. I’m grateful for the chat we had and I look forward to meeting your adorable boys and your incredibly strong wife on Sunday. A friend of mine read the following poem at his fathers service and I feel it just reminds us of how truly precious life is. Missing you (Hugs)
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Leslie Hall Dear Marni and Family,
I was saddened to read about Tom’s passing. I worked with him at Oak Bay Rec Centre many years ago and thought he was a very nice and funny guy. It was so much fun working with him! I am thinking of you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss.
Leslie Hall
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Rhonda Winter Very sad news. We all loved Tom so I cannot imagine the sadness in the hearts of all his family. I will always remember the fun we had in high school and the reunions that followed. I hope all the outpouring of love and positive comments give all the family strength in this difficult time. RIP Tom. Another angel above.
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Derek & Janis Winter We were devistated to hear this so very sad news. Our sympathy to all of you.
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Meagan Brame Marni
I am so sorry to hear the news. If you need anything you know you only have to call. You and Tom where parents we enjoyed having around and where good to us, so please let us help you out if you need it. Tom was a great dad and we will all tell his story to the kids so that they too will remember him forever in their hearts.
All of us past and present at Saxe Point Day Care
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paulette boyd i will always remember and cherish the memories and good times. Deepest sympathy to all of his family…
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Alison Croft I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Tommy as being that happy-go-lucky guy, down to earth, approachable and someone who wanted to help those around him. He was hard working and willing to do whatever it took to provide for his family. He was a special person and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Mike Fischer Dear Marni,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. It’s hard to find words to do justice to the pain you and the kids must be feeling right now. I hope you are surrounded by friends and family to help you through this difficult time.
Time flies by so fast — it seems like yesterday that you were hosting the hockey team for a BBQ at your house. I miss those days, and seeing Tom every week. He was a joy to be around. A very nice and earnest guy. He will be greatly missed by many I’m sure. I’m so sorry for your loss.Mike Fischer
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Heather Graham Dear Marni,
I remember Tom showing me photos of your travels together before the boys were born. He was happy with all life had offered him.
my condolences,
Heather
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Kelvin Pillipow Dear Marni;
I’m at a loss for words, for although we only knew Tom for a short period of time he made a huge impression on everyone around him. I always looked forward to our frequent late night conversations, where we discussed many ‘scholarly’ issues. During this time, Tom would always came back to the topic of family and would speak highly of how you and the kids were doing. Without doubt, Tom would always look forward with a smile to your nightly call for you all meant the world to him.
Our thoughts are with you,Kelvin Pillipow
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Judy Pilloud Dear Marni
I am so sorry for your loss – Even though I only knew Tom for a very short time he made a big impression. I feel that he would have become a very instrumental part of our City team. He was a repected in his knowlege for the way the facility should run and his management skills to make it happen. Hold tight to your family as he often told stories about his sons – and missed them greatly while working in Estevan.
My prayers are with you.Judy Pilloud
Date: February 24, 2022
Hard to believe Tommy 10 years this year you are very much missed my friend and your clear headed council is even more missed RIP Steve