Arlene was born in the backseat of a Pink Cadillac on the corner of Kingsway and Joyce Road in Vancouver BC, and she will forever be remembered as a giving and loving spirit who cherished her family and friends.
As is life, her giving nature continues in her passing, and her status as an organ donor has saved three lives and helped countless others.
Arlene grew up in Victoria and was always surrounded by many friends. She was a fun loving person with an outgoing personality and a cheerful spirit. She enjoyed baking, quilting, gardening, going for long walks and was known for her many hours on the telephone staying connected with those she held dear.
Arlene is predeceased by her dad, Richard Carson, stepdad Jim Gray and brother-in-law Mark Parsons. She is survived by her husband of 31 years, Murray Thomas, her mom Mary Joan Gray,sister Louanne Parsons (Sunshine & Misty (Pam)), brother Rick (Val) Carson, sister Colleen (Steve) Brent and Jennifer Coultas. She also leaves behind step-children Tammy (Ted) Austin and Mike (Cheryl) Thomas and grandchildren, Katelynn, Emma, Dayton and Cooper. Her great nieces and nephews, Paige, Jayden, Hannah, Linden also survive her, along with too many friends to list, whom Arlene considered and treated like family.
Arlene will always be in our hearts and will be fondly remembered.
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that you take the time with your family to register as organ donors.
A Celebration on Life will be held at the Royal Colwood Golf Club on Sunday, November 5th at 1:00 p.m.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Dear Colleen and Family~
I am so sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. I remember her friendly personality from high school and years later when running into her at the Memorial Arena. I hope she and my MG are reminiscing up there in Heaven. Michael would speak fondly of you gals from back in his early days of teaching at Tillicum. Both gone far too soon. My deepest condolences to all of you.
Gina Bains Gregory
Murray,
Sorry to have missed Arlene’s celebration of life. Know you are in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Martine
I so remember every moment I was near this beautiful soul. She made everyone around her feel like family. She had the gift to make you feel like you really mattered to her.
Murray we are all here for you should you call upon us, we love you so much Murray.
The Memorial Arena was different that any other city workplace, it was family. In many ways it transcended work to be like a relationship amongst us all. We lived and loved one another. We were so lucky to have each other. We were always together and always will be together!
We are so sorry for your loss Murray. Ar was such a wonderful person who will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She was always so warm and welcoming to our family and we will always remember her kindness and generosity. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Mike, Leah, Richard and Lauren Abernethy
Murray and family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Ar always had a smile on her face and a hug for everyone. She will be missed by so many.
Elmer and Kathy Mohninger
Dear Murray and Family…
Sending Caring thoughts your way.
Remembering dearest Ar with love as a gal with a huge smile, sweet, and gentle sole. Have missed touching base and the big hugs she generously gave.
Remembering some fun times up Mt Washington, and sharing a glass of cheer.
Take care of yourself Mur – family and friends are there for you
Murray and family, Sending you all our condolences during this difficult time.
RIP Arlene,
Thanks for keeping in touch all these years since the Barn days.
Say hi to Max for me. I’ll meet you guys in the new office in the sky. Save me a beer.
Sincere condolences to you Murray. Arlene leaves a huge void.