Barry passed away at home on May 10, 2009 at the age of 55, after a courageous and dignified 5 year battle with cancer. He will be greatly missed by his loving family, wife Sue of 26 years; daughter, Michelle; sister, Gail (Clay); nephews, Brad (Lisa), Brent; niece, Carrie (Marcel); father-in-law, Gus; sister-in-law, Eva (Richard); nephews, Troy, Jeff, Daniel; nieces, Annie, Donna; aunts; uncles; numerous cousins; close friends and neighbors. Predeceased by his father, Gus and mother, Edith. Barry was a well respected carpenter by trade. It was while he was working for Dura Construction in Port Hardy, where he met his dear friend, John Knappett, whom he worked for 24 years, until being forced to retire due to his illness in September 2008. Barry was an avid sportsman having played soccer, hockey, golf, curling and baseball. He also enjoyed his years of coaching little league. His greatest achievement came while coaching the Traveller’s Inn fastball team to the national championship in 2001. He also enjoyed fishing trips with the gang. Barry will be deeply missed by his numerous friends at the Victoria Curling Club, his favorite watering hole, The Tally Ho and the Garage where many get togethers created lasting memories.
A Memorial Service will be held on Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 2:30 pm at MCCALL BROS. FLORAL CHAPEL, Johnson & Vancouver Streets. Donations to the BC Cancer Agency will be gratefully accepted.
19 Responses
Sue and family.
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy on your overwhelming loss.
Hoping that remembering the good times will help you through this difficult time.
My sincere condolences, Linda Mireau.
Dear Sue;
I know you were a true and loving wife to Barry and I was so sorry to hear from Ruth tonight that Barry had passed away.
Although I know he was ill lately, I never expected to hear of his passing at such a young age.
I always remember you talking about your glorious honeymoon in the cable lunchroom and it was obvious that you had such deep and special feelings for your husband.
I hope you and your daughter remember all the happiest times together as a family and that you will be able to move onward now, with positive thoughts and wonderful memories.
My sincere condolences.
Daphne Goode
Having just found out about Barry’s passing, two days after his funeral, I am deeply saddened that I was not in touch with him this past year as his last days were approaching. I remember Barry from Mt. View High School where he was popular as a soccer player and just a great guy to all who knew him. My personal sympathy to his wife and daughter, and my regrets that I wasn’t able to be at the funeral to be among all those who were also sad to see him go.
Sue and family,
Our deepest sympathies and prayers for you and your family Sue. We have a friendship that spans over 36 years that will never fade, the bond will continue to grow as the years pass. Speaking for “The Girls” we are always here for you. Barry will forever have an imprint on your heart, love is magic with warm memories and sweet dreams. And the sportsman Barry was will live on, he lived well. Thinking of you and whenever you need a fiend. Love Dar (and The Girls)
Sue and Michelle
We are deeply saddened to hear about Barry. There are no words that can truly ease the loss of a husband, a father and a friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and even though we cannot be there for you today, we will always cherish the memories of the times the seven of us spent together. May the peace that comes from memories of a life shared give both of you the strength and comfort now and in the days ahead.
Our thoughts are with you,
Vicki, Darrel, Michelle and Ryan Aune
You are in my thoughts, every minute of every day.
Dear Sue: I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and Michelle.
I am here anytime you need a friend for support. Arlene.
Sue and Michelle,
My thoughts and love are with you during this difficult time. Cherish the memories of all the good times you had together.
Love Joey
Dear Sue, Michelle, Gail and family
Our thoughts are with you, and our deepest sympathy to you all.
Barry will remain with us through many memories.
Take care of each other,
Love Tim & Rhonda