It is with great sadness that the family announce that Brenda passed away peacefully on Christmas morning with her loving husband Adam by her side. She is survived by Adam and their 2 children, Brielle and Aleksander, her parents, Teona and Doug, sisters Janet, Linda and Cheryl and grandparents Ken and Arthurine Dampier and Roberta Bisson. She also had many aunts, uncles, nephews and inlaws who loved her and will miss her very much.
Brenda was born in Innisfail, Alberta on February 18,1982. Always smiling and happy, she was curious and wanted to touch and experience all that she could. She was moved around to Shawnigan Lake, Saanichton, Red Deer and Victoria with her family. She attended Marigold elementary school, Colquitz middle school and Spectrum high school. Adam became her high school sweetheart and she learned to express herself through Band, Drama, Choir and Musical theatre. She was a fierce, hard nosed soccer player with the Gorge and was part of the Colquitz girl’s soccer team when they won their first Island Championship.
She took on part time jobs, including paper carrier and pharmacy clerk and eventually becoming a pharmacy technician. After saving her money, she ventured off to Europe with a friend. Brenda was never shy about trying new things and going to new places. Brenda and Adam moved to Edmonton briefly to broaden their horizons. They returned to Victoria and were married in the back yard of her parents’ home with friends and family on July 4, 2003, with a Hawaiian theme. Brenda was radiant (looking a little like Bo Derrick).
Brielle was born the next June and the young family was settled in Victoria. 3 years later, Brenda was pregnant with Aleksander. Before he was born, she had a lump surgically removed from her back. On Boxing Day 2006, she was told that the biopsy of the lump showed cancer. As a child, it was discovered that she had neurofibromisitosis. She had lumps removed from her back periodically since she was 11 years old but all had been benign. After Alek was born, she had months of surgery, radiation and chemotherapy treatments to combat the Sarcoma Cancer.
Brenda was always positive and battled the cancer with the hope of seeing her young family grow. For the next 3 years, she seemed to have tamed the disease. She lived life with gusto and flair and proudly signed up to play soccer again with the “Gorge Force”. Her family life and her health seemed to be going the way that she wanted.
8 months ago, Brenda was suddenly diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia. She spent months in Vancouver receiving blood transfusions, more chemotherapy and eventually a bone marrow (stem cell) transplant from her sister Linda’s donation. We all loved Brenda and always believed that she would again survive. She was a strong woman and a battler and if anyone could beat cancer back again, it was Brenda.
2 days before Christmas, Brenda was admitted to hospital. On Christmas Eve, the family was summoned to the hospital as her condition continued to deteriorate. She passed away peacefully Christmas morning. Brenda must have been a special person for God to take her on Christmas Day.
A private family service will be held now, with a “Celebration of Life” to be held in the Spring.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Brenda’s young family. You can make out cheques to “Brenda Derkacz” and send to 583 Aquarius Road, Victoria, BC, V9C 4G5. Donations may also be made to the Canadian Cancer Society.

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Teona & family,
On behalf of the entire circulation department at the Times Colonist,
our condolences at this most difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chris Bayley
Times Colonist
Circulation Department
A life taken – – – but not her smile.
Brenda always gave a smile to everyone she meet, no matter what the situation.
Her gift to us all!
Loved & missed
I was privileged to have been able to meet Brenda during the last months of her battle. I was touched by her strength, resilience and gentleness. On behalf of the BC Hospitality Foundation Board of Directors I extend heartfelt condolences to all Brenda’s family and especially to Adam, Brielle and Aleks.
Just want to say that the obituary was done beautifully thanks to Brenda’s Dad…very thoughtful. Brenda will always be our little Christmas angel and will make this day even more precious in her memory…Thanks to her Gina for thinking of this as it is helping in the healing process…much love…Zita
We offer our deepest sympathy from far away in the UK to all your family at this very sad time. Although we never met Brenda, her story of courage and determination is inspiring and we hope her young family can take strength from all the loving memories of her.
WITH GREAT SORROW…SWEET GIRL
YOU ARE IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER…XX
“……..A HUMAN LIFE IS A STORY TOLD BY ” GOD”….
Please accept my condolences–this has been such a difficult time for all of you. Take care.
I would like to offer my condolences to Brenda’s entire family.
I met Brenda playing on the Gorge Force Soccer team. I will remember the chats we had while playing soccer. She had such strength and determination. Her children should be proud of such a strong person with a kind heart now taken away to be their guardian angel.
I will always remember Brenda. Rest in Peace
It’s with sincere sympathy that we heard of Brenda’s passing. We offer love and healing thoughts to all of our family. We are thinking about you.
Love always,
Jason, Melissa and the boys
Brenda will be greatly missed, but her memories will live on forever in my heart.
Love Linda.