It is with great sadness that our family announces the passing of our mother, and loving wife, Carol, she will be lovingly remembered by her husband Robert (Bob), sons Kyle and Jason, and her favourite and only grandson Caleb.
She was born in Kelowna, but the family moved to Vernon, where she spent her early years. In 1968, she married her life-long partner Bob and they started life’s journey together by moving to Alberta. After several years in Edmonton, the West Coast beckoned and they relocated to Vancouver Island. After a short stay in Nanaimo, they settled in Victoria, built the family home, and soon after started their family.
Carol’s skills as a bookkeeper were always in demand, regardless of where they lived; from a small local pharmacy in Vernon to First Metropolitan Church in Victoria. She enjoyed working with many professionals including law firms, accountants, property developers, trucking companies, advertising agencies and non-profit organizations.
Even so, there was always time set aside for her growing family. For Carol, it was always “family first” and it was not before her sons reached middle school age that she eventually returned to work. Mom was always there, for breakfast, lunch and dinner. She was an amazing cook, who was taught the “old school” way by many family and friends.
As a Mom with two active sons, she was always there to support them, be it a “hot dog” day at school, slicing oranges for the soccer team, or just being the family cheerleader at the ball diamond; she was always there to lend a hand. Win or lose, she made sure there were always snacks and a positive comment to help celebrate a win or soften the sting of defeat.
When she retired, Mom still had a busy life, keeping up with the rest of the family and many special friends. Once again, she was on the sidelines, watching baseball, soccer, swimming, sports and other activities of her grandson.
She and Bob always made time for coffee together, and they were regulars at the local Starbucks, busy checking calendars and notebooks, and planning their week. Mom loved the outdoors, gardening, the hummingbirds on the deck, BBQs, beach walks, skiing, and as a participant for more than 17 years, “conquering” the annual TC 10K Walk.
There were also may Sunday dinners and she enjoyed having a full kitchen of helpers. In the fall of 2018, Carol and Bob celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversary at the Royal Colwood Golf Club, surrounded by family and friends.
A Celebration of Carol’s life will be held at First Metropolitan United Church in Victoria, BC on Friday January 24, 2020 at 1:00 – 2: 00 pm. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada to assist with funding the research surrounding heart disease and stroke.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Our heartfelt condolences to you Bob, Kyle and Jason. I will miss Carol very much, she was a really good friend to me thru the years. Carol was a special lady, we had many laughs and many serious talks. I am gratefull for our little visit in Nov, little did we know it would be the last. My heart goes out to Bob, I know you all will miss her greatly. There are no words enough to express the loss of such a lovely woman.
We were shocked and saddened to read of the passing of your wife and mother, Carol Goy. We are so sorry for your loss. Carol was a lovely, cheerful woman who always had a ready smile and friendly greeting. We will miss her as I am sure your whole family does as well. Our love, Ruth and Ron
Kyle. So sorry to hear the loss of your mom. She was a very kind, giving and generous person. Thinking of you, your dad, your brother and your nephew as you struggle through your loss. Those amazing brownies are in my memory forever!
Ken Bergeron& Lorelee Bergeron
Dear Bob and family, I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Carol. Although we haven’t been in touch for many years, I have many fond memories of the “early days” we enjoyed.
My condolences to you all.
Barry
Dear Bob & Family. We are so sad of your loss. Carol was such a great person and always there to help or cheer. May God be with you my friend.
Norm & Gwen Bravender
Dear Bob, Kyle and Jason,
We were very sorry to hear the sad news. Carol was a lovely person, always upbeat and welcoming. She will be greatly missed.
Our thoughts are with you.
Bill and Joan Fraser
Dear Bob, Kyle, Jason and Caleb
Our hearts are with you all through this most sad of times. Carol was an amazing wife, mom and friend. I have so many treasured memories of days spent playing at your house, rolling down (what seemed like at the time) the huge hill in your backyard and reconnecting again when our kids were born. You have all been the most special family in our lives for well over 45 years! Carol was such a special dear friend to Mom and I know she valued that friendship so very much. I believe our moms are together again, having a cuppa and laughing away. Our deepest sympathies to you all. She loved you all so much and she will be with you every day, cheering you on always.
Bob, my friend – a special big man-hug to you! What a difficult time this must be for you – but Carol’s memory, for all of us, will be indelible. You and Carol, as a team, have been important for me (and so many others) in this short life which ends too soon sometimes. Carol’s continuing friendship to me – and the continuing friendship of you, Bob, and Jason and Kyle as well, will always remain a positive. I will also fondly remember Carol for her kind cookie supplies for me in my unending need and pleasure whenever they have arrived at my office.
Carol – you are an angel still!! Gerry
Dear Jason,
I am sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. What a beautiful summary that is written here of her life. She sounds like an amazing woman. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
Erica Grinnell
Dear Bob & Family, Brian and I were so sad to hear of Carols passing. Carol was always so nice to us, such a lovely person. Thinking of you and the boys at this difficult time. Brian & Terry Alexander.