Elaine Hong, age 57, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 20th 2024. Predeceased by mother Sau Ping, father Wing Foo Kung and mother-in-law (Jean) Kwai Ying Hong. She is survived by husband Henry, daughter Kelsey, son Daryl, sisters Jean (Jamie), Sue (Tim), Carling (Aaron), nieces/nephews Marlyse, Trevor, Alex, Tamera, Kyle & Sophia. Uncle Tin Kuen (Susan) of New York, cousins K.Y. (Lisa), Fred (Louisa), & Frank (Carolyn). Half sister-in-law York Quin Hong, Stella (John), Norma (James), nieces Jennifer (Andrew), Selena (Peter), Miranda (Mike), Alexa (Juan) Carissa and many other loving relatives.
Born and raised in Victoria, Elaine lived and enjoyed life as best as she could despite her progressive Muscular Dystrophy diagnosis. Never wanting to be the center of attention, she was content being in the background. Elaine really enjoyed time spent with family, friends, and the many co-workers, colleagues, and acquaintances she met who became her personal friends while working 28 years for the BC Ministry of Finance, Revenue Division.
She wanted to continue working full-time but her deteriorating health condition over the years made it impossible. So, she reluctantly went on Long Term Disability spending the majority of her time at home. During her active years, she enjoyed cooking, baking, eating out, planning and hosting lunches, dinners, parties, etc., traveling on many family road trips and cruises, having movie nights out then later family movie nights at home, completing Sudoku puzzles, online iPad memory games, coffee and munching chips!
Elaine had an admirable quality of remembering and recognizing family/friend’s milestones. She was able to partake in many celebrations over the decades and really enjoyed all of the events. She had a very kind heart, ensuring everyone was doing well, and having a good time.
The Hong household has always been ‘Party Central’ over the years with many family and friends visiting all the time. Even more so when Elaine was not able to leave the house as easily. During her last year when daily care-aides came 4 times a day, the regular health care staff became her new temporary best friends. They loved talking to her and vice-versa about their personal lives and they did their best to make Elaine’s life at home more enjoyable.
Elaine was a truly wonderful person and we will all miss her dearly.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Elaine can be made to Muscular Dystrophy Canada, 500- 40 Eglinton Avenue, East Toronto, Ontario, M4P 3A2, Attn: Jennifer Williams, Online- www.muscle.ca/donate or via telephone (1-800-567-2873).
A Celebration of Life Memorial Service was held on Monday, September 9th, 2024, at 2:00 PM, in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, British Columbia.
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33 Responses
She was a wonderful person and had a beautiful soul. Miss you . Sorry for your loss
Henry and family,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Elaine was always so kind and welcoming to the Mah family. I remember her warmth and love. Thinking of you and your family.
Brenda Lee (Mah)
I am so sorry to learn of Elaine’s passing. I worked with Elaine many years ago now, but I will never forget how kind and welcoming she was when I first started working in government. I will treasure my memories of our conversations about baking, cooking and her family that she spoke of so fondly. May you be comforted by your many memories with such an extraordinary person. My deepest condolences to Henry, Kelsey, Daryl and all your extended family.
Dear Henry, Kelsey and Daryl,
We are deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Elaine. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
We remember Elaine as a very kind and caring person, and her warmth was always her best trait.
She was truly a remarkable and courageous person.
Our thoughts are with you and your family
Bill and Laura Lum
I met Elaine many years ago when I started in government. She was so kind, always made time to give you a smile and a friendly hello. I am so sad to hear of her passing and send my deepest condolences to family and friends.
Henry, our deepest condolences to you, Kelsey and Daryl. You’ve captured in words everything that was so special and wonderful about Elaine.
Heaven has a new angel and she will forever be watching over all of you. ❤️
Sherry and Edmond
Dear Henry and Family,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.
My deep condolences,
Darlene
Dear Henry, Daryl and Kelsey,
Our condolences on the passing of your wife and mother. It was a pleasure to have known Elaine. She was indeed one remarkable and strong woman who will be dearly missed by all . Much love Sandy and Sean Sorby
Dear Henry, Kelsey, Daryl,
My most sincere condolences to you and your family for the passing of Elaine at such a young age. Thinking of you and wishing you all the very best for a beautiful service and celebration of life on Monday, September 9.
Big Hugs,
Sally
Dear Henry, Kelsey and Daryl, my sincere condolences on Elaine’s passing. Did not know the last visit I had with her would be our last time together. Her love of family and friends shined through her. She always found the good in life never dwelling on her issues. She had such a huge heart with everyone she came into contact with. I will have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, sincerely Frances