Doheny, Ernest Francis “Frank”
Peacefully, at the Kiwanis Pavilion, in the loving presence of family, on January 9, 2011 at the age of 91 years. Predeceased by Dorothy (“Dot”), his loving wife of 41 years; brother, Cyril; sister, Amy and brother-in-law, Carl Hortie. He is survived by his daughter, Pat; son, David (Heather); grandchildren, Meaghan, Christopher and Katelyn; brother-in-law, Alan (Sheila) MacFarlane; sister-in-law, Margaret Doheny; cousins, many nieces and nephews; great-nieces and nephews; their families and life-long friends.
Born and raised on Denman Island, BC, Frank was a longtime salesman for Hudson Bay Wholesale (Victoria) and Branch Manager (Calgary). He was an accomplished athlete, having played Rugby extensively with both JBAA and BC All-Star Teams and Lacrosse with the Victoria Jokers. He loved the outdoors and was especially happy when fishing, gardening and helping others.
Very special thanks to all staff at the Kiwanis Pavilion who supported Frank with such care and respect these last 12 years and to all who visited Frank there.
Prayers will be offered in MCCALL BROS. FLORAL CHAPEL, Johnson & Vancouver Streets, on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 at 7:00 pm. All welcome. Private Funeral Service. Interment with Dorothy will follow at Royal Oak Burial Park. A Celebration Tea will be held in MCCALL BROS. FAMILY CENTRE on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 from 1:30 to 4:30 pm. Flowers gratefully declined. Donations, if desired, may be made to the Alzheimer Society of BC #202 – 306 Burnside Road West, Victoria, BC, V8Z 1M1 or to BC Cancer Agency of Vancouver Island, 2410 Lee Avenue, Victoria, BC, V8R 6V5. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.mccallbros.com.
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Marilyn Weeks
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Chris Hi Pat
I was very sorry to hear about your Dad. He was a very kind gentle man and I can’t imagine how much you will miss him. No doubt you will find a bitter sweetness to his loss as you have been his faithful care giver these many years. I say this as it has been my experience. Take every opportunity to take care of yourself!
Love Chris
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Meaghan Doheny Dear Dad and Aunty Pat,
I wish I could have been in Victoria for the celebration of grandpa’s life, but I was there in spirit! My thoughts are with you both during this difficult time.
I will always remember grandpa’s warm smile and great sense of humour. I remember the stories of the tricks that he used to play on you both, like tying your pyjama pants in knots and watching you hop around before you realized what had happened! I sure know where my dad got his sense of humour from. There’s three generations (maybe more) who have been taught to “lick the bowl”!
It would be really nice to have the family make a trip out to Victoria when I am feeling better. I would love to catch up with everyone, it has been too long! I’d like to hear some more great stories about grandpa’s life. Hope to see everyone soon.
Love,
Meaghan
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Heather Doheny Dear Dave and Pat,
I would like to share some of my memories of your Dad.
I remember the mischevious glint in his eye…….his sense of humour. I laugh to myself when I recall him licking bowls and/or plates at the kitchen sink.
The Christmas tree….covered in a sheet teetering its way up from
the basement…..with Frank hidden behind and below it was quite a sight.I remember him reading his newspaper…….err……should I say sleeping in his chair….with newspaper in his hands….and snorting himself awake….then checking around the room to see who had glimpsed!
I remember his visits to our house and our kids on his knee. He always brought loonies……and our kids obviously remember those times too.
I remember Frank helping us move once….and taking a dishwasher to 2211 in the vintage car.
I recall his amazing vegetable garden and how proud he was to show it off.
You two were lucky to have such a great Dad. I did not grow up with my Dad and he passed when I was 21.
I wish I could have been in Victoria with the family but, glad Dave, Chris, and Katelyn could be there.
Love from,
Heather
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Kathy & Wayne To our favorite uncle/ great uncle
May the fishing be good and the Irish whiskey strong
You live in our hearts
We will love you for ever
We love you old goat
The Calgary family
Kathy, Wayne, Kyle
Stephanie, Brad, Lexy, Emma
Devan & Erin
Tristan & Kristin
Penny, Sara, DW and Sylvester
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Lynne Stewart (nee Dobing) Dear Pat, I was sorry to read of your Dad’s passing. It has been many years since we last spoke, but the Dobing-Doheny “2211” connection is a strong bond. Thus, my thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. Lynne
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Corinne Tench Dear Pat and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Please accept my blessings and healing energy.
Corinne
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irene manderville Pat–My thoughts are with you at this time.
I remember you were always there for your dad when he was in the Kiwanis Pavillion.
I may see you at the “tea” on the 19th.
–Irene
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Loraine Cumming (nee Moyes) Pat so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember your Dad so well back from my high school days when he was a supplier for the Horseshoe News. My Mum passed in 2001 but whenever we drove past your old home she would think of him. My Dad passed in 2007.
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Maureen Cplgan Dear Pat,
We are so sorry to hear of your Dad’s death. Please don’t hesitate to call or knock on the door if you need anything.
Take good care of yourself…
Maureen, Kenedy and Baby Harlyn
Dear Pat
We just heard about the passing of your Father. Our sincerest condolances. Know that we are always here for you, just from the other end of the world.
Love
Marilyn and Ray from Australia