Gerald Adam Neely

August 20, 1928 – September 20, 2021

August 20, 1928 – September 20, 2021

Born in Windsor, Ontario to Adam and Olive Neely, Gerry lived a long life filled with loving relationships with family and friends, tremendous accomplishments in his chosen profession and community service, a curiosity about the world around him, and the gift of a sense of humour that resonated with everyone he met. And throughout, he was a gentle man and a gentleman.

After a childhood spent in the Walkerville area of Windsor, he completed a Bachelor of Arts – Honours Economics & Political Science at the University of Western Ontario in 1951. He joined the Toronto brokerage office of A.E. Ames & Co later that year, and was then transferred to the Victoria office in 1952. A few months later, in April 1953, he met the love of his life Patricia (on a blind date) and after a brief return to Toronto, started at UBC Law in the fall of 1954. Gerry and Pat were the first “marrieds” in the class and celebrated 66 years of marriage in February this year.

Gerry was the first articling student at one of Victoria’s oldest firms Pearlman & Lindholm. Following his call to the Bar in 1958, he established a solicitor’s practice with a focus on commercial and residential real estate, and wills, estates & trusts. He became a partner in 1965, changed to associate counsel circa 1999 and retired from practice in 2005. A life in the law with one firm is rare indeed and Gerry was the epitome of one who serves others with loyalty to them and their interests.

It was his work with the British Columbia Real Estate Association and the Victoria Real Estate Board where his people and professional skills shone. In 1999, Gerry was awarded an Honorary Life Membership in the British Columbia Real Estate Association in recognition of his counsel and service to the industry. In the same year, he was named as an Honorary Member of the Victoria Real Estate Board in recognition of 25 years of service as Board solicitor. In 2006, he celebrated the 25th anniversary of Legally Speaking described as “one of the most trusted publications for real estate professionals in BC”. Gerry summarized in excess of five hundred cases in a manner that translated legal jargon into entertaining reading, turning risk avoidance into a welcome task.

He was a member and officer of the Victoria Bar Association and a member, officer and speaker for the Victoria Estate Planning Council. In 2007, the Victoria Bar Association acknowledged his lifetime accomplishments with the Contribution to the Law award.

Gerry was engaged in his community and, together with Pat, served many organizations including the Maritime Museum of British Columbia, Queen Alexandra Foundation for Children, Downtown Victoria Business Association, Probus Club of Royal Oak and the Victoria Symphony Society.  He was a Life Member of the Union Club of British Columbia, and he and Pat were active members of the Camosun Gyro Club for over 55 years, a cherished fellowship of friends and fun that brought great joy to them.

Gerry and Pat enjoyed vacations in Hawaii and hiking in the Rockies at Lake O’Hara (long into their 80’s), several trips to Europe, and relaxing times in the Gulf Islands at the family cottage.

Family was cherished by Gerry. With their daughter Sara’s arrival, the three began a life that would be woven together over the decades with those of other family members, including many nieces and nephews, and later Sara’s husband Ken (d. 2008) and his family.

Always welcoming, Gerry and Pat loved to entertain. Gerry was interested in the lives of others and took great pleasure in hearing their stories. When the three of us traveled together and where there was any shopping involved, Gerry could be found checking out the interesting sights and the food fair. We would find him chatting with people, reading the local newspaper or happily whistling.

Gerry is dearly missed by his loving wife Patricia and their daughter Sara, his brother Stewart, nieces and nephews, and many friends. Pat and Sara extend their gratitude to the staff at Sunrise Senior Living Victoria for their exceptional care of Gerry in the last two months.

A Celebration of Gerry’s life will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please support the Victoria Symphony Society which has brought the joy of music to our family for decades.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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35 Responses

  1. Dear Pat and Sara, we are so sorry to read of Gerry’s recent passing. He was such a great friend to my dad, Pip Holmes, and I loved visiting with you at Catherine and Dad’s parties. What fun they truly were. Gerry’s sense of humour was legendary. I was always delighted when Gerry came through the door at Pemberton Holmes to see and advise Dad, or go out to lunch with him.
    The Victoria legal scene just won’t be the same without him.
    He was such a well rounded, gracious and kind person.
    Warm hugs, Di Holmes and Lary Hansen, Nanaimo

  2. Sara and Pat, I am very sorry for your loss. I very much enjoyed Gerry’s visits to our office. Please accept our condolences.

  3. Sara, what a wonderful tribute to your Dad in the paper this morning. You captured every aspect of the Man he was. His twinkling smile, his brilliant contributions to our community, and his exceptional Love for you and Pat, will live in my mind always… Hugs to you both…Deedrie

  4. Dear Sara, thank you for sharing your journey with your parents. It speaks volumes to the exemplary woman you are. Your Dad’s greatest legacy is his daughter. My thoughts are with you and those most important to you.

  5. So sorry to read about this Sara. My condolences.

  6. A ready smile, a lively twinkle, a dashing figure in his Downton Abby dress up for a cocktail party and a perfect partner for Pat and loving father for you, Sara. What a tribute this was to read and revel in a life well lived—for him and and for the community who was fortunate to count him among the leaders here. May you reflect on your decades of happy memories and cherish those times forever. Xoxoxo Marg

  7. Dear Pat and Sara,
    Pam and I were saddened to learn of Gerry’s passing. He was and always will be remembered as a true gentleman.
    Over many years I always looked forward to interesting discussions on legal real estate matters in his capacity as the Victoria Real Estate Boards solicitor or his writings in Legally Speaking.
    Gerry always presented his opinion with great knowledge, understanding and wit.
    He will be missed and remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

  8. Gerry was very friendly and always said hi. Everyone I work with always had good things to say about Gerry. God Bless You will be missed

  9. Condolences to Pat, Sara, Stewart and family.
    Victoria has lost a rare, honourable man. A man for whom I worked as legal assistant for many years. Always my mentor, we had many lively enjoyable conversations about law and other subjects. I considered him a friend.
    His obituary describes him well. He will be remembered.

  10. Patricia and Sara. What a wonderful life and fitting tribute to a
    truly exceptional man. When I think of Gerry a smile crosses my face and great memories flood my mind. The dry wit and humour and the self effacing delivery of his observations hard to beat. Very best wishes to the family. Ken Henderson

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