Born on December 29, 1920 in Liverpool, England. Passed away peacefully on April 27, 2012 in Victoria, BC. Trudie was an extraordinarily loving woman who saw beauty in everything and everyone. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Jim and her eldest son, David. Forever cherished by her children, Barry (Jeanne), Joyce Bronwen Roney (Pat), Trevor (Jody); grandchildren, Mary, John, Darryl, Samantha, Megan, Braeden, Alex and Leah. Trudie was known for 25 years as the right hand of Dr. Bob Young and a life long, devoted parishioner of St. Mary’s Anglican Church in Oak Bay. A very special thanks to Louisa Peters for her loving friendship and to the compassionate caregivers at Oak Bay Kiwanis Pavilion.
A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, June 2, 2012 at 1:00 p.m. at St. Mary’s the Virgin Anglican Church, 1701 Elgin Road. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Canadian Red Cross, 909 Fairfield Road, Victoria, BC V8V 3A3. Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Bronwen Palfrey
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Peter Jones Hi Barry and family,
I was sorry to hear of your mom’s passing,she’s been a wonderful inspiration through the years and I’m sure that you have many wonderful memories.
All the best
Peter Jones
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Rev. Nancy Ford To Trudi’s family which she adored.
Over the years we had many wonderful conversations. I will miss her smile and the many stories and despite difficulties the joie de vivre. She was a stoic in the best sense of the word and her delightful spirit will be missed.
Peace be with you all.
Nancy
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Margaret Martin This is especially for my “extra” son Barry who used to send me flowers on Mother’s Day because I had played his Mom in so many plays. I cherish those phone conversations with your mother, Barry, in which she used to relay messages from you. What a beautiful woman, inside and out.! So sorry I can’t make the service tomorrow as I have family commitments, but I’ll be with you in spirit.
I have now moved to The Orchard,at St. George’s Church in Cadboro Bay. With Vince gone, that house at Prospect Lake was just too big. I’ve been going to St. George’s for 25 years, so know this is where I belong. I still do some filming which keeps my hand in the business. With deepest love and sympathy, Margaret
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Beth Jones Trev,
Sorry to hear of your Mom”s passing. I’m sending hugs to you and your family. Take care.
Beth
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Rob Heppell Barry, Joyce, Trevor & families…
Your Mom was a great lady! Over the years I had many chats & visits with her. I always chuckle when I think of your parent on their scooters. My sincerest condolences.
…Rob
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Nadene Speed Dear Joyce and family: So sorry to hear of Trudie’s passing. She was such a beautiful woman and always smiling. I have such fond memories of her laughing at the crazy things we used to do/think of to do and she was always wondering what we were up to next. She was a joy to be around and her kind and gentle ways touched many lives. I will always have a special place in my heart for her. Lots of love and sympathy to you all.
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Heather (Gibson) Bos & Stewart Gibson Hello Barry & Jeanne / and family ~
Walking in your shoes of loss and so many memories for both our families. Our parents had such fun together!! (you possibly have no idea)
When I last talked to Trudie, she reminded me of her cabinet that stored all her stationery and all the cards & letters that were shared with my mother. (Barry, I think I suggested that last time we chatted) (Weren’t they both pack-rats and I can see their smiles as they opened up cards & letters). No one can take away that joy! It is a generation – it is a connection.
We were blessed with her love, care & spirit ~
Heather (Gibson) Bos & Stewart Gibson
(Elaine Gibson now passed)
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Michael and Sandra Martindale To Trudie’s family: our condolences in your loss! Like my Mom (Pat Young) and sister Deb have said in their messages to you, Trudie was indeed an intregal part of our family for two and half decades looking after Dad and their medical practice, and I have very fond memories of her. We will not be able to attend the service as we not be in Victoria but have sent a donation to the Red Cross in her honor!!
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Pat Young Barry, Bronwen, Trevor and Families: I had tears in my eyes when I read the obituary for Trudy in the Times Colonist. She was such a lovely, warm, caring person and was so much a part of our family’s life for those 25 years. Bob always told the story that the patients would often phone Trudy in the middle of the night to see if she thought they were sick enough to phone the doctor. Of course, those were the days when the doctor came out in the middle of the night. I can’t remember how many staff she trained to do things properly but it was always appreciated by Bob and myself.
Trudy had many talents and her beautiful singing voice was particularly wonderful. She shared that talent with joy. She also played a mean hand at bridge. Trudy has left behind many happy memories and I feel fortunate to have known her as a friend.
My sincere condolences to you all. Pat Young
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Torrey & Barbara McCall We send our sincere condolences to the Flatman family.
Torrey & Barbara McCall
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Lindsay Jones Dear Barry, Bronwen,Trevor and Families,
I absolutely adored your mother. She was a wonderful lady and it was always a joy to see her as she was so generous and happy to see me and I treasure having known her. To me, well, she was such fun with those big sparkly blue eyes! My love and thoughts are with you.
Lindsay
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Debbie McKeil (nee Youngt) So sorry to hear of Trudie’s passing. She really was my father’s “right hand” – and perhaps his left hand as well. I have fond memories of visiting her at the office as a child – I believe among her many duties she was also in charge of distributing the lollipops.
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Dave & Judy Wingate Joyce & Trevor: So sorry to hear that your mother has passed. She was such a gracious women. I remember our younger days and some of the crazy things our band of youths were plowing through her home with and she was always smiling and gracious ( a lot of times when she shouldn’t have been I’m sure)
She had a long life with lots of family.
Best WishesDave & Judy
Dear Bronwen and Barry,
I am now living in NY, USA – a very long story since I haven’t communicated with either of you since the 60’s.
Just wanted to say my memories of your mum were, of course, from these times. I remember her being a very beautiful woman – inside and out… very kind to me… Vivacious and warm!
(And tolerant of the black leopard sking bell-bottom outfits that Bronwen and I made to go out on the town.)
Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily…
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Take care,
Bronwen