It is with profound sorrow that we announce the deaths of our beloved Jaime and her beautiful son Caden, both lives lived joyously but far too short. They were surrounded by love from their family, Heather Wood and Dave Traynor (parents/grandparents), Jaime’s siblings/Caden’s aunties and uncles Cory (Kayla Willison) and Kelly (Damian Williams), Caden’s cousin Parker, Nana Elaine Wood, and close and loving aunties, uncles, cousins and friends.
Jaime loved being a mother to her sweet boy. She was a single parent by choice, bringing her remarkable focus, resolve and strength to this decision. Caden was born in Jaime’s home in Victoria BC into the loving arms of his Nana Heather and their midwives. Jaime and Caden are inseparable and complete. They loved reading, walking and spending their days together. Caden’s untimely death, too short a time on this earth, was too much for Jaime who could not live without her beloved Caden.
Jaime was a compassionate and dedicated friend. She had a kindness and understanding of others, remembered by so many for her homemade cards and thoughtful gifts, visits, and phone calls. In her quiet way, Jaime brought people together and positively impacted so many lives. Jaime had an adventurous spirit, embracing fearlessly new experiences, whether stumping for Obama or white water rafting in Uganda. Jaime was so looking forward to sharing her love of travel with Caden. They travelled to far off and fanciful places through books and stories.
Jaime was a strategic and determined advocate, for both herself and others, working as a leader with Stigma-Free Society, understanding, navigating and supporting others in our fractured mental health system. She was a committed volunteer at KidSport, Saanich Volunteers, Shanti Uganda, the Regina Sexual Assault Centre, the Red Cross, and with individuals whose lives she enriched with weekly walks and visits. Jaime’s life was complicated by bipolar disorder but was not defined by it.
We are deeply appreciative of the efforts made by the countless individuals and agencies who helped to find Jaime and reunite her with Caden.
For those wishing to make donations, please consider a group of your choice supporting people living with mental health challenges, the Victoria Brain Injury Society (Jaime’s workplace), or KidSport. We would be grateful to have your memories and photos shared to Jaime’s blog at www.jaimetraynor.ca
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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21 Responses
Hi Heather and Dave,
I just learned the news of your daughter, Jaime, and your grandchild, Caden’s passing. I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like Jaime was a dynamic, respected, reflective person. I wish you all Peace, Love and strength and lots of support from family and friends. I wish you Light when you feel in a dark place. Thinking of you and sending Love,
Teri
Dear Heather
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear daughter and grandson. My heart aches for you and your family.
Sending warm thoughts and hugs,
Shawn
My deepest sympathy to Heather, Dave and family. Words cannot express the grief and heartbreak you must be going through. Much love from us to you all. Please know that you are in our thoughts.
Valerie & Brian
Elaine and family
Our sincere condolences on the sad loss of Jaime and her beautiful son Caden. Thinking of all of you and keeping you in our prayers. She was
Cathy, Sheila and Ian
“We are all in this together” I have been thinking a lot about that phrase the last few months. It applies to life, not just the COVID19 pandemic. Each persons life is so important so today I honor the love that Jaime and Caden shared with their family, friends and community both in their home, and far away, through travels and work and daily living. .As a niece to Aunt Irma and cousin to Nana Elaine yet not really knowing the younger generations I acknowledge the pain of this parting. May caring family and friends surround all of you with long distance hugs and thoughtfulness through this difficult journey of loss and acceptance. Like Jaime be inspired to make a difference.
Dear Heather, Dave, Mrs. Wood and families,
Deb and I offer our sincerest sympathy on your loss.
The tribute to Jaime and Caden, in the Regina LeaderPost, was so beautiful and allowed us a glimpse into their lives, thank you for sharing that with us.
You are in our thoughts and prayers,
Deb and Randy Ottenbreit
Regina, SK.
Dear Heather, Dave, Elaine, and all the other members of your family
I was deeply saddened to hear of Jaimie and Caden’s passing. I got to know Jaimie during the years she spent in Regina working at the Early Learning Centre. Jaimie’s strong commitment to social justice is what I remember most about her. During her time here, there was a walk to end homelessness in Regina in which she played a prominent role. There was also her work at the wonderful Early Learning Centre.
Jaimie helped to make Regina—and the world—a better place.
I also have a family connection with Jaimie. Elaine’s and my mother were fast friends and the Strattons often had Sunday dinner at the Elderkin’s house on Victoria Avenue during the years Elaine and I were growing up.
With heartfelt sympathy
Florence Stratton
Elaine and family. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your many memories of Jamie and Caden will give you comfort. I and Rosemary Dietrich are sending our love and prayers to you and yours.
Ruth Steinecker.
Dear Dave,Heather and family,
I was so sorry to hear of this incredibly tragic news. The tribute here speaks volumes of the deep love within your family. My thoughts are with you all at this unimaginable time of loss and sorrow.
Dear Heather and Dave, we are so sorry for your loss. Jaime was an amazing person and we were so fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with her. She will be dearly missed. Our thoughts are with you both and with your family as well.