John David Yaxley, age 55, passed away peacefully on December 19th, 2024, after a courageous battle with cancer. Born on June 10, 1969, John was a beloved son, father, brother, and friend who touched the lives of many with his kindness, generosity, and unwavering faith. This obituary was lovingly prepared in consultation with him.

John’s life was deeply rooted in his strong Christian faith, which guided him through life’s joys and challenges. His faith was a source of hope and resilience, inspiring those around him to trust in God’s grace.

John is survived by his loving mother, Elaine who provided steadfast love and support throughout his life, and was predeceased by his father David. John is also survived by his wife, two cherished sons, two sisters, and 5 nieces and nephews.

A funeral service will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, Victoria, 4665 Falaise Drive, on Friday, January 3, 2024. The interment will be at 2:00 pm in the Garden of Remembrance at Royal Oak Burial Park, 4673 Falaise Drive, Victoria, and the service will start at approximately 2:30, with a reception to follow. John wanted to encourage all who knew him to attend and celebrate his life. In lieu of flowers, we kindly request donations to the Victoria Hospice Society or a charity of your choice, in John’s memory.

Please follow the zoom link for live streaming of the service.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83655881393?pwd=ZANCbum6rf66oOM6kapqTebye9wiUV.1

John’s resilient and strong faith carried him through particularly in the last few years, providing him with comfort and strength even in the face of adversity. His unwavering belief in God’s plan was an inspiration and will continue to guide those who carry his memory in their hearts.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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  • Suzanne

    I did not know your son, Elaine, but knew you at All Saints church many years ago. Sending you sympathy and thinking of you and John’s family. Sounds like he was a lovely man and may he rest in peace.

  • Vaughn Wright

    John made a difference in the lives of many….a servant’s heart❤️ He will be deeply missed but his impact will be continue to be observable in those he touched

  • Lolanda Emerson

    Though our paths didn’t cross in the past few years, I had the pleasure of working with John on many occasions when I first started with the ministry.

    Whenever I faced an issue in his area of expertise, he was super approachable, cheerful, and extremely helpful – no problem was too big or small. Chats with him about family and life were always a joy.

    I was saddened to receive this news recently. My deepest condolences to John’s family, friends, colleagues and those whose lives were touched by him. May your hearts heal with time.

    Rest in peace, John. You will be missed.

  • Hayley Gregg

    I only met John in the last few years but he always had a smile. Rest in peace John

  • Chris Norman

    John you were a good supervisor, a great BPM and champion for your business area, and a amazing friendly engaging person. I was lucky to work for you and with you in multiple roles from the start of the NRM. Reaching out to you for help was never a hassle but welcomed as you shared your knowledge and the history of the systems and how your apps fit together.

    Talking with you was always a joy as you were so upbeat and ready to help.

    I was so happy to see you enjoying retirement, going on cruise after cruise, and lots of trips, you made it all count.

    I will miss you John, god bless.

  • Dave Donovan

    I worked with John for a number of years at WLRS supporting the E-Lic project. He was meticulous in his support and product knowledge. I was shocked and saddened to return from vacation to this news. Rest in Peace my friend and colleague.

  • Doris Boateng

    Rest in Perfect Peace John. Knowing you even for a short period was a blessing to me. I remember how helpful you were to me when ever i came to you for assistance. May God rewards you a peaceful afterlife in Paradise.
    You will be forever missed! Rest well in Heaven.

  • Joey

    I just saw this new this morning, There are no words that can be offered that will help ease the pain of such a loss but please know the hearts of millions in the Cancer Tribe are with you and your family. It is with my sincerest condolences and best wishes to all who cherished his friendship in their lives. What an amazing young man who is now in the arms of his loving god.

  • Dean Hardman

    My sincere condolences on the passing of John. Having worked with him a dozen years I heartily agree with the well thought message by Lynne Anniko. John was amazing to work with but to also talk with on other topics of interest. His courage and calm during his battle with his illness was inspiring and is aiding me in my support of my mother who is facing a similar battle. I can see he touched many in his faith as well. Thank you for sharing a part of your life and your impact John. Rest in peace friend.

  • Jennifer Yuen

    Thank you to those who have offered condolences to Heather, Tim and Daniel. Your notes of support are appreciated and can be sent c/o 4566 West Saanich Road, Victoria V8Z 3G4 or to timdanheather@gmail.com, as well as inquiries about practical ways to show your care.

  • Bill D

    Rest in peace John. Everyone was blessed to know you

  • Lynne Anniko

    John was an amazing colleague and I was privileged to work along side with him for many many years. The words that jump to mind when thinking of John are Positive: John always had a positive attitude and approach to everything, even in the years he fought the battle, John remained Positive. Generous: John was always very generous with his time, whether it be to help you solve a problem, explain something … (sometimes I used to say “ John, give me the coles note version lol !) or just generous with his time in listening or sharing life stories. Kind: John was one of the kindest, and gentle souls I’ve ever met, Trust: I always knew I could trust John’s word, & that he could always be relied on if there was something that needed to be done … you just knew it would be done, & done well. Humorous: John had a great smile & laugh that came easy & we enjoyed a lot of chuckles over the years. Missed. Most of all John, you are and will be missed.

  • Colleen D Kenmare

    Dearest Elaine, Bill and I were saddened when we heard the news about John. Please know you are in our prayers. Praying that Jesus would ease your pain and loss, as He has conquered death for us by His resurrection.
    Love Colleen and Bill

  • Jonathan Charlton

    I met John at the IT department that served the Natural Resource Ministries several years ago. From time to time our work would overlap as we assisted with delivering Line-of-Business software changes. I enjoyed working with John on software that managed hunting licenses. My condolences to his family.

  • Will Taylor

    Remembering John from years together in church youth group, and adventures as young men hiking and boating. Thankful for those good memories. John is always very intentional. Praying peace and hope over your family, and the Hope of Jesus and Eternal Life!

  • Sharon (Frazer) Bird

    Elaine, I was very sorry to hear of the passing of your son, John. My deepest sympathy.

  • Jackie Rowland

    Sending our condolences to John’s family, you fought a good fight John, may you now rest in peace.

    Jackie, Brian, Lina & Shane,
    Hoylake Management Team.

  • Sarah Clarke

    John, you provided a wonderful example to all of us of amazing courage and total trust in the Lord. What a wonderful welcome awaited you as the Lord carried you home. “Well done, good and faithful servant.” My love and sympathy and prayers for the entire extended family, especially your mother Elaine and friend Rob who tirelessly supported you, lovingly maintaining a bedside vigil at the Hospice as you entered the last stretch of the journey.

  • David Fuller (Rev.)

    My brother-in-faith John, who served up potatoes and onions next to me at the Living Edge Market these last 3 years…. an extraordinary dispenser of the grace in which he faithfully lived, to the Glory of God. My great privilege to be counted as a friend…….. Blessings, David Fuller (Rev.)

  • Cheryl Marr

    Thank you to those who have reached out to offer condolences to Heather, Tim and Daniel. Your notes of support are appreciated and can be sent c/o 4566 West Saanich Road, Victoria V8Z 3G4 or to timdanheather@gmail.com, as well as inquiries about practical ways to show your care.

  • John Orman

    Sympathy and condolences to Elaine and all the family at this sad time. May the Christian faith help during the days ahead.

    Rev John Orman (retired)

  • Valerie(Poplar Dental)

    May your years of joy as a family help you through this most difficult time.

  • Jenny Ingram

    I am so sorry to hear this. I have not seen John for years, but when we were all growing up together he was always a positive, kind, gentle, nice young man and I am sure that is how he was throughout his entire life. My sincere condolences to all of his family.

  • Francis and Winnie

    Rest in Peace John, a true soldier in the Army of Jesus. You ran and successfully finished the race and we know you are in a better place.

  • Tom and Marnie

    Rest in Peace John. Your gentle heart will be truely missed

  • Bryan and Elizabeth Peebles

    Well, done John. You fought the fight and triumphed.

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