John passed away suddenly and peacefully with his family at his side. He is survived by his wife of 38 years, Judy (Kappel), children Brent (Chloe), Hayley Warren (Todd), grandchildren Luna, Sasha, Emmett, Brooks, brother David (Brenda) and sister Debbie Wilder (Dan).
John lived in Oak Bay since he was 5 years old. He was passionate about his neighbourhood and community. He helped found Oak Bay Alumni and was the president for the first 15 years. John helped the alumni fundraise for scholarships, a grand piano and was currently helping to acquire a new Track and Field facility.
John had been retired for 5 years and enjoyed each day. He loved gardening, pickleball, committees, traveling (bicycle tours), and most of all, playing with his young grandchildren.
John will be remembered for his smile, dry humour, eclectic music choices, parking rules, his lawn, and above all, his crazy love for his wife and family.
A Celebration of John’s Life will occur in July.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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My deepest condolences to the family. I am saddened to hear of John’s passing. I worked with John at Xerox in the 90’s. John was a kind and caring person who was always was willing to help anyone. Godspeed my friend.
Judy and family… Sincere condolences on John’s passing. I had the great pleasure of getting to know John; we engaged in many wonderful conversations and shared our aspirations and struggles. John imparted beautiful knowledge and wisdom, and I miss him greatly. Take care.
Dear Judy and family,
So sad to hear this news. I have fun memories of John from when we were kids and am glad we got to connect again as grownups, sharing good company and laughs. I’ll miss him. Love to you all.
Judy ,I was very sorry to hear of Johns passing. I am hoping you and the family are able to support each other through these difficult and unexpected times. I know from having been through such a loss that there are no words that can be said to console or make it any easier. I send you and your family all the love, positive energy and thoughts I can muster. Take great care of yourself.
Dear Judy & family, we were so very sorry to hear about John’s passing. You are in our thoughts & prayers at this difficult time. Sending much love & hugs, Andrea & Hally
Dear Judy and family,
We have just learned of the very sad news of John’s sudden passing over a month ago. John was such a friendly, smiley man to know. Rob really enjoyed working with John when he was at Compugen and appreciated his support at the Community Living Victoria concerts over the years. We know you will miss him so much as a husband, father and grandfather. There will be many beautiful memories for you to share.
Rob and Brenda Taggart
Judy,I am so deeply sorry for your loss. It has been a long time since we have connected with all the lovely ladies of our book club, but I so fondly remember those days and how often you spoke about John and the fun you had together. Please know that I am thinking about you, Brent and Hayley. Sending you peace and love. xo
Dear Debbie & Family;
I am saddened to hear of John’s passing at such a young age. I remember John serving up food with your Mum at the 910 Government Food Court when we worked together at Falkins McIntosh.
I hope in time you can remember all the good times you had with your brother; it can be difficult at first, but gets a little easier as years go by.
Sincerely,
Margaret Goodwin