Our hearts are saddened to announce the passing of John Hubert Pickering, aged 75 years, September 13, 2013. John will be dearly missed by his loving wife of 56 years, Sheila; daughter Tina (John), son Mark (Sonja); grandchildren Krystal (Britton), Sarah, Katie, Patrick, and Emma; sisters-in-law Lucy and Eileen in Birmingham; nephew Peter (Julie) with great nieces Kelly and Kirstie Pickford in Vancouver, as well as extended family in the U.K. and many friends around the world.

Born in Birmingham England, the only child of Bert and Lily, John took his apprenticeship as a carpenter there and served in the R.A.F. making lifelong friends, and instilling a strong work ethic he would carry his whole life. He met his true love at age 14 and he and Sheila would go on to marry and raise a family of their own. He cherished these early years, and was very proud of his Birmingham heritage.

The family immigrated to Canada in 1969, settling in Winnipeg and finally Victoria. John had many stories to tell from experiences gained through travel and those he met and helped along the way. He worked in construction his whole life and had a true love of the North, taking him to Ft. McMurray Alberta, Rankin Inlet NWT, Oxford House, Nelson House, Thompson Manitoba and other locations throughout the country.

He had a passion for the water, whether sailing the Juan de Fuca, fishing, or walking the beach, John loved the outdoors and the smell of the seaside. He shared his passions with his family and through hard work and determination cut out a good life and had much fun, snowmobiling, camping, travelling, and making friends wherever he went. He loved music, especially Jazz and we have fond memories of good times around music and dances, John could usually be talked into doing his Buddy Holly impersonation, or play the “spoons” to a favourite tune. Thoroughly British, he loved a good game of darts, and spending time with his mates.

A long time member of the Salvation Army, John had a desire to help those in need. He travelled to the West Indies after the devastation of Hurricane Hugo to help rebuild the tiny island community of Montserrat, and missioned to many through the years. It was his dedication and deep faith that brought him peace of mind and gave him the will to face many challenges, often finding the good in people that others could not, it was these experiences that would help forge his belief of how good and precious life was and how it could be lived in a simple and honest manner.

Although his travels took him many places, his heart was always at home. A founding member of the Victoria MG Club, he could usually be seen with driving gloves, cap and scarf blowing in the wind behind the wheel of their beloved MGA. It was this love of cars that he shared with his son Mark and together they would spend many hours and adventures over British cars, driving the family MGA for the move from Winnipeg to Victoria in 1972, and later driving a 1960 MGA with Mark from Florida to Victoria in 1998 with breakdowns, mishaps and everything in between. It is these memories and more that we will cherish of a man that didn’t just talk about doing something, but went out and made it happen. John will certainly be remembered for his story telling and adventurous spirit, he touched the hearts of all he met and gave of himself whenever he could, he is sadly missed by his family and friends.

The family would like to express their gratitude for the dedication and care of the many nurses and physicians at Royal Jubilee and the Palliative Care Unit at Saanich Peninsula Hospital. Thanks also to the many friends who visited and shared stories and time with John over the past weeks. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the PCU, Saanich Peninsula Hospital, in John’s name.

No service at John’s request. Say a prayer, meditate, have a quiet moment, or raise a Guinness in his honour.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

McCall Bros. Funeral Home
www.mccallbros.com

  • conrad fischer

    I will sure miss him
    Many happy memories

  • Pelagie Sharp & Family

    Dearest Sheila, Tina , Mark and family,

    I was sadden by the news of Johns passing, dad often kept me updated on Johns health and when my dad called me my heart broke. John was one of the few people who still wrote me letters and sent cards even when email was created. I always felt so blessed to receive a card in the mail from him with updates on the family. It was rare to receive cards other then bills at the post office. That will be one of my most fondest memories of John, as he had patience and thoughtfulness to take the time to hand write letters and send it in the mail.

    I am thankful my sister Sheila and I drove to Victoria many years ago and spent time with all of you. John and I got to spend a few moments at the pizza place and sit down and chat alone while we waited for the take out. John was always thinking of others he will be deeply missed.

    My sincere condolences to all of you, I am thinking about you all and sending my love and prayers.

  • kathleen Roach

    Dear Shelia ,Tina ,Mark & family
    Please accept our deepest sympathy in this sad time of loss.
    My memories of John & Sheila go back a long way over 56 years,i remember being with Shelia when she met John at Bingley Hall that was a good day.
    Iamily t has been a long time since we have seen you and so sad that the loss of John brings all the good and happy times to mind like the time John dressed up as Crocodile Dundee .
    The time i stayed with you when i had lost my husband you were so good to me and treated me as on of the fanily a memory i will never forget.
    You are in our thoughts & Prayers
    Love Always
    Kath & George

  • Julie Tutte (nee Moody)

    Dear Tina & Family, Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your Dad. I have fond memories of him (and Mark) with their MG’s beetling about town, as well as many other memories. Your family was always so welcoming and warm at their home. I hope the memories and special times with your Dad help carry you during this difficult time. He was a blessing to you and I was always in awe of what a great Dad he was to you and Mark. Please give your Mom my love and a big hug. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love and friendship, Jules

  • Dave @ Anne-Marie Freer

    Please accept our sincere sympathy in this time of loss. My memories are filled with family & friend gatherings at their beautiful house in Saanich and friendships that will stay with me for the remainder of my years. May you all find peace and know that he is smiling down at us all from heaven above …………………….love Anne.

  • Liz Willis

    Sheila (Mom) Tina (friend forever) Mark, Krystal and Sara…..No words can express how saddened I am about John (Dads) passing…I could not go visit him in the hospital, because I’m the type of person that needs to remember them for the good times…please forgive me for this….John (dad) was an amazing person…the stories…oh the stories…never a dull moment when he was around I have know him for 23 years…always the same man back then as he was till the end…big part of my family…Hugs to you all… I Love you…

  • Bob and Sandy Betts

    We want to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. I know that you have had some hard times lately, but we need to think of the good times. May God Bless all of you during this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Bob and Sandy

  • Nikki Harris

    My memories of John go back such a long way, the one which sticks in my mind is, at about only 6 or 7 years old, in the channel islands, a restaurant/cafe with shell lined paths and gardens, My parents John and Joan with John and Sheila laughing together like children. It made me feel warm then as the memory does now.
    Thank you for the friendship which brought you and my parents together and thank you for the memories.
    My thoughts are with you all, Nikki Harris

  • Richard and Kelly Geere

    Mark, Sonja and family,

    Kelly and I would just like to express our deepest sympathy to your family at this very difficult time and send our condolences as well.

    Regards,

    Richard and Kelly Geere

  • Don, Peggy, and Kyla Lindgren

    Dear Sheila, Tina, Mark and Family
    Please accept our sincere sympathy in your time of loss. It has been so long since we have seen you and so sad that the loss of John brings the good times to mind. For so many years your family made us feel like we were part of it. John was always there to make us feel welcome.
    You are often in our thoughts.

    Peggy, Don and Kyla

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