On June 29, 2021, Joseph Carl Dukeshire passed away at home. He had reached the age of 90. He leaves to grieve his loving wife, Joyce, of 65 years; children Kari (Bernie), Kelly (Wendy) and Kris; grandchildren Tighe (Adam), Anya (Toby), Ashley; great- grandchildren Oscar and Freddy; brothers Ken and Leon (Barbara); brother-in-law Bob; his nieces and nephews; and many friends.
Carl was “Duke” much of his life. Born in Caledonia, Queens County, Nova Scotia on Nov 22, 1930, he signed on with the RCMP in Ottawa in 1953. Duke was posted to Saskatchewan where he met Joyce, in nursing training, and they were engaged three months later. They married, Duke in traditional red serge, on June 16, 1956.
Duke was posted to Prince Rupert for two years of general duties, with many stories to take away and a new baby girl, Kari. Next posting was four years in Kimberley, the birthplace of their son, Kelly. Duke went on to serve in Nelson, Whalley, New Westminster, Mission, where son Kris was born, Cloverdale, then Dawson Creek as Officer in Charge, RCMP Headquarters in Ottawa, and finally Victoria where he was commissioned.
Duke began distance cycling in Ottawa and his love of cycling carried on into retirement. He cycled most of Western Europe, New Zealand and across Canada, with Joyce beside him or just behind. Travel was important to Duke and his family, visiting national parks when the children were young, then on to Istanbul, the Mediterranean, Russia, Panama and Alaska in retirement. Life-long friendships were born across Canada and around the world – true treasures.
Duke was a devoted father and husband. He was so very proud of his children, enjoying every moment of the boys’ sports at UVic and on national teams, their accomplishments and careers in the police force, and he felt great pride in his daughter’s career as a Doctor of Veterinary Medicine. He marvelled at the birth of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Duke and Joyce were best friends and partners in every adventure.
At Duke’s request there will be no memorial. Lovingly remembered and deeply missed.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Joyce, Kelly and family…. On behalf of my family (Murphy’s & Greg & myself, Lori) and being blessed with knowing your family since Ottawa days, our sincerest condolences in the loss of Duke. He was a very special man, always a good friend, willing to help out or support in whatever way he could including being there for our family when our Dad and Mom passed away…. Very sorry to hear of his passing… we have fond memories of a very special man. Our sincerest condolences. Lori (Murphy) Richardson & family.
My deepest sympathies to you Kari – your Dad, Duke, was an old friend. You may recall our short talks about Duke at the Shuswap Vet Clinic. I’m sorry for your loss. Just remember the good times you had, because I know there are many. Duke was a fine man.
Joyce and family
Saddened to learn of Duke’s passing, his was a long and well lived life. Your name brings back pleasant memories of our time in Mission, it was a long time ago.
May loving memories and time bring peace and comfort to your hearts.
Sincere sympathy- Gloria Michayluk, Courtenay
Kelly & Dukeshire Family,
My sincere condolences for your loss. I have many fond memories of Mr. Dukeshire supporting Oak Bay, UVIC and National Team Basketball! First class gentleman.
The Nichol Family send their deep condolences to Joyce and family on the passing of Duke. We met Duke and Joyce and Family while playing tennis in Nelson. We had so many good times playing tennis, working on the courts and at Tennis parties. His adventurous spirit, and fun-filled nature will be missed by so many world-wide.