Judith Marlene Carscadden, lovingly known as Judy, passed away on Friday, August 7, 2026, in the VGH, Victoria, BC.
It is with heavy hearts that we remember our mother, best friend, and rock. Judy was a loving and kind soul who brought warmth, laughter, and joy wherever she went. She was the life of the party and loved being surrounded by people. She enjoyed people-watching, sharing stories, and talking with anyone who came by. Everyone who knew Judy enjoyed her company.
The last five years were difficult for Judy as she faced many health challenges and obstacles. She also experienced the heartbreaking loss of the love of her life, Wayne Ballard, with whom she shared 39 years.
For the last six years, Judy’s daughter Kelly Uyesugi cared for her and supported her with her daily activities. Kelly was by her mother’s side throughout her final five years of health challenges—as her caregiver, her rock, and her best friend. She is grateful for every moment they shared and for the privilege of being there for her mother.
Judy leaves behind her children, Mora Uyesugi, Kelly Uyesugi, and Robyn Carscadden, whom she wished she could have had more time with. She will also be lovingly remembered by her grandchildren, Melissa Baitez and her husband, Stacy Baitez; Joshua Uyesugi-Gorman; and Paris Weiss and her husband, Randy Weiss; and Kya Carscadden
Her great-grandchildren, Anne Louise and David Carscadden, Aspen Rose Weiss and Ryder Eric Weiss, who is expected on August 31, 2026. Judy loved her time on the ranch with Paris, Randy and Aspen, she was so grateful to be there with her great grandchild Aspen Rose, who brought so much life to her.
Judy will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and everyone whose life she touched. We will remember her kindness, her laughter, her familiar routines, and the love she gave so freely.
A Celebration of Life will be held on August 29th, 2026, at 3pm at the Family Home in Victoria, BC.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
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We were sad to hear of Judy’s passing and are sending our sincere condolences. We will miss seeing her on Fridays and sharing a laugh over a glass of wine.
Andra and Gord Hahn
Ahhhh, very sorry to hear this news, Judith, whom I called Judy, Judy, Judy was a slice of delight …. Kelly was a rock for Judy to lean on… Kelly, you are amazing. Cherish the memories!
To lose one of your favorite people in the world is a sorrow that words can deeply struggle to hold.
Today, with a broken heart, I say goodbye to my Nana Banana. She was a guiding light, a sanctuary of warmth, and a constant anchor in my life. To know her was to know pure, unconditional love, and the world feels undeniably emptier without her presence.
Of all the beautiful milestones we shared, there is one memory that stands as a testament to the beautiful soul she was. On my wedding day, it was Nana and Grandpa Wayne who walked with me, hand in hand, to give me away. Walking down that aisle flanked by the two greatest pillars of love and strength I have ever known is a moment I will cherish for the rest of my days.
That moment beautifully captured who Nana was to me—someone who stood by me through every major chapter, ushering me forward with a gentle smile and a fiercely loving heart.
Though the grief of saying goodbye is heavy, the gratitude I feel for having had her as my Nana is heavier still. She poured so much kindness, laughter, and wisdom into my life, and those gifts do not fade away with her passing. I carry her love with me in every step I take, and I will always strive to live with the same grace and generosity she modeled every single day.
You are now having a glass of wine with Grandpa Wayne, your daughter Lorraine and your sister Lynn. Until we meet again, I love you to the moon and back.
Your granddaughter Melissa Baetz loves you deeply and will forever be grateful for the guidance and wisdom you gave her growing up. She always spoke of the tremendously strong bond you 2 shared. Nana, you will never be forgotten. You will be loved forever.