Luella Tolsma

January 3, 1932 - November 22, 2023

January 3, 1932 - November 22, 2023

“Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days.” Psalm 90:14

Faithfulness, integrity, love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness and gentleness:
Words that describe one who will receive the “Crown of Life” for a life lived well, as a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, sister, auntie and friend.

On Wednesday morning November 22, 2023 our beloved Mom was taken suddenly to be with her Lord and Saviour. Being a life long lover of music and a beautiful singer herself, there is no doubt in our minds that she is now singing for joy with the angels.

Not only does Mom leave an enduring legacy of her steadfast faith but she also leaves the legacy of a large and loving family, her six children, Dorothy/Bill, Rick, Pete/Sheila, Allan/Angela, Yvonne/Paul and Tom/Wendy. She was blessed with 21 adoring grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren. She was also a loving Auntie to many nieces and nephews and leaves behind her only sister Pearl and brothers, Jim, Bert, Stuart and Klaas along with their wives.

Born in the Netherlands to a family of 9 children, Mom, with her parents and siblings immigrated to Canada in 1949. She was followed by her childhood sweetheart, Allan whom she married in 1953. The years after the immigration were lean and hard but, surrounded by a loving group of fellow immigrants, they not only survived but thrived. They had what the world would say is nothing much, but in their minds, with their faith, family, friends, love and enough food to put on the table, as Mom would say “ We had it all and they were truly some of our happiest times! “

Mom loved children and was content to stay home and happily raise her brood while Dad worked two jobs to establish a life for their family in their new country. Mom was so loving and kind and a lot of fun. She loved meeting people, no one stayed a stranger for long. Our friends loved to spend time at our home, there was always room at the dinner table for one more. As the kids grew older and as they could, Mom and Dad had wonderful times with friends and family travelling through Canada, the States and to some more exotic locations.

Mom never wavered in that winsome childlike faith she had along with that zest for life, she exuded joy. Mom, you are going to be so missed but now you are in your eternal home. Trust that your legacy is well grounded and lives through us. We will do our best to follow in your footsteps.

“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you, I have summoned you by name, you are mine.” (Is 43:1)

Please join us for Mom’s Celebration of Life that will held at 1pm November 29, 2023 at Christ Community Church, 3897 Holland Ave.

 

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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34 Responses

  1. Rick & The Tolsma Family:
    Rick, it has been a long time since Camosun but events like this bring back memories and thoughts and I thought you might like someone to remember when other times prevailed. My condolences on your loss–it isn’t easy but I recall the times we had and hope you hold on to those as you were with your Family when you attended classes
    God Bless
    Barny Hiney

  2. Dear Family,

    My deapest sympathy to you all on your loss. Heel veel sterkte gewenst.
    Hestya en Xander Vervoordeldonk

  3. We’re so sorry to hear about your mother.
    We’re sending on our deepest condolences to you and all your family.

    From
    Sue & Dennis Dixon

  4. What a legacy your mom left with such love for others and such a love for God and she truly had a zest for life ! We give our condolences to you all as a family . You are all in our prayers .

  5. Blessings and love to the whole family. May the God of comfort and peace be with you. Much love, Mark & Terri

  6. Lieve familie Tolsma,
    Van harte gecondoleerd met het overlijden van jullie geliefde mam en oma.
    We hebben haar ook mogen ontmoeten de keren dat we op bezoek waren in Canada. We herinneren ons het gezellige koffieuurtje ‘s morgens bij Yvonne en Paul toen ze nog vlakbij hen woonden. De leuke verhalen in het Engels en half Fries. En zoals jullie memoreerden, ze was altijd belangstellend en gastvrij. Ze mag nu wonen in een eeuwig huis bij haar Heiland.
    Lieve groeten voor jullie en sterkte als jullie afscheid nemen op 29 nov.

  7. Lieve familie, onze oprechte condoleances na het overlijden van jullie moeder.
    We denken aan jullie en wensen jullie sterkte

    Liefs van Kees en Rita Braam-Tolsma

  8. We will never forget the joy and enthusiasm she had for life. Her sense of humour and steadfast faith was passed onto her kids in good measure. We will never forget her and your dad doing that piggy song in Dutch with all the snorting. I’ve never seen anything so funny. She will be missed by us all. Hugs and love to you all at this time of mixed sorrow and happy remembrances. And there is rejoicing in heaven. Terry and Dale Huberts

  9. To The Tolsma Family,
    sending our Deepest Sympathies on the loss of your mom.
    from
    Tony and Lily Chu

  10. To The Tolsma Family,
    sending our Deepest Sympathies on the loss of our mom.
    from
    Tony and Lily Chu

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