Died peacefully, surrounded by her family, on April 3, 2012 in Victoria, B.C.
Eileen was the eldest child of James and Ellen Cain; she was born in Port Alberni, B.C. on August 13, 1925. She was predeceased by her parents, her infant son Paul, and by two of her brothers, Bernie (Denise) and Cussy (Gloria). She is survived by and will be forever dearly loved and missed by her devoted husband Paul, her children Marina (Gary), Linda (Peter), and Greg (Eileen), her two adored grandsons, Nicolas and James, her brothers Gerry (Pat) and Vince (Yolande), her many nephews and nieces, great-nephews and nieces, many cousins in and around Wigan, U.K., her best friend Aideen Lydon (the sister she never had), and many, many other friends, all of whom loved her dearly.
While growing up in Port Alberni, Eileen was a devoted daughter and sister and lived to play her piano (she loved to play Chopin and boogie woogie music), to sing in the church choir or as a soloist, to play the church organ, and above all to dance.
Eileen left Port Alberni in the early 50’s to become the secretary to the principal of Gonzaga High School in Spokane, Washington and subsequently to work as a legal secretary in Seattle, Washington, before returning to Canada where she and Paul were married in Port Alberni on May 15, 1954.
Eileen spent the next 20 years of Paul’s naval career raising her family in Halifax, Cornwallis, Victoria, Port Arthur and Ottawa. She worked in positions that she truly enjoyed at a hospital in Port Arthur and in the Guidance Department at Canterbury High School in Ottawa and became a Certified Graphoanalyst before moving to Victoria in 1973. After moving to Victoria, she continued her career as an executive secretary by being part of the Opening Team of the Faculty of Law at the University of Victoria and then working with the B.C. Ministry of the Attorney General.
Eileen’s greatest loves were her family, her music, and reading and the places it could take her. Her great and simple faith in the love of God sustained her during her entire life.
A Funeral Mass for Eileen will take place at St. Patrick’s Church, 2060 Haultain Street, Victoria, B.C., on Tuesday, April 10, 2012 at 12:10 p.m., with Father MacDonald officiating. A reception will follow in the parish hall.
Eileen’s family would especially like to thank Dr. I. Hurwitz, Dr. V. Bernstein, Dr. C. Stigant, Dr. D. Woodburn and Dr. B. Sanders for the years of tender and devoted care that they provided to her. Eileen’s family would also like to thank all of the other VIHA doctors, nurses and staff who cared for Eileen most recently, especially Nicole, her Home Community Care nurse; Betty, David and Holly, nurses in the Emergency Room at Royal Jubilee Hospital; and Bernice and Kelly, nurses at Victoria Hospice. For your gentle care, deep compassion and skills, you will always have our deepest thanks and appreciation.
In lieu of flowers, the family would welcome donations in Eileen’s memory to the Victoria Hospice Society, the B.C. Cancer Agency or the Kidney Foundation of Canada.
Condolences for the family may be offered below.
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Debbie
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Cath Dearest Renie,
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your darling Mom. As you know I am with my Mom in Ottawa otherwise I would be there with you and your family on Tuesday. I am forever with you in spirit.
I love you, Cath
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Lena, Steve, Jim,Deb,Linda Marina;
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this deeply sorrowful time. We love you and know your incredible strength and determination and the devotion and love of those around you will help you deal your loss.
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Sarah Dear Marina and Family;
I am very sorry to hear of your loss and please know that you are all in my thoughts. I am sorry that I will not be at the service, however know that I will be there in spirit.
In Deepest Sympathy,
Sarah
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Lynn & Kerry Davison Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time, Marina. May you find peace & rest in the days to come.
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Delia and George Warren, Whidbey Island, WA George and I were very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother, Linda, Marina and Greg, your wife Paul, your Grandmother Nicholas and James and your sister. Gerry and Vince. No Wife and Mom could have felt more loved and cared for than your’s Paul, Linda, Marina and Greg. We remember our visits to Eileen and Paul at their home in B.C. and the copious cups of tea and cake they gave us whilst they engaged us in lively chatter making us so very welcome in their home. All the family are all in our thoughts at this time. We send our love and you are all so very much in our thoughts at this time.
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nancy taylor To my Uncle Paul, my cousins Marina, Linda and Greg. I just wanted to send my thoughts to you all of how much your mom and lovely wife meant to our family. After Dad died now 32 years ago, Auntie Eileen was so gracious in calling my mom on her birthday every year. She also was so concerned for both Susan and I when we both went through very painful times in our lives enduring a divorce with infant children. like the only sister to our Dad she stepped up to the plate (not that she had to) and gave us support, words of comfort, mostly telling Susan and I that we were going to be ok. She even bought us books of self help. I think towards loser husbands.. But she didn’t use those words.. Just wanted to give you all back a little piece of what she gave to me. I will always remember her big beautiful blue eyes, her very soft and gentle voice, and her very unique way of delivering her message in such a kind way but not to be mistaken in her eyes. Thankyou all for sharing her with us! We will never forget her. much love to you all, and please, even in your pain, this is your time, and hers to celebrate the wonderful woman, sister, mother, wife, auntie, friend, and beautiful woman she was to so many.. Love cousin Nancy in Florida xo
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Lisa and Doug Levell Dear Marina, Dear Roggeveen family,
We are deeply saddened by your recent loss. Though we cannot be there to pay our respects, please know that you are in our thoughts.
Sincere condolences,
Doug & Lisa Levell, Kelowna, BC
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Cathy, Gorman, Alissa & family Mr. R, Marina, Linda, Greg & family, our very deepest sympathies to you and the family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Eileen (wife/mother) was a beautiful wonderful person, I can see her beautiful smile and how she could light up a room. I see that smile in my dearest friend, Marina … we will be there in spirit on Tuesday and love you dearly. C & G
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Brenda and Bob Pugh Our deepest condolences to you, Marina and all your family.
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Pamela Joy Mitchell Dear Mr. Roggeveen, Marina, Linda and Greg & family
I am so very sorry to hear of Mrs. Roggeveen’s passing – words
are so inadequate to express my condolences.
I know what a wonderful wife and mother that she was and you
were blessed to have her in your life…..
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this
very challenging time – please take very good care and know that I
send
MUCH LOVE & Showers of Angel Blessings
Pam
My deepest and most sincere condolences to you Marina, your Father, Linda and Greg and all the family. The first year is one of the most difficult you will experience, of the firsts…. But love each other, hold each other and share all the wonderful memories of your mother and wife as it truly will help with the healing along with some tears.
For your father he has lost his life long partner, and the void is incredible…., the love of his life.
I send each one of you many hugs, prayers and peace in your heart. You are in my thoughts, my heart and my prayers.