It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Mary Ferrarelli, beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, on January 2, 2026, at the age of 71, with family by her side at the Royal Jubilee Hospital.
Mary leaves behind a large family and many friends that will miss her dearly. Loving wife for 53 years to Frank Ferrarelli. Cherished mother to Rosalina Munro (Michael), and Domenic Ferrarelli (Lisa). Devoted Nonna to Carter and Massimo Munro, and Chela and Amara Ferrarelli. Caring sister to John Alessio. Mary is predeceased by her parents Domenico and Caterina Alessio, and by her brothers Andy and Dick Alessio.
Mary was selfless. She was always helping and thinking of others. She loved cooking and baking and sharing with everyone. She loved exploring and travelling to new places with Frank, and was always planning their next adventures. Most of all, Mary loved her children and grandchildren more than life itself. She fought her battle for them. She loved to bake with the girls and attended as many sporting events as possible for the boys. She was always their loudest cheerleader. Mary was also a loyal friend. She had a large circle of amazing friends with whom she faithfully kept in touch and always looked forward to seeing.
Our family would like to extend very heartfelt thanks to the doctors, nurses, and staff of the Oncology and Palliative ward at RJH, who provided such compassion during a difficult time. We would also like to thank Dr. J.P. McGhie and René Korchinski, NP for their attentive care, kindness, and dedication over the past 4 years while she fiercely battled cancer.
A Visitation & Vigil for Mary will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC on Tuesday, January 6th, 2026 from 5:00 to 7:00pm.
A Funeral Mass will be held the following morning, Wednesday, January 7th, 2026 at 11:00am from St. Joseph the Worker Catholic Parish, 753 Burnside Road, Victoria, BC, with Fr. Alfredo Monacelli, Celebrant. Entombment will follow this service in the Royal Oak Burial Park Mausoleum, 4673 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
Following the entombment, please join the family for a Reception in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, located next door to the burial park at 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to BC Cancer Foundation.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Sending deepest condolences to you all. I have wonderful memories of Mary, she was a beautiful person. Sending thoughts and prayers to all of you during this time.
Louise, Scott Ross and family
Frank, Rosalina, Domenic and family, I’m so sorry and deeply saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. Mary was a force to be reckoned with. She was a strong, kind, funny woman with lots of love to give. I am grateful for the memories I have of Mary and the time that I did have with her. Mary will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Prayers for healing and strength for the family to get through this tough time. Rest in peace Mary. You will always be in my heart…..
We are so sorry for your loss! Sending our deepest condolences. Mary was always so kind to me whenever I was out in Victoria. She will be missed greatly. Sending all our Love Marie, Wade, Gabby and Zachary Froese.
Guido and I were very saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. We knew her as a truly wonderful person—kind, warm, and always so pleasant to be around. She was a devoted mother and wife, and her friendly spirit will be deeply missed. Our heartfelt condolences to Frank and the entire family during this very difficult time.
my dearest Mary, you were an amazing person. l am very sad for your loss.
My condolences to your beautiful Family.
I’m so very sorry and sad to hear of Mary’s passing. We met back in 2021 at BC Cancer while undergoing the exact same treatment and surgery. We became friends quickly and would go out for lunch every now and then with our last lunch being just a month ago. I will certainly miss her. My deepest condolences to Mary’s family. RIP Mary as your battle is now over ❤️
I’m very sorry for your loss.
Peter and Sarah Stambene
To Mary’s wonderful family,
“Mama Mary” was a kind, generous and compassionate woman who was immensely proud of her family and loved them wholeheartedly. She had a wonderful sense of humour and was always ready to laugh and enjoy life. She was also a wonderful and generous cook, bringing people together through her food, and was blessed with many cherished friends.
To know Mary was to love her, and it was truly an honour and a privilege to call her a friend. She was deeply loved and will be greatly missed. Mary was an inspiration, facing her battle with cancer with remarkable strength, courage, and grace.
May you find comfort in the love of family and friends, and in the many cherished memories you shared together.
Sending you all love and hugs,
Kathleen Lovett.
To Frank, Rosalina, Domenic and families, with much sorrow we extended our deepest condolences for the loss of your precious Maria. May the many memories she has left you with, sustain you through your grief. All of you are in our thoughts at this sad time.
Your cousins from Windsor, Giuseppe and Iola Durante
We share the grief felt by family, friends and community. Memories of a joyful, fierce and independent spirit will endure.