It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Mary Ferrarelli, beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, on January 2, 2026, at the age of 71, with family by her side at the Royal Jubilee Hospital.
Mary leaves behind a large family and many friends that will miss her dearly. Loving wife for 53 years to Frank Ferrarelli. Cherished mother to Rosalina Munro (Michael), and Domenic Ferrarelli (Lisa). Devoted Nonna to Carter and Massimo Munro, and Chela and Amara Ferrarelli. Caring sister to John Alessio. Mary is predeceased by her parents Domenico and Caterina Alessio, and by her brothers Andy and Dick Alessio.
Mary was selfless. She was always helping and thinking of others. She loved cooking and baking and sharing with everyone. She loved exploring and travelling to new places with Frank, and was always planning their next adventures. Most of all, Mary loved her children and grandchildren more than life itself. She fought her battle for them. She loved to bake with the girls and attended as many sporting events as possible for the boys. She was always their loudest cheerleader. Mary was also a loyal friend. She had a large circle of amazing friends with whom she faithfully kept in touch and always looked forward to seeing.
Our family would like to extend very heartfelt thanks to the doctors, nurses, and staff of the Oncology and Palliative ward at RJH, who provided such compassion during a difficult time. We would also like to thank Dr. J.P. McGhie and René Korchinski, NP for their attentive care, kindness, and dedication over the past 4 years while she fiercely battled cancer.
A Visitation & Vigil for Mary will be held in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC on Tuesday, January 6th, 2026 from 5:00 to 7:00pm.
A Funeral Mass will be held the following morning, Wednesday, January 7th, 2026 at 11:00am from St. Joseph the Worker Catholic Parish, 753 Burnside Road, Victoria, BC, with Fr. Alfredo Monacelli, Celebrant. Entombment will follow this service in the Royal Oak Burial Park Mausoleum, 4673 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
Following the entombment, please join the family for a Reception in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, located next door to the burial park at 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to BC Cancer Foundation.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Maria❤️ Ti accolgano gli angeli più belli del Paradiso! Zia Virginia Durante e figlie.Un abbraccio grande a Francesco e figli.
Dear Frank and Family,
We picture Mary’s beautiful smile, her welcoming manner, her love of life, family and friends…and we are so profoundly sad that her life has been cut short. She loved so deeply, and was loved so deeply-the sadness must seem unbearable. I pray that all the special moments you’ve each had will console you. Our moments were special dinners together, dancing the night away – and Mary loved to dance! You will be so missed.
My sincerest condolences to the entire family. Recall the great memories with my cousin during our childhood.
Thinking of you Mary during this time.
God Bless
Laura and Lou Reda
Our deepest condolences go out to the family for the loss of
Mary at this time, Mary had a special presence that will be sadly missed may she rest in peace,
Sincerest condolences for your loss, may she rest in peace. I am great full to have had the chance to enjoy the special shine that Mary brought into the room and shared with all of us unconditionally.
Gianni Veltri, Grazia Arviotti, Gianmario & Riccardo
We can’t imagine your emptiness, May her Love echo in all your days. We are thinking of you all on this sad day sending you our deepest condolences.
Fernando and Fiorella
We remember and honor a life filled with love, strength, and kindness. Though cancer took Mary from us, it can never take the impact she had on our hearts. Mary will always be remembered and deeply missed. Our sincerest condolences to all of you.
Dear Frank and Family,
There are no words that feel big enough to express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Our hearts are aching with you, and it is incredibly painful for us to know that we cannot be there to hold your hands, embrace you, and say goodbye to Mary in person as we would want to.
Mary was so deeply loved, and she always will be. She had a beautiful way of making people feel comforted simply by being herself. Her warmth, her kindness, her gentle spirit, and her love for family were felt by everyone who had the blessing of knowing her. She leaves behind memories that will live forever in our hearts — memories filled with love, laughter, and quiet moments that meant everything.
Being out of the country makes this loss feel even heavier, knowing we cannot gather with you to honor her life. Please know that we are grieving with you from afar, lighting candles in our hearts, praying for Mary’s peace, and asking God to surround all of you with strength, comfort, and love during this unimaginable time.
Mary’s love does not end here. It lives on in each of you, in every story shared, every tear shed, and every smile that comes from remembering her. We hope you feel her presence near, guiding you, comforting you, and reminding you that you are never alone.
We are sending you all our love, our deepest sympathy, and the warmest embrace from miles away. May you feel surrounded by peace, and may Mary rest in eternal love.
With all our love and sorrow
Frank and Sylvia Marasco
Dear Frank and family,
We are heartbroken by the loss of our dear cousin Mary. She was a beautiful soul whose kindness, warmth, and gentle spirit touched everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Mary had a way of making people feel seen and loved, and her presence will be deeply missed.
Please know that although we are out of the country and unable to be there in person to say goodbye, our hearts are with you during this incredibly difficult time. We grieve with you and hold you close in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry we cannot stand beside you to honor Mary’s life, but we hope you feel our love reaching you across the distance.
May you find comfort in the many memories you shared with Mary and in the love that surrounds you now. Her light will continue to live on through all of you and through the countless lives she touched.
With our deepest sympathy and love,
Cousin Frank and Sylvia Marasco
Frank and family our deepest condolences for the great loss, Maria was a wonderful woman, always smiling. May God give you strength at this sad time