October 30, 1959 – February 13, 2011
It is with great sadness we announce the sudden passing of Mike. Born and raised in Victoria he is predeceased by his father, George. Mike is lovingly remembered by his wife, Nikki; daughter, Jacqui; son, Tyler; and mother, Doreen.
Mike was involved for a number of years as coach for Gordon Head Girls Fastball and more recently as his son’s lacrosse coach with Saanich Tigers.
A celebration of Mike’s life will be held at THE WESTIN BEAR MOUNTAIN BALL ROOM, 1999 Country Club Way on Thursday, February 24, 2011 at 2:00 pm.
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Brian & Sharryll Thompson
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Chris and Tammy Mallory Nikki, Jacqui and Tyler,
The Angels are always near those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers, God Bless
Chris, Tammy, Kinsley and Sidney Mallory
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Kim Passmore Nikki, Tyler, Jacqui – so sorry to hear about your loss. Treasure the memories, the laughter, the joy. My thoughts are with you during this time of sorrow.
Sincerely, Kim
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ken dixon Doreen,Nikki
I am a friend of Mike’s from back in the 60’s….
I first met Mike back around 1966/67 when my family moved to Townley st and Mike shortly afterwards became my best friend.
The memories I have of Mike are..
1) Mike and I playing with..Heather & Fred Dobbs and Brian Fowler who also lived on Townley st.
2)The sleepovers that I had at Mike’s & on more than one occassion George (Mike’s dad) would wake us up in order for Mike to go to a practice or a game of some sport, usually hockey or laccross.
3) Mike and I going to see Santa Clause at the old Hudson Bay on douglas st…back in those days the bay would go all out and basicly 1floor was done out as a winter wonderland with a train that took us all around the floor..I still have pics of Mike and I on the train.speaking of Mike and his sports and christmas..my family got a glass xmas ornement of a cubby boy on skates and a hockey stick back in the 60’s and we called it Micheal Deighton and it has hung our xmas tree every year since and we still have it
4) the closeness and love that Mike had for his parents esp his mum Doreen!
The last time I saw Mike in person was back in the late 70’s when he worked for Shopper’s drugs @ town & country and the very last time I saw Mike was when he was on..I think A channel afew weeks ago.
Even though I have not seen Mike for years..I have often thought about him & what had happen to him in his life?
I was glad to hear that he had gotten married and has 2 children which I am sure he loved more than anything else(except for maybe sports).
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you (esp Doreen) during this time.
I was honored to have known Mike and to have called him my friend.
sincerely
ken dixon
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marge and don hambley Our hearts are with you Nikki. We were so sad to hear about Mike. He was a great guy, and a wonderful Dad to Jacqui and Tyler. Know that you can call on us for anything.
Sincerely,
Don and Marge
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Maureen I am so sorry for your loss. I am here if you need anything!
Moe
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carolyn wilson Nikki, Jacqui, and Tyler, I know there are no words to help at a time like this. But, know Mike was loved and will be missed. I knew him for 30 plus years, and he was always kind to me. He had a wicked dry sense of humour. A brilliant mind, and an all around good guy to everyone. Nikki, or Jacqui, if you need me for anything at all, just call. Love you guys. Lynne.
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Liana Stephenson I first met Mike when we worked at Shoppers Drug Mart 30 some years ago. The minute I met Mike I knew he was an incredible Man and would always be a good friend. Jacqui was born the same time as my second child and our fellow SDM employees held a baby shower for both families. Our paths were to cross many times since SDM days and even again very recently as he so proudly shared wonderful stories about his children, Jacqui and Tyler, also giving me a play by play account of Jacqui’s trip overseas.
I can’t begin to tell you how missed Mike will be, not only to me but to a huge community that all felt the same about this outstanding friend we all had.
To his wife Nikki, my deepest condolences to you. To his children, Jacqui and Tyler, you can be as proud of your Dad as he was of you two for the amazing person he was and the lives he touched, my deepest sympathy to you.
With great sadness, I offer my sincerest sympathy to all,Liana Stephenson
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Jon Charlton Nikki and family,
My thoughts are with you in this time of great sorrow. Please accept my heartfelt condolences; and sincerest hopes that you draw upon that wonderful person within you to get through this very difficult time. Words alone feel so inadequate at a time like this, so I’ve written a poem.
Somewhere Else Forgotten Not
You’re somewhere else now …
You’ve released your earthly load,
Where all woes and ails are put aside;
And life’s angst has no foothold.We forget you not.
Tears well sadly from grief;
And stricken by mourn,
Our sobs become relief.We cherish your memory;
And take solace in knowing you.
Love and friendship was your parting gift;
and when we take on another hue,
Once again we’ll be with you.Jon Charlton
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Roger Kawano Nikki & family,
We were very shocked to learn of Mike’s passing.
Our sincere condolences to you and your family.
Regards
Roger Kawano & Nicki Kneitl
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Michelle Glassel Nikki and family, Just to let you know that I am thinking of you and send my most sincere condolences to you and your family. To echo the sentiments of so many others, we love you and if you need anything please don’t hesitate to call…
You are in my heart and thoughts… xo
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June Higgins Nikki, I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. All you can do is greive and take it one day at a time. Sending you lots of love.
June
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Gardner Mackay Nikki, Jacqui & Tyler,
I was very saddened and shock to hear of Mike’s passing. He was a great friend and a loving husband and father. I will miss our friendships and sports trips.
Rest in peace buddy…
Love
Gard
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Graham Tranter Nikki,
My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family on your loss.
I still recall meeting Mike at the ‘Weird Al’ concert where I am convinced he was silently singing just as loudly as we were; or was euqally horrified at the concept :). Being released from the veils of this world, I am sure he is now singing loudly and joyfully, but sitll missing you, and patiently waiting for the day when you will be re-united.
Take care. Graham…
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kathy Nikki, i am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Kathy Hill
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Lesley Scheeren Nikki and Family
my thoughts and prayers for you at this difficult time.
it’s nice to see all these wonderful friends willing to
support you. I am here for you also.
take care you!
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Brenda Rafter Nikki,
We are so very saddened by Mike’s passing. You have been in my thoughts all week. Please know that I am here if you need anything.
Our love to you, Tyler and Jacqui.
Brenda
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Cheryl Buxton Nikki, I am shocked and saddened to hear of your loss.
My sincerest condolences to out to you and your family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Sending you lots for love,
~cheryl (mama)
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Noel, Fran, Rebecca and Ashley Burbidge Dear Nikki, Jacquie, and Tyler,
Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time. We have the fondest memories of Mike…all the great times we spent together at all the arenas watching our girls skate…good times that always finished with a nice family dinner at some restaurant along the way. We have always cherished your friendship as a family and know that will continue. We are here for you always.
Love Noel, Fran, Rebecca and Ashley
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duncan conrad Dear Deighton Family, I was shocked to learn of Mike’s passing.I worked with Mike at Shoppers Hillside and saw him numerous times during his sales career.We shared a lot of laughs together and I am truly sorry for your loss. Duncan Conrad
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Ellen Connell and Peter Johnson Dear Nikki, Jaqui and Tyler, Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of a truly wonderful husband and father. I hope you know how much we appreciated your being Hannah’s “other family” during the Mount Doug Years. We hope that many fond memories of Mike will be some comfort now and in the difficult days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ellen and Peter
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Marn Williams Heartbreaking . . .
Our love to you and family.
Call on us anytime.Marn & Susan
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Linda Rhodes So sad to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care.
Linda
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Brenda (Henigman)Thomson To Mike’s Family,
My Mom Elsie Henigman and my brother worked with Mike at Shopper’s Drug mart many years ago.
Our deepest sympathy to the family.
Elsie,Dan and Brenda Henigman
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Robyn Larose Nikki,
I am so sorry for your great loss. I have been thinking about you and your family all week.
Sending my sincere condolences to you, Tyler & Jacqui.
Thinking of you.Robyn
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karen hambley you know we are here for you, whatever, whenever and however you need our help please let us know. I know you were the love of Mike’s life as he was of yours. Remember you are not alone we are here.
Love you lots
Karen and Gerry
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Nigel Perkins Nikki & family:
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Take care.
Nigel.
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Elaine Otter Dear Nikki, Tyler and Jacqueline
I am still in shock at hearing about Michael’s passing. It saddens me that I am not able to come out for his service, but I will be there in spirit, if not in person.
Elaine
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Cate Taylor Nikki,
I am so sorry to hear you lost your love, Mike. My heart goes out to you and your children through this sad time. If there is anything you need or that I can do to help you please let me know.
Cate
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Caroline McAndrews Nikki, I am so very sorry to hear of Mike’s passing. We were very shocked. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Mike’s, and your, time at Gordon Head Fastball was much appreciated and he will always have a spot out there on the diamond at Majestic Park. We will think of him as we start a new season in April. Take care or yourselves throught this difficult time.
-Caroline and Rob McAndrews
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Thomas Broeren Nikki,
Margot and I were shocked and deeply saddened to hear about your loss. I have very fond memories of Mike coaching the girls. He was a wonderful coach, very kind, generous and respectful to the girls. As a parent, that meant a lot to me. Though we haven’t seen each other for a while, I ran into Mike and Tyler at Thrifty’s not that long ago. He was as warm and friendly as ever, and we had a great chat, catching up on Jacqui and Meara, Hayley-Rose and Tyler. Unfortunately, Margot and I will not be able to attend on Thursday, but you and your family will be in our thoughts.
Thomas
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Yvette Brumwell Dear Nikki,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I miss you and would like to help in any way I can.
My loving thoughts are with you,
Yvette Brumwell
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Stephanie Kalabric and Family Dearest Nikki and family.
No words can express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. I know how much you loved your husband and I know how much you will miss him.
My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
If there is anything at all I can do for you, please please don’t hesitate to ask.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Sending you lots for love and hugs.
Stephanie
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Nicole Nikki & family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that you and your family can find a little comfort in time and that you can heal together.
Hugs,
Nic (Dinder)
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Toni Kasprow Nikki
You are a bright light and a joy to be around at work. I know these qualities will help you and your family.
I can’t express my sadness at your lost, my thoughts and prayers are with you along with so many others.
Toni K.
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Brian Atkinson Nikki
My condolences to you. I was in your shoes not to long ago and you were there for support and a sholder to cry on. I am here for you as well, I have a free sholder,
Brian A
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Debbi Bender To the family ~
It’s been many years since I had seen Mike and my sympathy to
all of you. I worked with him at Shopper’s Drug Mart and remember much laughter and his love of music from those days.
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.Debbi Bender
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Jules Nikki, my heart breaks for you and your family. If you need anything, please let me know. You are all in my thoughts.
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Rob Horne Nikki;Jacqui and Tyler:
I was very fortunate to be a friend of Mikes and yours .My heart goes out to all his family ; he was a great guy with a great sense of humour who loved his family and it showed . He will be missed by all those that knew him . you are all in my thoughts and prayers.Big Rob
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Pam Sherwood Love you Nikki…..my most sincere positive thoughts go to you, tyler and Jacqui. Nikkie, you are such a positive light at work, I know you will be the light for your family in this time of need. Please let me know if you need anything. I miss you
xo
Pam
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Geoff Gardiner I was so saddened to hear Mike had left us. He was the nicest guy who was a friend in grade school at Willows through to grade 9 at Oak Bay. When I learned Nikki was his wife, and that they had kids, I was delighted…delighted he had done well, found a great gal and had a loving family. Mike deserved that.
I had so hoped the opportunity would arise to see him again to express how proud of him I was…but…dear Mike.
Clay’s right though, Mike’s Hot Wheels set…was awesome.
Drive on, Mike.With heart-felt sympathies to the Deighton’s, Geoff G.
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Penny Loome Dear Nikki and Tyler,
I was very shocked to hear the news of Mike’s passing. He was so obviously a great parent and partner and an all around good human being. It was a privilage to have met such a caring person.
If there is anything at all I or the staff at Sylvan can do to help with anything now or in the weeks to come, please let us know and we will be there for you.
My heart goes out to both of you and your family.Penny
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Ilyana Nikki, so sorry to hear of your loss.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Sylvan Victoria Dear Nikki and Tyler,
We were shocked and deeply saddened when we heard the news. If there’s anything we can do to help you through this, let us know. All of our staff are thinking of you and your family.
Deepest sympathies,
Mike, Allison, Jennifer, and the rest of your friends at Sylvan.
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Jeff & Jennifer Jones Nikki, we’re so very shocked and saddened to hear of Mike’s death. We will always remember that fun New Year’s Eve with you two when we all went to Butchart Garden. He was a great, funny guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jacqui and Tyler.
Love, Jeff & Jen
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clayton daniel mcmeekin Dear Deighton family, and especially Doreen Deighton,
I unfortunately hadn’t seen Mike for many years but often thought of Mike. I especially remember the times we had at Carnarvan Park playing road hockey. I vivedley remember the final game of the Stanley Cup in 1967 when the Leafs won and you and your dad George celebrated with pots and pans. You had the best Hot Wheels collection ever! Loved you buddy!
Love,
Clay McMeekin
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Traudy Chinneck Dear Nikki.
My heart goes out to you and your family in your time of sorrow.
Please know that you are in my loving thoughts.Traudy Chinneck
Nikki & family.
We were very saddened to hear of Mike’s passing – what a shocker to hear of someone so young leaving us.
While it has been some time since we saw you at our wedding, we have talked & thought about you and Mike often.
Mike was a great guy, I consider it a pleasure & an honour to have had Mike work for me. Acosta was very fortunate to have had Mike work with them for the past 7 years.
Mike was a very dedicated individual and gave his all to his work. Employees do not come along very often with the qualities that Mike possessed.
Thinking of you.
Brian & Sharryll