Predeceased by his brother Bruce.
Murray was surrounded by loved ones for his gentle passing on June 28, after a recurrence of a rare form of cancer.
Murray was born in Kerrisdale to Frank and Margaret. He grew up there and in West Vancouver where he first got to know and respect nature by walking every old logging road and trail on Hollyburn Mountain. A lifelong passion for travel started at an early age, greatly inspired by his Aunt Dorothy Colly.
In 1965 Murray took his first flight with Ken (still a friend after 60 years) to Britain and travelled from Stonehenge to Orkney. Murray graduated from UBC with a B. Comm. in 1966 and became a C.A. with Clarkson Gordon. At that time, he and a good friend canoed in the wilderness travelling the Parsnip, Peace and Canoe rivers before dams ruined those pristine valleys.
In 1973 Murray moved to P.E.I. where he lived on a farm and worked for the Island Treasury Board as director of the expenditure budget. He loved the job and his co-workers. He returned to B.C. in 1976 and managed a Victoria law firm. In 1980, Murray spent four months at an isolated cabin in the Chilcotin accessible only by canoe. He looked back with great joy on that experience.
Murray then joined Treasury Board Staff and was involved with tax policy, expenditure policies and drafting major financial legislation. He greatly admired the dedication and professionalism of his colleagues in what he felt could not be a better job.
In 1988 Murray began a series of trips that would nurture the relationships with his nephews and niece. Machu Picchu with Brent; Scotland and Ireland with Suzanne; pony trekking in Iceland with Kevin; Australia with Jonathan; the Greek Islands with Tristan; and Easter Island with Robert. This extended to the next generation with the great nephews and nieces.
In 1995 Debbie Sinclair came into Murray’s life. It was the beginning of a beautiful 30-year relationship in which they travelled, cheered on their favourite teams, filled their home with hygge and created a backyard oasis.
Murray’s stepchildren Alyson Jackson (Matt) and Ryan Day (Vanessa) and his grandchildren, Alexander and Lauren, also played a special role in enriching his life. Highlights of annual Hornby vacations, playing with Pa Murray in the pool and family dinners outdoors will be cherished memories.
Murray and Debbie’s most adventurous travels include L’Anse Aux Meadows, ‘Ben-My-Chree’, an old homestead at the foot of Tagish Lake and trips exploring the B.C. coast on the “Chelsea II” with Captain Nils including a trip to Knight Inlet. They also travelled with longtime friends Bill and Shelley from French Polynesia to Pitcairn Island by research vessel where they met several of the islanders.
Murray cherished trips as a child and then as an adult with his cousins Julie and Jeanne. Special times in Ireland with friends Chris and Aideen and family were uplifting. Each trip Murray went on was a chance to share experiences and spend quality time.
Murray loved sharing political and world views with former colleagues and classmates who he kept in touch with.
Murray was a gem; kind-hearted, gentle, adventurous, generous, inquisitive and deeply appreciative of the natural world. He found beauty wherever possible, making it a huge priority while also being highly attuned to the people and world around him. His stories of travel and adventure were inspiring. He had a beautiful way of bringing places to life with his words.
He approached his illness with courage and dignity and was interested in the people he met and their stories.
His family will be going to Haida Gwaii to honour him by carrying on the adventures. He will be missed by so many.
No service by request.
“Love, love goes on
Like the sea
Love goes on eternally”
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17 Responses
What a fantastic evening of visiting with Murray, Debbie and their many friends via his rich and full obituary and so many stories. Travel! Hygge! Family! Nature! Hornby! Measuring the changes that go with the seasons! Debbie – this is wonderful to reconnect at this time in our lives when we can spend hours and hours reminiscing about your 30 years with Murray and my 40 years with John and looking at many photos. I’m so very glad you have been so very lucky in love. I’m so very glad I did get to spend one evening getting to know Murray and witness his deep love for you.
Love Linda Hill
Most of my memories of Murray where from when we were very young. I have no siblings and neither does my cousin Jeanne and so the cousins Murray, Bruce, Jeanne and myself spent a lot of time together during the summers when we were young. I lived in Manitoba and Ontario but as soon as school ended my Mother and I headed to Vancouver to spend time with family. There were many trips to beaches, especially Spanish Banks and other beach holidays. A lot of time was spent playing monopoly and kick the can at our Grandfathers. Murray has always been a steady positive part of my life. I will miss him a lot.
Murray was an incredibly special soul. I had the privilege of spending many unforgettable hyggelig times with him and Debbie over the years. He truly appreciated the little things and made the most out of every single day – never missing an opportunity to wonder at the world’s gifts. I had the chance to witness his awe and genuine curiosity on several memorable trips including a magical island adventure on Eleuthera, biking the Kettle Valley railway, swimming in the clear waters on Hornby and exploring our coastal wonders on the Chelsea.
I will continue to instill the same passion and spirit Murray had for travel and for the world itself in my life and the lives of my children.
Debbie and Murray’s bond and love for each other was steady, strong and beautiful. I am very fortunate to know you both.
My love and condolences to the entire family. ❤️
I got to know Murray over four decades ago, as we both worked in the same or related policy branches of the BC Ministry of Finance. He became one of my best friends in the Ministry. I found him to be a person of great ability and integrity. And just a nice person to be around, always pleased to have a conversation – whether the topic was serious or just fun. We retired on the same day in 2003 and Murray suggested that we meet every three weeks for lunch and a discussion – usually centred on current political events or the events related to our life in retirement. I learned that he was one of the best uncles I have ever come across, with his many trips taken with his nephews and his niece. We kept up these meetings, which in recent years were held via Zoom and included other Ministry of Finance friends, right up until recently when he became too ill to take part. I will miss him greatly.
What sad, sad news. My heart goes out to you Debbie. I can honestly say that Murray had a huge influence on my life, my outlook and the paths I took in life. His passion for truth, adventure and nature, with a practical down-to-earth edge is a quality rarely found these days.
My thoughts are with you and your family Deb
I worked for Murray in Treasury Board Staff at the Ministry of Finance for a couple years in the early 1980s. I was a pretty green recruit from Ottawa but Murray was generous with his time and taught me a lot about taxation, accounting, the ways of bureaucracy, and BC and its politics. Thanks, Murray, for your lessons, advice, generosity and lots of laughs back in the day.
Aideen and I were so fortunate to become friends with Murray shortly after arriving in Vancouver in 1972.That friendship was a huge thing in our lives since then and with Debbie in more recent years.
Our meetings in Canada and Ireland were memorable but all too infrequent.Murray always found beautiful venues for these trips and he and Debbie were wonderful hosts.
Murray was generous, kind hearted and always interesting-and interested.He was a hero to all our children and we all send our love and sympathy to Debbie and family.
No one could have a better friend,
Chris & Aideen Cullen