Patrick described his childhood as Golden. He was a busy, curious child, adored his sister Holly and valued his friends highly. He attended Glenlyon Norfolk Junior School, Shawnigan Lake School and finally St. Michaels University School. He referred to this as “The Continental Tour of Education” and made dear friends at all of them. Patrick struggled with drugs and alcohol. He had a lot of theories about addiction and treatment and made brave efforts to beat his demons.
Forever an entrepreneurial spirit, Patrick worked at several different companies including his father’s for a few years and more recently he got involved in a few start-up companies he passionately believed in and focused on helping them grow into their potential. Unfortunately, he was forced to step away from work due to his chronic illnesses.
Patrick was diagnosed with a hereditary liver disease and after many unexplained symptoms and years of testing, he was additionally diagnosed with Lyme Disease. His daily life became increasingly painful and difficult but he never gave up fighting through all of this. A staph infection caused a very sudden turn and on January 16, 2020 at 5:11 pm Patrick died with Rob, Shirley and Holly all holding him. He loved fiercely and in return was fiercely loved. We remember Patrick through good and bad times.
Patrick is survived by his parents, Rob and Shirley and his sisters, Holly (Bryce) and Whitney.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 2:00 pm on Thursday, January 23, 2020 in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
In lieu of flowers or donations, we ask that you remember to love, support and hug each other and especially your children.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com
57 Responses
I was shocked and deeply saddened to read of Patrick’s passing. I remember him fondly as a vibrant ‘character’ amongst the student body in his time as SMUS: well-loved, insightful, involved, and somehow managing to stay always ‘just’ on the peripheries of ‘getting into something’. I remember his creative writing, and how his peers looked up to him for the voice he developed through that art.
Such a loss! My condolences to all of you.
Dear Shirley, Rob and family,
We just heard your sad news from Barb and also from David. I remember having a long conversation with Patrick when we first met on a kindergarten field trip. What a charming and gregarious five year old! Through the years we knew him, he was always polite, friendly and funny, a credit to his family.
Our thoughts are with you and our hearts go out to you all.
Carol and Charles Ludgate
Dear Shirley and Rob,
Please accept our deepest condolences – our hearts are with you.
Sincerely,
Rasa, Dainius
I want to express my sincere sympathy. A path no parent should have to walk. My heart is with you as you face the days ahead. Cherish your memories. With deepest condolences.and warmest warmest aloha, Sandie Wood
Our very deepest sympathy in your loss. Mike and Sheala
Rob and Shirley,
We are so saddened to hear of Patrick’s passing. Our hearts go out to you and your family. We can’t imagine the pain you are feeling at this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts always.
Love Ross and Norma
Dear Shirley, Rob and family, We were so sorry to hear of Patrick’s passing. Our hearts go out to you at this sad time.You were all such wonderful neighbors, and we hope to see you again soon. Much love, Carol, Harold and family
Dear Rob & Shirley
I was so sorry to hear this news. My deepest condolences to you and to Patrick’s sisters. I can’t imagine losing my daughter so don’t know the pain you must feel, but I do know how much you all loved Patrick and cared so deeply to find ways to becoming healthier.
I so wish that I could find the words to adequately express my sorrow for you at this time. I am holding my daughter close and thinking of you and yours.
Sincerely
Ivan
Rob and Shirley,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your recent loss of Patrick. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Kini McDonald
Dearest Shirley and Rob,
Please accept our deepest condolences at the passing of your son. Even though we did not have the pleasure of meeting him, I know that this must be an awful time for the two of you and your family. Please know that we are thinking of you and that we are here for you should you need anything at this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Christon Smith & John Froess