June 9, 1926 — March 27, 2015
Remedios ‘Remy’ Villamor Alejandrino de Lara passed away peacefully at the Hospice in Victoria on Friday, March 27, at 8:05 p.m. with her family around her immediately after prayers were concluded. She was 88. Born on June 9, 1926, in Manila, Philippines, she was predeceased by her father, Alfredo Alejandrino; her mother, Longina ‘Nena’ Villamor Alejandrino; her husband, Domingo de Lara (2002), and four younger brothers: Eulalio, Alfredo Jr., Rodolfo and Anselmo. She will be dearly missed by her younger sister, Evangeline Williams; her seven children and their spouses: Melissa [Nick Lansigan] in New York, Laila [Ben Pires] in Victoria, Danny [Cynch] in New York, Lorina [Milivoj Miklenic] in Victoria, Joel [Melisa] in Virginia, Amabel [JB Lim] in Victoria, and Stella [Ferdie Castillo] in Victoria; 16 grandchildren: Nick and Raymund Lansigan in New York; Erick Lansigan [Reina] in New Hampshire; Karl Pires [Saho] in Japan; Jason and Serena Pires [Amit Ahuja] in Vancouver; Dee, Daniel and Darrell de Lara in New York; Larissa Miklenic; Gabbie de Lara (in New York); Ticia de Lara (in Virginia), Katrina and Anna Lim; Carlo and Nando Castillo; and six great grand children: Liana Lansigan, Misha Pires, Amica Lansigan, Angelina Lim, Kaiya Ahuja and Reyan Ahuja. She was also the foster mother of Manuel, Bella and Lope Sulit, and Emalina ‘Amy’ Ascher after they were orphaned in 1946 and foster grandmother of Simone Ascher. She will also be missed by numerous extended family and friends.
Remy was a devoted and beloved wife and mother and a doting grandma and great grandma. She was a naturally talented cook and an avid gardener. Travel, shopping, delicious home cooked meals, music and laughter were hallmarks of frequent family reunions. Her sweet and charming smile belied her tenacity, courage and strict management. She immigrated to Canada in 1979. Living in Victoria indulged her love of flowers and gardens. She actively participated in enriching multiculturalism through the Philippine Bayanihan Community Centre.
Prayer Services will be held on Saturday, April 4, at 5 pm in McCall’s Floral Chapel, Johnson & Vancouver Streets in Victoria. The Eucharistic Celebration and funeral service will be on Monday, April 6, at 12 noon at Sacred Heart Church at 1440 Nelthorpe Street in Saanich. Remy was grateful for her wonderful life and requested that the attire be colorful and bright at the Celebration of her Life. The family thanks her compassionate doctors, caregivers and the Hospice. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made, according to her wishes, to the Philippine Bayanihan Community Centre, 1709 Blanshard Street, Victoria, B.C. V8W 2J8 or to the Victoria Hospice. Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Bros. Funeral Home
29 Responses
Hi Melissa,
With deepest Sympathy to you and your family!
Melinda Quizon Briones
Our deepest sympathy to the de Lara families.
We will surely miss Grandma Remy, a caring, loving and remarkable person.
Marlita and I have fond memories of her and we will always treasure them in our hearts.
We love you Grandma!
Dear De Lara Family,
Thinking of you with deepest sympathy on the lost of your loving, caring and beloved “Mama”
We know you will always hold her dear in your hearts. She will be missed in so many ways.
May God give you the faith to say that He indeed knows best.
Sincerely,
David and Carmen Rees
Dear lisa and nick and the entire de Lara family,
We are so sorry for your loss . May she rest in peace.
Romy n isabel perez
Our sympathy and sincere condolences. We are praying for the repose of her soul. May she rest in peace.
Rene and Nila
We wish to extend our deepest condolence to all of Mama De Lara’s family. It is always sad to lose a treasured family member and no matter how long or short, there is never really enough “time”. We celebrate a life well lived, in dignity and grace, yet knowing how difficult this time can be for your family. Comfort each other through the tough times, laugh lots, and love each other deeply, and be reassured that we are praying for Mama’s eternal life and care for all of you.
With loving remembrance, Susan and Philips Principe, and Mrs. Kathleen Hanisch.
What a beautiful time to bring Mrs. de Lara home. Jesus takes her to heaven with Him when He resurrects.
You are not alone to celebrate such wonderful gift from God. The Mamisao siblings share in your loss but also in your joy.
It was a blessing to grow up with the de Lara’s “on the street where we lived” witnessing the love and care of Mama Remy.
Melissa, we are very sorry for your loss. In 2006, my mom passed away when she was 89, just a year older than your mom.
When we were in high school, I have a very vivid memory of your mom. She was a very lovely lady. She would always bring you your home-cooked lunch. You were the envy of many. I am sure you took a lot of her very good qualities.
It’s sad. Nevertheless, we are happy that she is in eternal peace, with your dad by her side. What a wonderful sight! God bless you and yourfamily.
Dear de Lara Family,
Please accept our most sincere and heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved loved one. May your beautiful memories of Mama Remy sustain you in this very sad time. She and all of you are in our prayers.
We want to express our deepest sympathy and let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you & the family. We’ll always remember Mama Remy fondly and feel lucky that we had the pleasure of knowing her. She will be very missed. Rest in peace Mama Remy. ♥♥♥