December 22, 1955 to May 14, 2012.
Robin passed away peacefully while holding her husband’s hand. Robin was born in Victoria, and apart from two years living in Port McNeill, she spent her entire life in Victoria. After learning she had cancer 22 months ago, Robin showed everyone how to seize life and find joy in every day. Armed with her positive attitude, along with tremendous support from so many who loved her, Robin enjoyed a very good quality of life and demonstrated unparalleled dignity and strength of spirit along the way. She maintained her signature smile to the last and was very much an inspiration to behold. Robin’s children represent the greatest personal achievement and triumph of her life. Her family was always her highest priority.
Left behind to honour Robin’s memory are her husband, Chris Blaney (a partnership spanning 37 years); son, Sean Blaney and daughter, Taryn Blaney. Robin was predeceased by her father, Hugh Reston (in 2006). Robin’s mother, Kay Reston; siblings, Laura, Jean, Ian (Kate and nephews, Brodie and Peter), Kathy (David) and Robin’s other relatives will miss her with all their hearts. On Chris’ side of the family, his siblings, Mark (nephew, Traven, and Traven’s mother Jodi), Debi and Kevin, plus all of Chris’ other relatives will miss Robin dearly.
Robin dedicated her energies away from home to the teaching profession. Robin’s teaching career began in 1977 at Sunset Elementary School in Port McNeill. Two year’s later, Robin returned to Victoria to complete her Education degree at UVIC (majoring in physical education and language arts). She taught one year at Monterey Elementary, then started working in the Sooke School District in 1982. Over the next 30 years, Robin taught at Colwood, John Muir, Happy Valley, Millstream, Willway, and Lakewood. Robin was one of the original group of teachers that opened Lakewood Elementary School and she stayed there for the remainder of her career. Robin loved teaching. She taught over 1000 students in all subject areas during a very rewarding career. Her areas of expertise were mathematics, language arts and physical education. Her students were often reminded there was “math in everything”, and she was instrumental in ensuring the school had a Math Resource Centre (MRC). At Lakewood, the MRC is now a place called “Robin’s Nest”. She always coached cross-country, volleyball and track and field and she did her best to promote participation, having fun, and good sportsmanship. For 2012 only, through private donations, a Grade 12 Belmont student will receive the “Robin Reston Honourary Sports Scholarship”. In addition, Lakewood School in conjunction with the Lakewood PAC have established a perpetual “Lakewood PAC Robin Reston Scholarship” to be awarded to a Grade 12 Belmont student for all-around achievement each year.
In her leisure time, Robin loved taking advanced jazz dance lessons at the “Y”. She and the rest of the jazz dance troupe performed in many “Y” dance displays over the years. In her prime, Robin’s beautiful image once graced the cover of the “Y” activity brochure for all to see. Robin was quite athletic and enjoyed playing tennis, volleyball, softball, golfing, cycling, skiing, bowling, swimming, badminton, hiking, aerobics and especially strolling along Victoria’s gorgeous waterfront. In high school, Robin was a competitive sprinter and she did very well in the 200 metre event. Robin was very skilled in hobbies such as sewing, cross-stitch and other arts and crafts endeavours. Robin was also quite fond of gardening and travelling. Most of all, Robin loved to spend as much time as possible doing many of these things with her husband, son and daughter.
For those familiar with the Shine Cafe, Robin Reston is the “Robin” in the Shine’s menu item “Robin’s Hash”.
One of Robin’s most endearing qualities was her determination for finding ways to turn any negative situation into a positive. Her joyous existence since learning she had cancer would not have been possible without the tireless efforts of family, friends and colleagues, along with the exemplary care provided by everyone working at the Cancer Agency, VIHA, Victoria Hospice, Beacon Services and especially from Dr. David Bell and his staff. Robin sincerely felt she received the best possible care from all the dedicated healthcare professionals helping Robin maximize her quality of life.
There will be a casual gathering for remembrance for Robin announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Vancouver Island Cancer Agency, Victoria Hospice, or a charity of your choice.
Robin believed she will return to the spiritual realm from which she originated. She will become part of all natural things – it’s her reincarnation. She had a rich and meaningful life. Robin will live on in your memories and through her children and all generations that follow. Someone as special as Robin will not be forgotten and just thinking about her smile will cause one to feel joy and take on each day with a positive resolve.
To share a wish from Robin for all of us left behind, she offers the following primary message from a children’s book entitled “Reggie’s Last List” by Caren Cameron: “Look after each other.”
Condolences may be offered to the family below.

37 Responses
Chris;
I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for the loss of your wife and the Kids Mom.
No amount of euphamistic jargon could hope to express the grief you are feeling. But please know that there are people out there who you can turn to if needed.
Gary
Robin is one of those infectious indivuals who has a place in everyone’s heart who knew her….I had the pleasure of working at Lakewood with Robin…she cared about everyone and had such spirit and grace in her presence…I feel blessed to have known such a kind and devoted friend, mother, teacher and colleague…
Lynda Powell
Sorry to hear about the loss. I did not know Robin well, but always considered her a part of our family. It really hits home when someone so active and young and full of life and love, can be taken from us. Her “earthly shell” has been laid to rest but her spirit will live on forever in all the hearts that she has touched. Thank you Robin for the lesson … that life is precious and we should be thankful for each and every day that we can spend with the ones we love.
Love to Chris, Sean and Taryn in your time of sadness and loss.
April
I had the distinct privilege of giving Robin refreshments @ BC Cancer Agency. Her gracious , friendly, and caring attitude was an inspiration to me and always helped me to keep me wanting to help others while I was on my shift volunteering.
My sincere condolences to Robin’s family at this loss, and may the peace of God, which defies understanding , be with you at this time.
Ron
Dear Chris and family,
My most heartfelt condolences for the loss of Robin. I remember so well when Robin met Ambriss at Costco and they shared there cancer journey. Ambriss is also at rest and I know the feelings and struggles of your loss. Stay strong and may God bless you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Mike Clermont
I too feel very fortunate at having taught at the same school as Robin. A very special soul. My condolences to all her family.
Sincerely,
Joanne (Gregory)
Dear Chris, Sean and Taryn,
You do not know me. I was a friend of Robin’s from our old high school days at Reynolds, Grades 8 through 12. I was fortunate to see Robin from time to time through mutual friends from those school days. Most recently we enjoyed a lovely evening together with a potluck dinner at Kathy (Johnson) Booth’s house just a few months ago. Robin was so proud of you all, particularly you Sean and Taryn. Her composure broke on several occasions as she spoke of you both. I will remember Robin for her kindness and quiet radiance. I am so sorry for your family’s loss. A donation in Robin’s memory has been made to Victoria Hospice. My thoughts are with you all. Sincere condolences from Susan (Pepper) Taylor
Thank you so much, Chris. Your writing caught Robin’s spirit exactly. I remember her at Lakewood with real respect and honest affection as a fine teacher, a principled colleague, and, above all, as a brave, happy spirit. Beyond Lakewood, her memory lives on in my teaching in the teacher education program at UVic when time and time again I share her insights and joy in the art of the thing with student teachers to demonstrate aspects of what quality teaching really ought to look and sound like. She was a Master and is sorely missed…
Phil
Thank you Chris for your beautiful message about Robin, her character and her life. I taught with Robin at Millstream, and I remember well her joyful spirit, amazing and ever present smile, and huge sense of fun. Her courage and determination to see the positive side in the face of her illness speaks so much to her strong and inspiring character. Her beautiful spirit is now with you, and in you all.
My sincere condolences Chris, Sean and Taryn.
Judith
Hi,
I am very saddened to hear of your loss. I remember Robin when my children went to both Millstream and Lakewood. The words written to illustrate her and her life are beautiful and express exactly as I remember Robin. Her smile is special and memorable! Blessings to her family and friends.
Sincerely,
Carolyn