It is with profound sadness that we share the passing of our beloved mother, sister, daughter, niece, cousin, and dear friend. Rocket passed away on April 12, 2023, at the age of 59. She leaves behind her son, Spencer, his partner Jasmine, her brothers Warren and Gary, her cats Simon and Willow, and many loved relatives and friends.
Born and raised in Victoria, B.C., Rocket had deep roots in the community. After training as a cook at Camosun College, at the age of 19 she decided to join the Canadian Navy and trained and worked as a Marine Engineer. She reached the level of Chief Petty Officer 2nd Class. Roxanne retired in 2012 after proudly serving for 35 years. Rocket was extremely proud being part of the Navy. She held many positions during her career. Her most gratifying honour was in 2012, when she received the Diamond Jubilee Medal, which was presented to her on behalf of the Queen in acknowledgement of her volunteerism. What was most remarkable was the fact it was presented to her after she retired from the Navy.
The greatest joy of Rocket’s life was becoming Spencer’s mother. She was incredibly proud of him and absolutely loved spending time with him. Her greatest sadness is leaving him much too soon.
Strong family bonds, a sense of community, sharing, and helping other were some of Rocket’s core values. Once she retired, these values led her to volunteer as a cook at the Rainbow Kitchen. Once a week, for nine years, she combined her love of food, community, and creativity to help feed people who depended on the Rainbow Kitchen. From everyday meals to special holiday menus, she created wonderful meals and continued to serve this new community with pleasure. She happily spoke about cooking twelve or more turkeys at a time for Christmas dinner, amazing everyone with her ability to cook for so many people. She loved working with the “Monday Team” at the kitchen and greatly missed them when her cancer no longer allowed her to volunteer.
Rocket was a devoted friend – always there to help those in need, and in return, her friends were always happy to help her; whether it was preparing for a Fairfield artist tour, or planning the community garden she started during the pandemic. She loved spending time with family and friends, camping, biking, and eating together.
In retirement, after cycling to Mexico, Rocket found time to explore new creative outlets, first growing food, then painting, and then woodworking. Woodworking became a passion. If she was not creating great meals, spending time with family and friends, or reading, you would find Rocket in her workshop. Woodworking became her true passion, and under her talented hands, she turned simple pieces of wood into spectacular pieces of art. If you attended the Moss Street Paint-In or visited the Market Collective stores, maybe you are one of the lucky people who purchased one of her beautifully crafted pens, cutting boards, or spatulas.
Rocket was a strong, passionate woman, a devoted mother, and a truly giving individual. She left us too soon and we will miss her everyday. She brought out the best in people and we are better for having known her. She taught us about kindness and compassion, about following your dreams, and about spending time with those you love.
The family wishes to thank the community care nurses and the staff at the Royal Jubilee Palliative Care Unit for the compassionate care they provided to Rocket in the last months and weeks of her life. Spencer also wishes to thank Rocket’s friends who helped to care for her in so many ways in her final few months.
A Celebration of Life for Rocket will be held on Saturday, June 3rd, 2023, at the Rainbow Kitchen, 500 Admirals Rd, Victoria, BC, starting at 2:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the Rainbow Kitchen in Rocket’s name. Cards, written stories, photos, or messages can be sent to rocketsmemories2023@gmail.com
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Rocket was Coxswain of HMCS Malahat in 2001 and 2002. On behalf of the Chief and Petty Officers Mess, I offer my sincere condolences to her family.
I am personally grateful for, and inspired by, her life of service.
I am sorry to hear of Rockets passing, I did not know her well and cannot add anymore than has already been said. I always thought she marched to her own beat.
So shocked and saddened to see this today. Though I hadn’t seen her in many years, I always loved running with her and catching up. She was an amazing Mama to Spencer and foster parent to several children who I know were impacted by her nurturing. I will remember her for that always. Deepest condolences, Spencer. You were her pride and joy
RIP Rocket. Thank you for all the inspiration. My sincerest condolences to family and friends, my prayers go out to all.
I loved her smile, she always lit up the space around her. The world is a bit darker without her.
My deepest condolences to Spencer and to the entire family as well as those who love Rocket and those she loved. She was one of the most amazing people one could ever hope to meet. Care and compassion were the keys she employed in leadership and mentorship. Those values remain present in military units and various other organizations across the country as people she lead over the years continue to follow her guidance and draw upon the lessons she so graciously shared. May she rest in peace knowing she made a difference to so many in this world.
My deepest condolences to family and friends. I was sad to hear of her passing. I was first introduced to Roxanne when I started playing Base hockey in Esquimalt. I remember her warm smile and continuous encouragement. I am deeply saddened by her passing.
An amazing role model and person. The world lost someone special too soon. RIP chief. Thoughts of peace and comfort to all friends and family.
Rest in peace sister. May you be lighting up the bud goal light in the sky. My condolences to the family.
Some of my fondest memories were working with Rocket at 702MARPAC during an extended shore landing.
She was fiery and also compassionate when it came to teaching and showing me the ropes of writing posting messages. I learned quickly, especially after sending out a DND wide posting message publicly by accident.. She saved my skin.
Very saddened to hear this news. She will certainly be missed and not forgotten. My deepest condolences to all the family and dearest friends.