9 May, 1986 – 11 December, 2009
The loss of our beloved Sam broke many hearts. For 23 years, his infectious smile shone with love and all who met him were better for it. A gentle, sensitive spirit, he filled so many lives with joy. His gifts of music, poetry and art confirmed his true compassion and understanding. His heart saw only the best in people and he did his best to cause no pain. We may never understand the why of Sam’s passing when all so loved him, but know that he is free and at peace from a darkness that became too great. Sam is survived by his grandmother, Nancy Duncan; his parents, Roger and Virginia; brothers, Mike (Melissa) and Cam (Hannah) and his partner, Lia. He is remembered with love by scores of friends and family.
Sam’s life will be celebrated in MCCALL BROS. FLORAL CHAPEL, Johnson & Vancouver Streets at 1:00 pm on Friday, December 18, 2009. Reception to follow in McCall’s Family Centre. In lieu of flowers, the family welcomes donations to Archie Courtnall Centre, 1952 Bay Street, Victoria, BC, V8R 1J8 or generosity to talented buskers.
39 Responses
Dear Roger and Ginny, Mike and Cam. Monty and I were stunned to hear of Sam’s passing. We remember him as a sweet, chunky little boy who filled the old neighbourhood with his chatter and fun. Words just don’t do justice to a loss of this nature. Please know we are thinking about you all. Kindest wishes, Sandy and Monty, Liesl and Kaj
My deepest sympathy to Roger and Virginia and their sons and Sam’s grandmother at this sad time in their lives.
To the Whitehead family, our family is so saddened by your loss and we extend our deepest sympathy. I remember taking Sam to Karate with Angela and Jeff and we frequently saw him around the ball park. Always an extremely pleasant boy. Our thoughts are with you.
The Zukowski family
My deepest condolences Cam and family.
Dear Ginny and Roger,
My heart aches for you. Sam was an amazing boy- so bright and full of talent. He is a person not easily forgotten, and someone I thought of often over the years. I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
Dear Ginny and Roger,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sam was a bright and shining star and his light will be missed by so many.
Maureen
Roger,
Je partage avec toi la douleur de la perte d’un être cher.
Je souhaite la paix à toi et tes proches.
Jean-Martin Lussier
Please accept my sincere condolences Whitehead family. I only met Sam a couple times through mutual friends, but he came across as a very sweet and friendly person. My heart goes out to you, and to everyone who knew, and cared for Sam.
Dear Roger, Ginnie, Mike and Cam
We are so sad at Sam’s passing on. We were delighted when Katrina told us Lia was dating Sam and enjoyed hearing of Sam through Lia and Katrina. Although we never personally knew him as a man, we remember such a nice “kid”. We hope and pray for strength for you all to walk out the days ahead.
Glen and Loretta Sands
Words cannot convey our feelings for you at this time; however, we offer our sincere condolences and are sending prayers your way.