Much loved son of Gail and John, very proud father of Richard and Stephanie, fond and very close “brother” of James Wu (Taiwan) with whom he shared many school years, “little brother” to Nicole Seminiuk (New Zealand) and a friend to so many. Tony passed away in his sleep on November 27th, 2017 in Vancouver where he had been working temporarily for his Victoria employer. Never expecting to write one’s son’s obituary, finding the right words is not easy and those who knew Tony well, will remember him as kind, very generous, always available to help and the first to volunteer, especially at a time in his life when he faced many challenges, both personal and health-related. He covered the stress in his later life behind his very friendly and outgoing personality. But ultimately his body rebelled and Late-onset Type 1 Diabetes took control of his daily life, requiring multiple injections of insulin. He had to quickly overcome his dislike of needles!
Tony graduated from GlenLyon Norfolk School (GNS) where his teachers and Mr. Brooks will not remember him for his interest in academics as he was having far more fun with extra-curricular activities. Tony’s life-long passion for all things military and police-related began in his teen years. He joined the Canadian Scottish Regiment Militia; never a keen dancer, Tony preferred to work on security at GNS school dances and later at University when he attended UNBC. After college, Tony moved to Smithers where he and his wife operated a small Inn and Tony was delighted to be voted” Businessman of the Year”. However, the RCMP “called” and Tony volunteered as an Auxiliary Constable in Smithers. He was later selected for professional police training at the RCMP College in Regina. Tony was close to graduation when personal and family issues intervened and he returned to Victoria. He later began a new career in the construction industry, with old friend Rod Parker, while successfully completing his academic requirements along the way.
Tony loved his years at GNS and one of his teachers wrote that Tony dropped in at school recently. “He was his usual full of life Tony. I marvelled at his enthusiasm and passion for living. Even though Tony was not conventional, he was a bright shining light loved by so many that he touched with his positive actions,” He gave so much Good”. It could not have been better said.
Tony is survived by his children, Richard and Stephanie, their mother, Yvonne, his parents Gail and John, in-law Blum family, extended family and many friends in Canada, Australia, Taiwan, N.Z., USA, Austria, Japan and the UK.
The family wishes to welcome any of Tony’s friends who would like to join them in saying goodbye to Tony and afterwards a Reception on Friday, December 15, 2017, at 2.30 pm in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC and ask that you contact Gail and John at ggabel@shaw.ca if you are able to attend.
Flowers gratefully declined. A donation to GlenLyon Norfolk School in Tony’s name would be greatly appreciated.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
– the whole Dutton family – Jim, Alex and I know Jane would have joined in
Dear Gail, John and Family,
Having known Tony for most of his life we are just devastated thie tragic loss of his passing for you and your family. He always was the brightest star the sky and was destined to make his mark on all the people he touched with his kindness and humour.
He is sadly missed.
Jim and Jeanette Metters.
Sydney, Australia.
Gail and John,
My interactions with Tony had been few and limited but he had always immediately come across as the quintessential nice, genuine, caring person. He has that voice and that spark in his eyes, and this warm demeanor. The apple didn’t fall far from the tree…
It is with sincere affection that I express my condolences and my support in this most difficult time.
Pierre
Ingrid and Dieter Bosecker
December 7, 2017
We share in your grief over the loss of your son and send our sincere condolences to you and your Family.
Gail, I am deeply saddened by your loss. I am sure that your son Tony will be remembered for his contribution to the lives of many others.
Very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers with you and everyone close to Tony. May he rest in peace
So very sorry for your loss .
So sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking to lose a child, and my heart goes out to you. Please know many share your sadness and are thinking of you.
Dearest Gail,
My love and prayers are with you at this very difficult and sad time. Your numerous happy memories will sustain you.
My fondest love
Ann Bailey (nee Williams).
xxx
John and Gail,
Our heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
We know no words can really take away the pain you are feeling right now. Just know we are thinking of you and wish you and your family strength to heal as time passes.
Sincerely,
Grant, Brigita, Kathleen and Alex