Much loved son of Gail and John, very proud father of Richard and Stephanie, fond and very close “brother” of James Wu (Taiwan) with whom he shared many school years, “little brother” to Nicole Seminiuk (New Zealand) and a friend to so many. Tony passed away in his sleep on November 27th, 2017 in Vancouver where he had been working temporarily for his Victoria employer. Never expecting to write one’s son’s obituary, finding the right words is not easy and those who knew Tony well, will remember him as kind, very generous, always available to help and the first to volunteer, especially at a time in his life when he faced many challenges, both personal and health-related. He covered the stress in his later life behind his very friendly and outgoing personality. But ultimately his body rebelled and Late-onset Type 1 Diabetes took control of his daily life, requiring multiple injections of insulin. He had to quickly overcome his dislike of needles!
Tony graduated from GlenLyon Norfolk School (GNS) where his teachers and Mr. Brooks will not remember him for his interest in academics as he was having far more fun with extra-curricular activities. Tony’s life-long passion for all things military and police-related began in his teen years. He joined the Canadian Scottish Regiment Militia; never a keen dancer, Tony preferred to work on security at GNS school dances and later at University when he attended UNBC. After college, Tony moved to Smithers where he and his wife operated a small Inn and Tony was delighted to be voted” Businessman of the Year”. However, the RCMP “called” and Tony volunteered as an Auxiliary Constable in Smithers. He was later selected for professional police training at the RCMP College in Regina. Tony was close to graduation when personal and family issues intervened and he returned to Victoria. He later began a new career in the construction industry, with old friend Rod Parker, while successfully completing his academic requirements along the way.
Tony loved his years at GNS and one of his teachers wrote that Tony dropped in at school recently. “He was his usual full of life Tony. I marvelled at his enthusiasm and passion for living. Even though Tony was not conventional, he was a bright shining light loved by so many that he touched with his positive actions,” He gave so much Good”. It could not have been better said.
Tony is survived by his children, Richard and Stephanie, their mother, Yvonne, his parents Gail and John, in-law Blum family, extended family and many friends in Canada, Australia, Taiwan, N.Z., USA, Austria, Japan and the UK.
The family wishes to welcome any of Tony’s friends who would like to join them in saying goodbye to Tony and afterwards a Reception on Friday, December 15, 2017, at 2.30 pm in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC and ask that you contact Gail and John at ggabel@shaw.ca if you are able to attend.
Flowers gratefully declined. A donation to GlenLyon Norfolk School in Tony’s name would be greatly appreciated.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
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I visited Tony’s garden at Glenlyon School and rekindled happy memories. Rest in Peace my young friend.
November 27, 2024
Rest in Peace my young friend. Good memories.
Tony was such a kind spirit who touched countless people with his generosity and love. The world really is a better place because of him; I will remember him always. My deepest condolences to your family.
I send my deepest sympathies to Tony’s family at this very sad time. If I had not been away in Australia on the day of his service, I would have joined the many people who loved him to commemorate a beautiful soul.
From the time I first met Tony as one of my students in our home room, I recognized the special spirit he possessed. I looked forward to the welcoming smile he shared with all of us every morning, and the help he offered with anything needing doing in the classroom. I was extremely grateful that he began keeping in touch some years after graduation, starting with a phone call out of the blue one evening, to let me know how much my encouragement had meant to him and continued to inspire him. That first call was a very special and gratifying one for a teacher to receive. The fact that Tony had made the effort to look me up and thank me, is just one example of the beautiful person he was.
His passing has left a deep sadness in many hearts, including my own. Thankfully, we have many good memories of his generous spirt, which will stay with us always.
We all appreciated Tony’s lovely smile and his most quirky personality.
Dear John and Gail:
I was saddened to learn of the sudden loss of your son. I did not know Tony, but your words evoked a man of enthusiasm, creativity and generosity of spirit. I know he will be very much missed by you, his children and his many friends everywhere. My deepest sympathy at this sad time.
Dear Gail and John,
Across the miles, my heart is near you.
I cannot find the words to say how sad I am and to express my deep sympathy. Be sure Tony does not say goodbye because the shadow of his smile will forever above you.
Dan is joining me to tell you all our love.
Lucille from Quebec city
mere words cannot express the sadness and sorrow.
I remember Tony as a young, gracious and kind boy. I will never forget the kindness he showed my godson Stefan by helping him deal with Sushi for the first time in his life. I met him again years later at Jasper Park Lodge were it was evident that he had fulfilled the promise of his youth
may he rest in peace and may we cherish his memory
It is many years sine we last saw Tony. Then an intelligent, energetic young man with his life ahead of him. How sad for it to have been cut so short.
Our thoughts are with Gail and John at this difficult time.
When I look to the stars, I will think of you dear Tony…
So much love to you Gail, John, Richard and sweet Stephanie xx