October 30, 2008 – February 23, 2009
It is with great sadness we announce the passing of our beautiful son, Tristan Marko Livingston. Tristan was born in Victoria and lived a short time before passing away in Edmonton at Children’s Stollery Hospital from liver complications. His amazing smile that would melt your heart will be forever missed. He will live on forever through his mom, Sara Hutchison and dad, Ben Livingston. The family would like to acknowledge and thank the staff at Vancouver BC Children’s Hospital for their wonderful care and great compassion.
A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, March 7, 2009 at 2:00 pm at MCCALL BROS. FLORAL CHAPEL, Johnson & Vancouver Streets. A Celebration of Life will follow at the Fireside Grill in Royal Oak. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the David Foster Foundation.
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Jayme
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Keoma Amber Ben and Sara, I am so sad that I could not be there with you. My heart goes out to you both. Tristan is an angel and will always be with us. You are both great parents and I hope to come visit soon. Love and Miss you Tons
Keoma
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Joanne Hey guys,
I came back from my holidays, and the first thing I did was ask where Tristan was. I am so so sorry to hear of your loss, and have been praying for you both. I wanted to ferry over this weekend to give you a big hug, but I had to work. I miss making Tristan smile, and I just noticed today that there is still a heart hanging up where his crib was. What a nice reminder of one of the good days. I you’re both taking some time for yourselves, and watching lots of One Tree. Take care, Joanne
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Kevan Jacobson Dear Ben and Sara ,
My condolences to you for the loss of your baby, Tristan. He was a fighter and a cute little boy. In the short time that we knew him, we experienced his spirit, sense of peace and joyful nature. Losing a child is never easy, but he will live with you in your memories.
From all of us at BC Children’s Hospital we extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family during this difficult time.
Kind Regards
Dr Kevan Jacobson
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Mona Sara, Ben and family
It breaks my heart to know that your beautiful little boy was taken away from you so quickly. I wish that I had the opportunity to see him before he left us but I still feel very connected to him because of you. Tristan is a little angel who touched many people he never met. Sara I hope you know that if you need to talk you can call me any time. Tristan will be looking down at you and smiling at his mom and dad who loved him very much.
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Shelley Kellner Ben & Sara,
You know how sad I am for you both and your families. As much as it was a very stressful time for you all, I loved looking after Tristan ” the Prince”. You are right that he fought very hard all of his days here. You now have a beautiful angel always looking out for you both. I know of a poem that talks about how ” God Loan’s” us his children to learn and teach us things while here on earth. I am not religious per say but it works for me in trying to understand why these things happen. I will not be able to see you on Saturday but I will be thinking of you all. Smiles & Hugs Shelley
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Geoffrey Blair Dear Ben and Sara and the rest of your family-
Yes, indeed- Tristan did have an amazing smile. I remember that now, how he flashed that grin at me at one point during his stay here. Keep that brave grin of his in your heart. Thank you for being such good parents.
From all of us here at BCCH we extend to you our deepest sympathy.
Sincerely,
Dr Blair
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Kaylea Ben and Sara
I am deeply saddened about the passing of my lil sweetheart Tristan. His smile lit up the room and It was a pleasure to be his nurse. My thoughts go out to his wonderful parents who stood by his side for the courageous fight. miss you guys 🙂
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Jackie Barker Although I do not know your family, seeing the photo of your beautiful son and reading of his short life touched my heart. I have a three month old grandson, and the mention of Tristan’s amazing smile brought tears. My sincerest sympathy for your loss.
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LArry & Chantell Thom Dear Ben & Sarah
Well… it chantell writing this… so what can i say
me and larry are extremly sadden by your loss and
i wish i could have meet tristian before his untimely passing
and im sorry i never got to see you 3 when you were here.
tristian will be forever in our hearts and our condoliences are with you
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Caitlin Milloy Sara (and Ben),
I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your baby boy. I cannot begin to express how sorry I am, but please know that you have been and will continue to be in my thoughts…
I wish that I could make it to say this to you personally on Saturday, but unfortunately I have to work and cannot get out of it.
I am sending love and positive energy to you in this difficult time…
and also best wishes to you on your birthday which I know is tomorrow =)
love and hugs Sara, I hope to see you soon.
xoxo Caitlin
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Wanda Hopkins Dear Sara and Ben,
There are no words to express how so very sad our family is to hear about the loss of your son Tristan. We truly can not imagine the loss that you are feeling.
Sara ,our family has such wonderful and funny memories of you and Katie….putting a puzzle together and your Mom trying to get me into shape.
Sincerely, Wanda, Scott, Natalie and Katie
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Art Curkovic Sara & Ben: I was very saddened to see the obituary of your beautiful son Tristan in the Times Colonist. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. I hope and think the time you both had with Tristan was amazing and that he was fortunate enough to have people as good as you for parents in his short life. Stay strong and have faith.
Sincerely,
Art (your former Imperial sales rep)
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Sylvia Oliver I saw your obituary for your little son. I’m so sorry for your loss. May the angels wrap their lovings arms around Tristan and tenderly care for him forevermore. He was a beautiful baby.
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Bonnie Rieberger (Justin Kavanaugh's Mom} To Ben and Sara,
I know your pain and longing for your beautiful baby boy Tristan.
The angles are cradling him in there arms and you will see him
in your dreams and thoughts he will forever live in your heart.
I would like to extend my heart-felt support to you and when you
are ready if you wish feel free to call me.
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Deborah Williams To Tristan’s Parents and Family. Please excuse my intrusion on your grief since I have never met you. I just wanted to extend my heart-felt support to you as I, too, lost my precious, infant daughter to a congenital heart defect. I want to share words someone spoke to me at a time when I felt consumed with grief and confusion that I hope will comfort you. I was 21 and this woman was the age I am now, 56 and she said, “your baby was so perfect, she didn’t need to stand the trials and tests of this world. She has passed to a better place where she waits for you”. I have never forgotten these words and honestly, it relieved me. Tristan felt happiness if he smiled and he knew he was and will always be loved. Sincerely, I send my love. Deborah x
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Pam and Bruce Tobin To Ben and Sara,
We share your joy and celebration of your time with Tristan. We also share your very deep sorrow that this sweet life ended way too soon. His spirit will forever be with you and the memories cherished for all time.
Our thoughts are with you.
Pam and Bruce Tobin
Ben and Sarah,
I am so sorry that I was unable to be there to celebrate Tristan’s life! I am so sorry for your loss and I will NEVER forget Tristan, my little boyfriend here at BCCH! You guys are constantly in my thoughts! I hope you are both doing well!
Hugs,
Jayme