Arlene was born in the backseat of a Pink Cadillac on the corner of Kingsway and Joyce Road in Vancouver BC, and she will forever be remembered as a giving and loving spirit who cherished her family and friends.
As is life, her giving nature continues in her passing, and her status as an organ donor has saved three lives and helped countless others.
Arlene grew up in Victoria and was always surrounded by many friends. She was a fun loving person with an outgoing personality and a cheerful spirit. She enjoyed baking, quilting, gardening, going for long walks and was known for her many hours on the telephone staying connected with those she held dear.
Arlene is predeceased by her dad, Richard Carson, stepdad Jim Gray and brother-in-law Mark Parsons. She is survived by her husband of 31 years, Murray Thomas, her mom Mary Joan Gray,sister Louanne Parsons (Sunshine & Misty (Pam)), brother Rick (Val) Carson, sister Colleen (Steve) Brent and Jennifer Coultas. She also leaves behind step-children Tammy (Ted) Austin and Mike (Cheryl) Thomas and grandchildren, Katelynn, Emma, Dayton and Cooper. Her great nieces and nephews, Paige, Jayden, Hannah, Linden also survive her, along with too many friends to list, whom Arlene considered and treated like family.
Arlene will always be in our hearts and will be fondly remembered.
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that you take the time with your family to register as organ donors.
A Celebration on Life will be held at the Royal Colwood Golf Club on Sunday, November 5th at 1:00 p.m.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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I’m so sorry to see this Murray Arlene was the sweetest person and always so friendly. Sending you warm hugs.
Murray I am so sad about all of us losing Arlene. It simply not fair. Thinking about you. Keith.
So sorry to hear the news Murray. She’s in my thoughts.
Sorry for your loss Murray ❤️
Dear Murray and family
I Still am finding this very hard to believe, I will miss those words….what are you having for dinner “Jude” or what are you doing “jude” Nobody else called me that except for Arlene, you will be missed my dear friend but you certainly won’t be forgotten. Lots more very special memories, Mexico, you and I doing player registration at uplands……you were one of a kind in a very special way. Rest in peace dear friend.
Judy Griffin
Many memories come to mind when thinking of Arlene and her infectious laugh and smile, especially on our trip to Mexico with friends from the “open”. Thinking of you Murray and sending love, hugs and heartfelt condolences.
RIP Arlene….
A beautiful soul, RIP Arlene
I’m sitting here with tears in my eyes
Another day comes when I have to say my goodbyes
I can hear your voice
I remember your smile
I think I’ll just sit here
And treasure that memory awhile..
Your phone calls were uplifting we reminisced of the past
We laughed at it all, my God what a blast
We talked about friends and all the memories we keep
Thoughts for each other and how our love runs deep
My friend how I’ll be missing the thought you’re not here,
But I know in my heart you’ll always be near.
I’m sorry for your loss Muŕray..
Arlene will never be forgotten have many fun memories with both her and Murray…..will never forget when we all went to Mexico for one memory for sure. Save a place for all of us when we all join you one day…..
RIP
Arlene could make the sunshine on cloudy day.
RIP❤️❤️❤️